CarpeDiemCOS

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I'm new to the site.  Courtesans, please check out my page, read my "about me" please.  Looking to meet someone to pop my cherry here.  I'm NOOB to escorting but, have almost 2 years in "Sugar Daddy" background with only 2 women.  I'm a passionate, fun loving, educated, cerebral "Harley Daddy Type".  Have all kinds of interests from Harley's, Muscle Car's, travel, music, philanthropy, and on and on.   Courtesan's please, not looking for high volume type's that don't have something going in their live's.  I have pretty high standards and expectations and I love to connect with a woman other than at the finacial level.  that connection is to easily found.  Thanks in advance....

 

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Well you are going to have to build some cred's here with the ladies on the board first. Coming across that if your not low volume than they have "nothing going on in their lives" kind of disrespectful to to ladies on here imho. Telling how high your standards are to me is just saying that you don't think most of the ladies can meet those standards again very disrespectful. I would walk soft and learn the ropes on here before you just jump on with the high standards and high expectations post just my opinion take it or leave it.

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1 hour ago, CarpeDiemCOS said:

I'm new to the site.  Courtesans, please check out my page, read my "about me" please.  Looking to meet someone to pop my cherry here.  I'm NOOB to escorting but, have almost 2 years in "Sugar Daddy" background with only 2 women.  I'm a passionate, fun loving, educated, cerebral "Harley Daddy Type".  Have all kinds of interests from Harley's, Muscle Car's, travel, music, philanthropy, and on and on.   Courtesan's please, not looking for high volume type's that don't have something going in their live's.  I have pretty high standards and expectations and I love to connect with a woman other than at the finacial level.  that connection is to easily found.  Thanks in advance....

 

Geez, this isn't a dating site.  Just pick up the phone & make a call.

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7 hours ago, MAG said:

Geez, this isn't a dating site.  Just pick up the phone & make a call.

I appreciate the comment MAG, but geez, I called 2, and 24+ hours later still haven't gotten a response.  And although this isn't a dating site, there's always one's looking for a steady friendship, or whatever you want to call it.  Just figured putting some details on a profile allows one's that might be seeking something other than dealing with a non stop revolving door of activity.  Didn't intend to illicit response's from professional "consumer's" that troll forum boards for their entertainment either.  Being new and not knowing the ropes, protocol here, whatever, there's screening that women are referencing and many won't accept appointments without references, and on and on.  And with almost 1800 posts on here Mag, my guess is you're either a professional "dater" here, or just pretty proud of your opinion and accomplishments as a poster, I have no idea.  And being a betting man myself, a passive aggressive response is coming I'm sure.  And opinion's are like elbow's and asshole's, everyone has 1 and in most cases two.  Again, I do appreciate your response.  Oh, and, having gotten 7 messages this morning to wake up to, with 3 from my "type" and really well reviewed and interested ladies, my intent with the forum post and profile got the response I was hoping for....

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8 hours ago, rjb1354 said:

Well you are going to have to build some cred's here with the ladies on the board first. Coming across that if your not low volume than they have "nothing going on in their lives" kind of disrespectful to to ladies on here imho. Telling how high your standards are to me is just saying that you don't think most of the ladies can meet those standards again very disrespectful. I would walk soft and learn the ropes on here before you just jump on with the high standards and high expectations post just my opinion take it or leave it.

Thanks RJB, point is definitely taken...

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Sounds like you are looking for an "Arrangement"  not an escort.   While I am all about making a connection with the providers, it's a pay to play business.  

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11 hours ago, CarpeDiemCOS said:

I'm new to the site.  Courtesans, please check out my page, read my "about me" please.  Looking to meet someone to pop my cherry here.  I'm NOOB to escorting but, have almost 2 years in "Sugar Daddy" background with only 2 women.  I'm a passionate, fun loving, educated, cerebral "Harley Daddy Type".  Have all kinds of interests from Harley's, Muscle Car's, travel, music, philanthropy, and on and on.   Courtesan's please, not looking for high volume type's that don't have something going in their live's.  I have pretty high standards and expectations and I love to connect with a woman other than at the finacial level.  that connection is to easily found.  Thanks in advance....

 

Welcome  to board I guess, but not clear what you are doing  here. As Mag said - not a dating site. If you want another sugar daddy arrangement there are a few ladies that advertise that they offer that. But regardless of whether looking for SO, sugar baby or escort with no attachments, lose the condescending tone. There are many, many ladies in this biz with way more "going on" in their lives in every sense of the term than you are likely to ever see. And if educated and high standards are your schtick learn some spelling and punctuation skills, please. But welcome and good luck.

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17 minutes ago, gr8owl said:

Welcome  to board I guess, but not clear what you are doing  here. As Mag said - not a dating site. If you want another sugar daddy arrangement there are a few ladies that advertise that they offer that. But regardless of whether looking for SO, sugar baby or escort with no attachments, lose the condescending tone. There are many, many ladies in this biz with way more "going on" in their lives in every sense of the term than you are likely to ever see. And if educated and high standards are your schtick learn some spelling and punctuation skills, please. But welcome and good luck.

I appreciate the response gr8owl.  I had already taken the tone down from the initial post.  I don't think posts can be deleted however, or I would.  I hit return by accident and didn't catch the typo's and grammar mistakes prior to posting.  But, I always appreciate being called out for triviality.  And since my native language is German, I don't give much of a flip and don't take offense either.  I haven't found any providers looking for "arrangement's" per say in the Springs area.  Therefore I felt it would be OK to post what I'm seeking in "This" forum.  Sorry to ruffle so many feathers, I just felt this a better outlet  then the "arrangement" sites, they are loaded with, fake accounts, spammers and scammers. This page has a lot of exposure to ladies that have verifiable reviews and it seemed a good source.  Thank-you for the welcome...

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13 hours ago, CarpeDiemCOS said:

I'm new to the site.  Courtesans, please check out my page, read my "about me" please.  Looking to meet someone to pop my cherry here.  I'm NOOB to escorting but, have almost 2 years in "Sugar Daddy" background with only 2 women.  I'm a passionate, fun loving, educated, cerebral "Harley Daddy Type".  Have all kinds of interests from Harley's, Muscle Car's, travel, music, philanthropy, and on and on.   Courtesan's please, not looking for high volume type's that don't have something going in their live's.  I have pretty high standards and expectations and I love to connect with a woman other than at the finacial level.  that connection is to easily found.  Thanks in advance....

 

Thanks for the intro, Sugar Daddy errrr CarpeDiem. No one really cares about your likes and dislikes here. Either contribute to the discussion or contact one of the many lovely providers for a personal introduction and save the BIO for Match.com

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I have the assume the OP is not clear about the role of this site and board.  This is not about the guys putting their resume out there and then hoping the ladies are intrigued and ask to meet.  If anything, it's the opposite.  I know others have said it, but the OP needs to spend more time reading on here, before he does a lot of posting.  He needs to do some research and then pick a couple of ladies and schedule appointment and see if there is mutual interest in a sugar daddy-type of relationship. I think that makes more sense then asking the interested ladies to come to you.  I've never pursued that type of relationship, so it is very possible that I am wrong.  I guess it is also possible that the OP has only make the one post because he is so busy reading all of the PM he is getting from the interested ladies.

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4 hours ago, CarpeDiemCOS said:

And being a betting man myself, a passive aggressive response is coming I'm sure.

You win the bet, but the passive-aggressive response didn't come from me.....

2 hours ago, CarpeDiemCOS said:

 But, I always appreciate being called out for triviality.

There it is.

<sarcasm>  You're off to a "great" start here, Carp.  :D    </sarcasm>

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2 hours ago, CarpeDiemCOS said:

I appreciate the response gr8owl.  I had  But, I always appreciate being called out for triviality.  And since my native language is German, I don't give much of a flip

I do not make it a habit to call anyone out on grammar and spelling EXCEPT when they brag on their education and display a general tone of condescension.  Perhaps it is just that posts to forums, like email and text, are devoid of voice and body clues and easily taken wrong. Not surprised you were contacted by interested ladies - hopefully with good intent. As i said there are some open to what you seek. The waters also contain a shark or two. Good luck. Sincerely. 

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I for one did not find anything wrong with your post Carpe, but I unlike others on this board don't see this forum as a one size fits all kind of board like others. I'm fairly new on this board as well but have been reading long enough to know there are a number of real asses on this board who like to try and tell everyone that's posts that they are doing it all wrong. 

I find it funny that only these asses are the ones who are taking objection and not the ladies who are your real audience. Am I right Carpe?

Just do your thing Carpe and don't worry too much about the feedback you'll get from these guys. It will never change , trust me.

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Well I for one may have to "borrow" bits of the first post for my profile. It seems to be getting lots of attention. Just add in the part about, "If you look like my sister-in-law, you can have my debit card. 

 

 

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Where is the "about me" stuff to read. Also under gender you are listed as female. Might want to chanel that.

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In my profile it ask me for my gender twice. I find that to be very inclusive. 

 

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28 minutes ago, Melissa Sterling said:

Where is the "about me" stuff to read. Also under gender you are listed as female. Might want to chanel that.

:D chanel being female eh lmao. I know. Autocorrect sucks, but funny when happens to someone else!

The about me would appear as a tab on the activity header underneath profile visitors. Was there, assume deleted.

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7 hours ago, CarpeDiemCOS said:

Sorry to ruffle so many feathers...

Don't worry, many people have started ruffling some feathers. Nothing wrong to being new and not knowing the waters you are swimming into. Just contribute to the board and the feathers will be relaxed and nicely combed again :)

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Everyone is entitled to a mistake now and than the important thing is to learn from them and move on. That being said welcome to the board and have fun and enjoy yourself.

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On 12/27/2016 at 10:40 PM, MAG said:

Geez, this isn't a dating site.  Just pick up the phone & make a call.

😂👏 This is awesome! 

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On 12/27/2016 at 8:49 PM, CarpeDiemCOS said:

I'm new to the site.  Courtesans, please check out my page, read my "about me" please.  Looking to meet someone to pop my cherry here.  I'm NOOB to escorting but, have almost 2 years in "Sugar Daddy" background with only 2 women.  I'm a passionate, fun loving, educated, cerebral "Harley Daddy Type".  Have all kinds of interests from Harley's, Muscle Car's, travel, music, philanthropy, and on and on.   Courtesan's please, not looking for high volume type's that don't have something going in their live's.  I have pretty high standards and expectations and I love to connect with a woman other than at the finacial level.  that connection is to easily found.  Thanks in advance....

 

Welcome to TOB. 

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Welcome to TOB! Lots of great women! You are sure to find that connection if you are doing your research. 

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On 12/28/2016 at 10:00 AM, MrBigShot said:

Thanks for the intro, Sugar Daddy errrr CarpeDiem. No one really cares about your likes and dislikes here. Either contribute to the discussion or contact one of the many lovely providers for a personal introduction and save the BIO for Match.com

LOL:lol:

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On 12/28/2016 at 2:39 PM, Melissa Sterling said:

Where is the "about me" stuff to read. Also under gender you are listed as female. Might want to chanel that.

Dang it, CHANGE that not chanel!

Hope you don't let the ruffled feathers run you off. There's a lot of great people here. Some of them need to remember they were once new too. 

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I'm new here too (In C.S as well).    Maybe spelling out the type of lady you like (age, weight, body type, hair color) might narrow down the newbie friendly providers.  Good luck with your search.

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