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No Married Men Allowed?

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I was scrolling through the "body rub" section of Back Page recently and saw a fairly well known lady with a "no married men" requirement listed in her ad. I'm wondering: Why do you think she has this requirement? Have you seen it before?  I'm thinking if all the ladies implemented this policy, business would be considerably lighter.  

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One reason could be that some married men, like to use there real world phone number. They don't delete things like text message and phone numbers they have called. the wife gets suspicious. Then wife finds out who the escort is that her husband has been seeing. Some wives show up at our incalls or they call us. 

The provider your referencing is very loving kind hearted and total sweetheart. She probably doesn't want to deal potential drama. If she had a bad experience. 

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I would think that a girlfriend could cause just as much drama, wouldn't you think?

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I read that ad also then moved on to the next ad.  I struck me as silly and unenforceable.   If she removed that requirement, her business would probably triple.

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19 minutes ago, inkspot said:

I read that ad also then moved on to the next ad.  I struck me as silly and unenforceable.   If she removed that requirement, her business would probably triple.

In all honestly it probably doesn't have much impact on her business. Most potential clients don't read an entire ad and if they do actually read it they're likely to lie about being married if they really wanted to see her.

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40 minutes ago, Lucy Kitten said:

In all honestly it probably doesn't have much impact on her business. Most potential clients don't read an entire ad and if they do actually read it they're likely to lie about being married if they really wanted to see her.

Come on....  someone lie about whether they're married?  You must be high.   :P

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10 hours ago, Nikki Holiday said:

One reason could be that some married men, like to use there real world phone number. They don't delete things like text message and phone numbers they have called. the wife gets suspicious. Then wife finds out who the escort is that her husband has been seeing. Some wives show up at our incalls or they call us. 

The provider your referencing is very loving kind hearted and total sweetheart. She probably doesn't want to deal potential drama. If she had a bad experience. 

I agree, Another reason I do not offer INCALL, this exact thing has happened to me more than once! And when it does happen it leaves you freaked out for the whole day. 

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I saw that ad also. Then moved on to the next ad without hesitation. It's her prerogative to see whoever she wants. Who am I to say otherwise?

I hope she does well and thrives on BP or wherever she advertises. It seems, from listening to the providers who post here, that business is slow for everyone.

I'd just like to wish her success.

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54 minutes ago, Phil-anderer said:

Come on....  someone lie about whether they're married?  You must be high.   :P

But but but .... it's a STRICT policy.  Surely that would cut down on the lying.  :cool:

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If it is the lady i am thinking of she has religious beliefs that conflict with being an accomplis to adultery.  Not a common misgiving here for sure, but i certainly respect her belief. Now enforcement is another matter - willing to lie to spouse probably willing to lie to escort!!! I dont have that complication.:cool:

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Fortunately, not having an SO, I won't have to lie to her if/when I see her and she is on my bucket list. She is entitled to place limitations with whom she desires to conduct business. While she may possibly be missing out on some potential earnings, she seems to have a reputation and is desirable enough, she probably has more than enough company. 

Just as there are providers who have age limitations i.e. no one > early 50's, > 60's, she is just stating her preference and probably wants to avoid the drama and complications caused by a less than discrete client with an SO.

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52 minutes ago, gr8owl said:

If it is the lady i am thinking of she has religious beliefs that conflict with being an accomplis to adultery.  Not a common misgiving here for sure, but i certainly respect her belief. Now enforcement is another matter - willing to lie to spouse probably willing to lie to escort!!! I dont have that complication.:cool:

So, her religion doesn't allow adultery, but it allows prostitution?  :confused:

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To each their own.  If that's her preference , so be it.   Yea you could lie to her.  But really, why?

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3 hours ago, MAG said:

So, her religion doesn't allow adultery, but it allows prostitution?  :confused:

While I think the OP is a shining example of why someone wouldn't want to see married men, and I think if he really needed to know he could have addressed his question to her directly; your keen arbitration of her religious preferences is, once again, woefully inadequate.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sacred_prostitution

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Wow, this seemingly innocuous thread just took a dramatic turn.  Pass the popcorn........

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4 hours ago, MAG said:

So, her religion doesn't allow adultery, but it allows prostitution?  :confused:

So what's the conflict, here? I really don't see this as a religious conundrum rather a provider who wishes to reduce the potential drama in her life. I applaud her for being so blunt in her ad and don't see why there's an issue with the wording of an ad.

If it catches on and she's suddenly doing more business than she'd ever imagined, more providers may follow her lead and exclude mm's as well. Who knows? Maybe she'll start a trend.

Wouldn't that be something?

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42 minutes ago, MrReindeer-9515 said:

While I think the OP is a shining example of why someone wouldn't want to see married men, and I think if he really needed to know he could have addressed his question to her directly; your keen arbitration of her religious preferences is, once again, woefully inadequate.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sacred_prostitution

This rationalization would be astonishing coming from anyone else.  However, something like this from someone like you is, well, predictable  :cool:

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I have declined a few guys because they are married and it was because they were using a home phone which was connected to fb, etc.

Us ladies do not need the drama, and if you are going to be dumb enough to not hide your activity-that is on you. There are so many ways to be discreet, and if being denied to see us ladies is going to smarten them up then so be it.

Like others have said, I am sure she is doing just fine.

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On 12/12/2016 at 11:14 PM, Nikki Holiday said:

One reason could be that some married men, like to use there real world phone number. They don't delete things like text message and phone numbers they have called. the wife gets suspicious. Then wife finds out who the escort is that her husband has been seeing. Some wives show up at our incalls or they call us. 

The provider your referencing is very loving kind hearted and total sweetheart. She probably doesn't want to deal potential drama. If she had a bad experience. 

Well as in all things  a provider always has the right to see whom ever they choose or choose not to see. Hygiene, attitude, and many other concerns can effect if a provider sees a client if this is her rules so be it. What ever her reason she choose to put this rule in effect it is her right to do it so if it does not fit for you move on.

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22 hours ago, MAG said:

So, her religion doesn't allow adultery, but it allows prostitution?  :confused:

Since i dont know for sure we are talking about one and the same lady it would be silly for me to try to explain her beliefs. I have a hard enough time explaining mine lol!!! Just throwing out as one possibility since OP was asking.

But adultery and escorting are two ENTIRELY different things. As usual the reasons stated by several ladies relative to drama etc make a great deal of sense.

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On December 13, 2016 at 5:24 PM, MAG said:

This rationalization would be astonishing coming from anyone else.  However, something like this from someone like you is, well, predictable  :cool:

Fascinating responses. This "predictable" response referenced by MAG is in my blocked category anyway. I don't need the inexplicable hate and general idiocy.

As for Nikki's response, that is likely the reason, and religion may well play a part. I wonder if she sees that tell-tale tan line where a ring has been removed and gets suspicious.  Hey, it's her business and she can do whatever she likes. I agree with Ink that such limitations likely limit her income. I also think that married men may ultimately be more discrete and less of a headache for most ladies. However, I really have no clue about that, and I may be totally wrong. 

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I have to admit, this is the first time I have come across a provider discriminating against married men.  I think we should get some signs and picket "End Discrimination Against Married Men Trying To Get Laid".  That will get the point across!

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On 12/13/2016 at 0:00 PM, gr8owl said:

If it is the lady i am thinking of she has religious beliefs that conflict with being an accomplis to adultery.  Not a common misgiving here for sure, but i certainly respect her belief. Now enforcement is another matter - willing to lie to spouse probably willing to lie to escort!!! I dont have that complication.:cool:

It is and that's why. Not big on religion myself. But her belief ain't hurting nobody so it don't matter. 

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17 hours ago, inkspot said:

I have to admit, this is the first time I have come across a provider discriminating against married men.  I think we should get some signs and picket "End Discrimination Against Married Men Trying To Get Laid".  That will get the point across!

Maybe the SO's will be across the street with their own signs after these Gents have outed themselves by carrying signs as you've suggested in Jest.

"SO's of the lying, cheating, bastards carrying signs and whining about not getting laid"

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