Newbie curious about screening

[KenDoll16]

Hey guys and gals. I am looking to enjoy services offered here but I am concerned about screening processes, so i have just a few questions.

When a provider wants references, what does that mean and how do I get references?

What information is gathered on you to screen you?

Thanks a bunch!

[BadLeroyBrown]

I'd recommend seeing a provider who is "newbie" friendly, that is willing to offer you references later upon respectfully submitted request for such references. I'm sure you've had at least one,  or two hits in your inbox regarding these such providers. Saddly, you must work your way up the chain "young padawan". May the force be with you!

Edited November 2, 2016 by BadLeroyBrown

[Lucy Kitten]

4 hours ago, KenDoll16 said:

Hey guys and gals. I am looking to enjoy services offered here but I am concerned about screening processes, so i have just a few questions.

When a provider wants references, what does that mean and how do I get references?

What information is gathered on you to screen you?

Thanks a bunch!

I don't know why but something about this post just reeks.

[pfunk]

4 hours ago, KenDoll16 said:

Hey guys and gals. I am looking to enjoy services offered here but I am concerned about screening processes, so i have just a few questions.

When a provider wants references, what does that mean and how do I get references?

What information is gathered on you to screen you?

Thanks a bunch!

Search the board (see "search" in the upper right corner) for "newbie", "screening", and "references". You'll find answers to your questions, and more. You will have to spend some time reading, though! Good luck! 

[BadLeroyBrown]

1 hour ago, Lucy Kitten said:

I don't know why but something about this post just reeks.

The hardest part I feel of getting into this hobby is knowing what's acceptable to ask or not. It sucks there is not really a handbook, or guideline for people to go by when stepping into the pool. 

Edited November 2, 2016 by BadLeroyBrown

[Guest]

2 minutes ago, BadLeroyBrown said:

The hardest part I feel of getting into this hobby is knowing what's acceptable to ask or not. It sucks there is not really a handbook, or guideline for people to go by when stepping into the pool. 

The internet, handbook written   

Seriously though, google is quite helpful. If i may offer a suggestion. Try visiting the providers websites more time than the theme is to have an etiquette section that gives you a ball park.  I think its mostly common sense though providers want to be safe, clients want to be safe. Trust your instincts. 

Try an agency although agencies scam too unfortunately. No oversight' like in porn maybe one day.  To get your feet wet.  newbie friendly is always a good suggestion. Being a good client will get you the references you seek I feel.

 

@Lucy Kitten : this is strictly me talking out of my arse, but I read it as genuine. Felt like a real question. I could be wrong, very wrong.

[Guest]

6 hours ago, KenDoll16 said:

Hey guys and gals. I am looking to enjoy services offered here but I am concerned about screening processes, so i have just a few questions.

When a provider wants references, what does that mean and how do I get references?

What information is gathered on you to screen you?

Thanks a bunch!

It would be very foolish for any provider to give out her screening methods. 

[Guest]

Ok.

Pardon me for channeling Nikki, but the easiest, most simple, and professional way to do this is to go to P411.com and follow their directions for getting screened.  They are a hobby match-making site, based in Canada.

They will ask you some very personal questions in an effort to determine your identity. IMHO, doing this once is preferable to repeatedly doing this with multiple providers.  Also, IMHO, they are a reputable business.

Once you pass muster, you will have an account you can use to meet other P411 certified providers.  Even though you have managements stamp of approval, you still have to prove that you are polite, prompt, trustworthy, generous, and clean. At first, you will be limited to those ladies who are "newbie friendly", i.e. willing to see you without "OKAYS."  You should...as much as possible, seek out those ladies, follow their instructions EXPLICITLY, and put your best foot forward.  If you do, they will give you an "OKAY."  Once you have two or more oks, the world is your oyster.

 

[BadBoy]

I'm with Lucy Kitten on this one.  As I recall KenDoll had no genitalia, just a curious rounded hump.  Why would he be interested in young ladies, unless it was for nefarious reasons?  He did look sharp in the Police Uniform though (although I always wanted to be more like GI Joe). 

Barbie, maybe you could help him out. 

[Paul Pudenda]

If they ask for your picture or other form of ID, just move on.  Anoymity is key here.  Find someone who is newbie friendly, be normal, and ask her if you can use her as a reference.

[KenDoll16]

I apologize if my question seems a bit off putting. I've had my name, address, occupation, etc used against me before, so it makes me a bit hesitant. Sorry.

Secondly, I have a hard time when in comes to intimate connections with the ladies. Thus, I turned to a higher-end sex doll (hence my screen name). As you might guess she only helps so much and I constantly find myself on the fence about paying someone for an intimate connection. At the same time I get concerned about my own safety and privacy.

[Wannabebad]

Ok now even I'm a little creeped out. Don't know why but I am. 

[Guest]

KenDoll

If I might interject. I think soley based off your last post, that you might want to take a look at some deeper issues my friend. We are strangers, if I might offer some advice:

- The providers and even Doll

- Are supplements to your healthy sex life. 

- They are not subtitutues. 

You might want to seek out some help on dealing with high levels of social anxiety, even if self research, but if you're going to seek treatment get it form a professional. Talking/dealing with ladies is the same as dealing with friends ( guys)  maybe not exactly ( dick and fart jokes ) but for the most part. They are human like you and  like me. They dont bite ( that cost more!) but you have a hurdle and you might need some assistance getting over it. I think once you get over that you'll find all your expeiences are more enjoyable and fullfilling. 

If your axeity/fear grips you to question screening then its to a point its affecting your life and you need to take a look at it.

 

just my 0.02 worth.

Edited November 3, 2016 by C E

[MAG]

19 hours ago, Lucy Kitten said:

I don't know why but something about this post just reeks.

Agreed.  Shit, that's twice in one week.

The OP can find what he needs in the archives.  Anything he can't find, he probably SHOULDN'T find.

[Wendy Whitney]

17 hours ago, BadLeroyBrown said:

The hardest part I feel of getting into this hobby is knowing what's acceptable to ask or not. It sucks there is not really a handbook, or guideline for people to go by when stepping into the pool. 

The OP has one post asking about screening methods. That is the red flag!

[Phil-anderer]

Dude, is your doll back talking you?  I hate when that happens.

[Guest]

10 hours ago, KenDoll16 said:

I apologize if my question seems a bit off putting. I've had my name, address, occupation, etc used against me before, so it makes me a bit hesitant. Sorry.

Huh? By a provider, or as a requirement of having to register as a Sex Offender as part of your re-introduction back into society after serving your sentence?

[Guest]

11 hours ago, KenDoll16 said:

I apologize if my question seems a bit off putting. I've had my name, address, occupation, etc used against me before, so it makes me a bit hesitant. Sorry.

Secondly, I have a hard time when in comes to intimate connections with the ladies. Thus, I turned to a higher-end sex doll (hence my screen name). As you might guess she only helps so much and I constantly find myself on the fence about paying someone for an intimate connection. At the same time I get concerned about my own safety and privacy.

Sounds like you've been around for a while. Long enough to have your information used against you. Iv said it 💯 times..... Then you already know that giving out real information is dangerous in this game. It's huge risk. Getting a P411 account is the best option for you. 

Obviously 🙄 some people here now think you might be law enforcement now based on your post... lol. "I'm not having fun until you dial 911" jk jk lol 😂 

 

Edited November 3, 2016 by Nikki Holiday

[Happymon]

19 hours ago, pfunk said:

Search the board (see "search" in the upper right corner) for "newbie", "screening", and "references". You'll find answers to your questions, and more. You will have to spend some time reading, though! Good luck! 

I'm continually amazed at the people who can navigate the internet to find this site and then have the skills to register, but can't manage to use the search function. 

[Lustyleah]

11 hours ago, KenDoll16 said:

I apologize if my question seems a bit off putting. I've had my name, address, occupation, etc used against me before, so it makes me a bit hesitant. Sorry.

Secondly, I have a hard time when in comes to intimate connections with the ladies. Thus, I turned to a higher-end sex doll (hence my screen name). As you might guess she only helps so much and I constantly find myself on the fence about paying someone for an intimate connection. At the same time I get concerned about my own safety and privacy.

Sounds like he might want to stick with what he knows.I don't feel you should ever ask a lady about how or what she's using to screen for her protection that moves into the creepy end of the pool IMHO.

[BadLeroyBrown]

5 hours ago, Wendy Whitney said:

The OP has one post asking about screening methods. That is the red flag!

I've never once seen a lady who required references, because I know what can happen when you put your real information out. If I chose to see a lady that required references, I'd have the exact same mindset, and questions. All I'm sayin...

[BadLeroyBrown]

5 hours ago, Nikki Holiday said:

Sounds like you've been around for a while. Long enough to have your information used against you. Iv said it 💯 times..... Then you already know that giving out real information is dangerous in this game. It's huge risk. Getting a P411 account is the best option for you. 

Obviously 🙄 some people here now think you might be law enforcement now based on your post... lol. "I'm not having fun until you dial 911" jk jk lol 😂 

 

Is it wrong to ask to utilize another man's doll? Like am I wrong for even considering the possibility? Really all I would like to know! If not do you think it is customary to clean the doll out once done, like I imagine it would be considered extremely rude to leave the "gas tank" on full in this instance. I'm going to hell aren't I! Damn... 😇😇😇😈😈😈😈 Yep, my guardian angels are definitely outnumbered all the time.

Edited November 3, 2016 by BadLeroyBrown

[Guest]

5 hours ago, Wendy Whitney said:

The OP has one post asking about screening methods. That is the red flag!

 

7 minutes ago, BadLeroyBrown said:

I've never once seen a lady who required references, because I know what can happen when you put your real information out. If I chose to see a lady that required references, I'd have the exact same mindset, and questions. All I'm sayin...

Both Wendy and BLB are in the right. We can argue to disagree or agree. We all are going to have valid points here. The providers need to remain safe from both Law Enforcement aka Vice and the FBI who worked with Vice on the occasion, and from address collectors and the idiots. The guys need to avoid the BSC hookers and protect their identity and their career family. By getting a p411 account this is happy medium for both sides. Clients don't give out their personal info to providers. Thousands of Providers accept this method of screening all day long. 

11 minutes ago, BadLeroyBrown said:

Is it wrong to ask to utilize another man's doll? Like am I wrong for even considering the possibility? Really all I would like to know! If not do you think it is customary to clean the doll out once done, like I imagine it would be considered extremely rude to leave the "gas tank" on full in this instance. I'm going to hell aren't I! Damn... 😇😇😇😈😈😈😈 Yep, my guardian angels are definitely outnumbered all the time.

OMG smalls WTF....... 😈

[BadLeroyBrown]

4 minutes ago, Nikki Holiday said:

OMG smalls WTF....... 😈

Too much...?!?!? 😂😂😂 My bad! I'ma reel that one back in, haha! Kendoll please disregard that DM, haha j/k

Edited November 3, 2016 by BadLeroyBrown

[Guest]

16 hours ago, KenDoll16 said:

I apologize if my question seems a bit off putting. I've had my name, address, occupation, etc used against me before, so it makes me a bit hesitant. Sorry.

Secondly, I have a hard time when in comes to intimate connections with the ladies. Thus, I turned to a higher-end sex doll (hence my screen name). As you might guess she only helps so much and I constantly find myself on the fence about paying someone for an intimate connection. At the same time I get concerned about my own safety and privacy.

😈😈😈😈😈😈😈 

You got brass balls baby for posting that. Now we all know what sex doll your creaming in on the daily lol. That must be peaceful AF. lol 

So I'm just wondering is KenDoll a female or male?

https://sexdollwarehouse.com

 

[KenDoll16]

Thanks to those who understood where I was coming from. However, I just don't think I feel comfortable or safe enough to look further into the hobby.

And Nikki, my doll's name is actually Ty, short for Tyler.

[Guest]

22 minutes ago, KenDoll16 said:

Thanks to those who understood where I was coming from. However, I just don't think I feel comfortable or safe enough to look further into the hobby.

I gave you an option on how to play that is fair for both sides. Im sorry you don't feel comfortable. Dont let the SexDoll  run you off from having good time. 

[Running with Scissors]

I read this post when it first came out last night and I was like "well this should be good entertainment". Now I am like Holley Hell this is a train wreck of WTF? Too funny!

[Lustyleah]

19 hours ago, KenDoll16 said:

Thanks to those who understood where I was coming from. However, I just don't think I feel comfortable or safe enough to look further into the hobby.

And Nikki, my doll's name is actually Ty, short for Tyler.

TMI this is more info than I want to know now I'm going to be creeped out for a few days so things are hard to forget lol

[daaacz]

20 hours ago, KenDoll16 said:

Those doll eyes are burning into my soul!

 

...and if you're ever ready to jump in, KenDoll, there are some great ladies here. Lots of them really enjoy meeting people with different needs. Just be super communicative (although I'd recommend keeping it private) if/when the time comes.  I hope it all works out for you.