Reason not to repeat

[geecue2]

11 minutes ago, hobbyer said:

Most of my escapades are out of town; I rarely repeat when I am out of town. I haven't seen a whole lot of ladies in CO. I didn't write much review as they have a bunch already.

Ok, then maybe you should see more of the Colorado ladies, in my opinion when you see a lady out of town, sure she is going to be real nice to you, but deep down like you are saying there is not going to be any kind of connection. She would be thinking I might see him months from now. If that is what you are really looking for is repeating with some ladies see more of the Colorado ladies.

[geecue2]

4 minutes ago, ilovewomen said:

You should see more local ladies then and maybe you would feel better about the hobby.

 

2 minutes ago, geecue2 said:

Ok, then maybe you should see more of the Colorado ladies, in my opinion when you see a lady out of town, sure she is going to be real nice to you, but deep down like you are saying there is not going to be any kind of connection. She would be thinking I might see him months from now. If that is what you are really looking for is repeating with some ladies see more of the Colorado ladies.

Lol

[hobbyer]

15 minutes ago, ilovewomen said:

You should see more local ladies then and maybe you would feel better about the hobby.

geecue, ilovewomen: that's the problem! I won't mention any names but when the ladies become more familiar, there is no incentive to play nice any more. Unfortunately, I do not get to travel as much as I like. So, I cannot hobby out of town.

Laci-French: I was not referring to you per se as we have never met. Please, there is no reason to be upset.

[geecue2]

Ok now you are confusing me first you say ,I haven't seen a whole lot of ladies in CO.  Then you say, that's the problem! I won't mention any names but when the ladies become more familiar, there is no incentive to play nice any more. You still talking about CO ladies.

[hobbyer]

46 minutes ago, ilovewomen said:

6 minutes ago, geecue2 said:

Ok now you are confusing me first you say ,I haven't seen a whole lot of ladies in CO.  Then you say, that's the problem! I won't mention any names but when the ladies become more familiar, there is no incentive to play nice any more. You still talking about CO ladies.

Relatively speaking, I don't see too many ladies in CO. The only ones I repeat are in CO, hence the problem! When I am out of town, I rarely repeat. No repeat - no problem!

Edited October 19, 2016 by hobbyer

[ilovewomen]

6 minutes ago, hobbyer said:

 

How are the ladies you repeat with taking advantage of you.

May I suggest you research, research and research the CO ladies by reading their reviews and their posts and then decide by the research who you would like to see.

You can tell a lot about a person by reading their posts.

Maybe I have been lucky, but I have never run into a lady who has taken advantage of me.

 

[Vassago]

I understand after a few visits, a feeling of disassociation creeps in. There are very few human beings, for example, that I have much in common with. Sooner or later the alienated feeling creeps in. The comfort level starts to deteriorate, and I begin to feel self conscious. This goes for inside and outside the hobby. I'm OK being alone spiritually. It's just a state of existence I have come to understand. And let's face it. If hell turns out to be loneliness forever, I'd say I'm better adapted to it than most. Many years ago this realization depressed me, that feeling of 'I don't belong on this planet'. Over the years I have learned to accept that while I walk this earth alone and mostly misunderstood, my penis still insists on doing what all the other penises are fucking insisting on doing. Ultimately I just said fuck it. Life is too short to be taken seriously.

[geecue2]

I won't mention any names but when the ladies become more familiar, there is no incentive to play nice any more. Well in my opinion it is time to start reviewing then. You are a hobbyer right. There are ladies out there that are really do care to get to know their clients. Like you cannot mention any names, but I have joked with her that we have to find a way to clone her because, she has so many guys, that really do like her company. Not only that but she actually likes there company. Hobby well and prosper Hobbyer.

[Guest]

8 hours ago, hobbyer said:

MAG:

Yes, it's better not to repeat...if you repeat, don't do too much.

Alot of providers just want to make money. There is always a new sucker around the corner (maybe I am one of them). They don't really care once they have your money.

I do have bad experience, both past and present. The past is not worth mentioning. As for the present, unfortunately, I cannot mention it. 

  

 

Some of us don't need the money, we choose to this for fun and the money 💰 is a perk. Not sure who they hell your fucking but. Sounds like someone took advantage of you. I hope you find the gals. 

I want to personally thank every gentleman who has seen me more than once, my sugar daddy's and the regulars. 

 

[hobbyer]

36 minutes ago, ilovewomen said:

How are the ladies you repeat with taking advantage of you.

Reviews tend to exaggerate because clients do not want to offend SPs. I can give you an example. Lady spend too much time playing with phone, right in front of me or in bathroom or off to some corner of the room for 30+ min total on and off. This did not occur initially. The length of time playing with phone increases with increasing visit. I walked out and let her play with phone. Another old story....lady needed money for a jam...lady got money and did not return texts/calls.

 

[hobbyer]

31 minutes ago, Nikki Holiday said:

Some of us don't need the money, we choose to this for fun and the money 💰 is a perk. Not sure who they hell your fucking but. Sounds like someone took advantage of you. I hope you find the gals. 

Nikki, geecue: you are too kind.

[Vassago]

15 minutes ago, hobbyer said:

 

This hobby means different things to different people. To me, it is a dichotomy. A Dr. Jekyll & Mr. Hyde waking dream. The Langoliers, by Stephen King. Basically a bunch of snakes start eating reality and everything inside it. I feel like that as each minute passes during a session, a film negative version of those langoliers start consuming my fantasy. Eventually there will be nothing left, but harsh reality. I have a personal life, like most do. Family, relations, business, fucking Starbucks, leadership seminars, neck ties, PowerPoint presentations, lunches, meetings, holy shit just fucking sedate me already. 

 

Then, there is this hobby, a Mr. Hyde world, a temporary reprieve, my other self. The problem is, it doesn't last forever. What's the solution? I don't know. Adapt. Enjoy what you can out of it while you can. If that means never going back for seconds, so be it. You don't have to feel ashamed about it. If you want to go for a few visits and then move on, great. 

 

Eventually though, if you can't come to grips with reality, you're gonna turn into John fucking Hinckley. And nobody wants to turn into that guy. Not even John fucking Hinckley.

[Guest]

Positive side of ordering hookers 

at the end of the day you don't have to give up your 401(k) and all of your assets that you spent a lifetime earning. We are paid to leave!the girls who abuse and use clients NEXT

 

Edited October 19, 2016 by Nikki Holiday

[pointymoustache]

Repeat Post - I have a regular and like it that way.  We meet weekly at the same time and do about the same things.  I have tried others and enjoy the meeting and learning experience, but I fear the obvious things like LE. As for her I provide a steady income she can count on and someone with whom she can talk and confide. The biggie is getting too close.  We both need to accept that this is basically a business relationship.  I have no intention of breaking up my permanent relationship and she wouldn't want me because of our age difference.  Also she say that she would feel uncomfortable sleeping with someone all night on a regular basis.   I think most men want and need some variety in their lives and she certainly need more than one client.  So-o-o being a regular doesn't mean being exclusive.  However, it is nice knowing that I'll have regular sex.

[Guest]

List of reasons to not repeat 

1. You don't know how to wash your body. 

2. You show up drunk 😵 

3. You discuss rates and services. this includes the negotiator. if you discuss rate or services I'll never see you. 

4. You out a providers location during our session, this means you'll rat my location out to someone else. 

5. Shit on my sheets. 

6. Can't follow instructions on how to get here. 

7. You pull a NCNS. 

8. You don't pay your last min (I'm ready and waiting) cancellation fee for wasting my time. 

9. Your a providers boyfriend or husband ill purposely give you the shittisty services ever had. 

10. Your no fun durning the session, your like dead fish. 

11. You get out the shower soaking wet and water goes all over my hardwood floors

Edited October 21, 2016 by Nikki Holiday

[ironman318]

1 hour ago, Nikki Holiday said:

List of reasons to not repeat 

1. You don't know how to wash your body. 

2. You show up drunk 😵 

3. You discuss rates and services. this includes the negotiator. if you discuss rate or services I'll never see you. 

4. You out a providers location during our session, this means you'll rat my location out to someone else. 

5. Shit on my sheets. 

6. Can't follow instructions on how to get here. 

7. You pull a NCNS. 

8. You don't pay your last min (I'm ready and waiting) cancellation fee for wasting my time. 

9. Your a providers boyfriend or husband ill purposely give you the shittisty services ever had. 

10. Your no fun durning the session, your like dead fish. 

11. You get out the shower soaking wet and water goes all over my hardwood floors

^^^+1,000^^^ LMAO!

[gr8owl]

4 hours ago, Nikki Holiday said:

 

9. Your a providers boyfriend or husband ill purposely give you the shittisty services ever had. 

11. You get out the shower soaking wet and water goes all over my hardwood floors

Damn straight on the other 9.

9. - uhhh, why ???  How about a former provider lol??

11. Really - hardwood floor with no rug in bathroom??????

[Guest]

32 minutes ago, gr8owl said:

Damn straight on the other 9.

9. - uhhh, why ???  How about a former provider lol?? smart ass 😜

11. Really - hardwood floor with no rug in bathroom??????

I have 3 rugs. So what does that tell you. Somebody is a moron and doesn't know how to dry off properly. 

[gr8owl]

15 minutes ago, Nikki Holiday said:

I have 3 rugs. So what does that tell you. Somebody is a moron and doesn't know how to dry off properly. 

OK, very good reason then!!

But as to number 9 - no, I am NOT being a smart ass, sorry if it seemed I was.  I am trying to understand why, and then applying to the fact I have been known to date current or former escorts - and more.  Does that mean I could expect the shittiest services ever from you, and seriously why?  I don't get it.  And if other ladies agree - then REALLY why??

[Guest]

1 hour ago, gr8owl said:

OK, very good reason then!!

But as to number 9 - no, I am NOT being a smart ass, sorry if it seemed I was.  I am trying to understand why, and then applying to the fact I have been known to date current or former escorts - and more.  Does that mean I could expect the shittiest services ever from you, and seriously why?  I don't get it.  And if other ladies agree - then REALLY why??

Its asking for potential drama/trouble. Dont need the bullshit drama in my life. I don't need other hookers knowing my location. Or other issues with drama. Its even on my advertisement. "I don't see provider boyfriends/husbands." Hey at lease Im up front and honest. You know what your getting into. If you show up I will purposely give you the absolute worst service you could ever get. If you where to write me a bad review, I would even suck it up, and admit to the shitty service and why. The gentlemen will not get any lame ass excuse. Under these cercimstances this would include you.

PS I am honest and upfront. 

Edited October 21, 2016 by Nikki Holiday

[Guest]

1 hour ago, gr8owl said:

OK, very good reason then!!

But as to number 9 - no, I am NOT being a smart ass, sorry if it seemed I was.  I am trying to understand why, and then applying to the fact I have been known to date current or former escorts - and more.  Does that mean I could expect the shittiest services ever from you, and seriously why?  I don't get it.  And if other ladies agree - then REALLY why??

I forgot to mention providers boyfriends have been known to have very big mouths and go back tell the escort girlfriend. No thanks

[gr8owl]

1 hour ago, Nikki Holiday said:

Its asking for potential drama/trouble. Dont need the bullshit drama in my life. I don't need other hookers knowing my location. Or other issues with drama. Its even on my advertisement. "I don't see provider boyfriends/husbands." Hey at lease Im up front and honest. You know what your getting into. If you show up I will purposely give you the absolute worst service you could ever get. If you where to write me a bad review, I would even suck it up, and admit to the shitty service and why. The gentlemen will not get any lame ass excuse. Under these cercimstances this would include you.

PS I am honest and upfront. 

Awww, don't try to sweet talk me! LOL 

Fair enough and I will make note, however, I think I am about as drama free as a tree stump!  Generalities are dangerous relative to accuracy, but you have every right to any rule that makes you happy or feel safer.

[Phil-anderer]

Hmmm, well, personally, I LIKE the repeat.  I have a current ATF who is UTR, and it's awesome.  

Still, some variety is nice, especially when you travel.  Part of the fun is the research, anticipation, etc., because unfortunately, these women aren't proactively contacting me wondering if tonight is the night.

[Guest]

1 hour ago, gr8owl said:

Awww, don't try to sweet talk me! LOL 

Fair enough and I will make note, however, I think I am about as drama free as a tree stump!  Generalities are dangerous relative to accuracy, but you have every right to any rule that makes you happy or feel safer.

Your dismissed sweetheart 

[jhooker]

Repeats are the best, and no LE anxiety. I like my regular girls and they like me. Life is good.

[Paul Pudenda]

My circle is rather small.  When I find a lady with whom I am (or feel) compatible, I will repeat - usually many times over.  One lady I have been seeing for 10 years, though she is no longer in this pursuit.  Some I've seen for a few years and we run our course - usually because of being taken for granted over time.  Sure, there are regrets.  But that is no different than in "normal" life.  While I'm not certainly looking for a girlfriend, I do seek a "connection" - if just for a brief period.  Then, I'm free to go on my way with no entaglements.  Each of us is different - with varying objectives, all of which are valid for the beholder.

[Mr.Pink]

On 10/18/2016 at 2:08 PM, hobbyer said:

Alot of providers just want to make money.

  

 

you think they're doing this for charity?

[Guest]

2 hours ago, Mr.Pink said:

you think they're doing this for charity?

Show me the money All escorts want the money. Or they would give up for free. 

Edited October 23, 2016 by Nikki Holiday

[Vassago]

Ockham's razor. That is the secret of the Hunt.

[Guest]

In the real world finding the "one' is a needle in a haystack issue.  In this fantasy world the same is true regardless of plunking down any amount of $$. And feeling taken for granted is only going to get worse as more people get addicted to staring at their iphones and get worse at actually communicating.