Posted October 13, 2016 Often on Backpage I see either 1) visiting girls or out of towners and 2) ladies who say "highly reviewed." I always search TOB. I also google their number, and I also try to see if eccie/TER have reviews on them. BUT...what if those don't find the reviews? Is it rude to text/email a lady and ask her where I can find her reviews? As has been said many times on this board, you can check reviews to verify price, menu, options, etc. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 13, 2016 Do not see why it would be rude, she advertises she has reviews. If they do have reviews they normally have no problem letting you know where they are at. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 13, 2016 I agree. I've asked about reviews and gotten mixed responses, but no one has been offended by the question. Some providers have no idea what I'm talking about (I tend to skip those) while others will point me to a board in another region or give me an old phone # to search. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 13, 2016 52 minutes ago, daaacz said: I agree. I've asked about reviews and gotten mixed responses, but no one has been offended by the question. Some providers have no idea what I'm talking about (I tend to skip those) while others will point me to a board in another region or give me an old phone # to search. One would think that any provider who acts offended would have something to hide- like bad reviews. Reviews are similar to what a consumer report does for an item you wish to purchase. So no, I don't think it is wrong or offensive to ask for a link. On a personal level I prefer that potential clients read my reviews before contact. I feel that this can answer a lot of questions that a person may have about my level of service, appearance etc. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 13, 2016 Providers put links on their advertisements to show where there reviews are. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 13, 2016 3 hours ago, Nikki Holiday said: Providers put links on their advertisements to show where there reviews are. There is a lot of providers on BP say they are " highly reviewed ", but they don't list any of them. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 13, 2016 3 hours ago, daaacz said: I agree. I've asked about reviews and gotten mixed responses, but no one has been offended by the question. Some providers have no idea what I'm talking about (I tend to skip those) while others will point me to a board in another region or give me an old phone # to search. How many of those that you ask actually lead you to legitimate reviews? 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 13, 2016 (edited) Just ask her. If she gets all upset, that might be a good sign that she is trouble and to steer clear. If she sends you to some with an old phone number or different name, there could be lots of legitimate reasons for the change(crazy ex/stalker/bad reviews/got found out), and it will give you an idea on if you want to see her or not. Personally, I love it when guys ask...it means they are doing their "homework". xoxo, Samantha Sheppard Edited October 13, 2016 by SultryKitten 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 14, 2016 5 hours ago, valconxen said: There is a lot of providers on BP say they are " highly reviewed ", but they don't list any of them. You can ad link, you can put it on your website p411 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 14, 2016 14 hours ago, engineer said: Often on Backpage I see either 1) visiting girls or out of towners and 2) ladies who say "highly reviewed." I always search TOB. I also google their number, and I also try to see if eccie/TER have reviews on them. BUT...what if those don't find the reviews? Is it rude to text/email a lady and ask her where I can find her reviews? As has been said many times on this board, you can check reviews to verify price, menu, options, etc. If they are the real deal they will not have a problem answering your questions in my experience. On BP, well, it's a crap shoot at best. If you don't find the reviews, that means that they don't exist. Good luck! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 14, 2016 15 hours ago, Lucy Kitten said: How many of those that you ask actually lead you to legitimate reviews? Maybe 60% or so, which I think is pretty good. One pointed me to her single mediocre TER review, but others have pointed me to boards that I don't normally frequent or to an old phone number. This works better over email, though. There's usually an awkward pause when I ask over the phone followed by a clumsy explanation of how to find them. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 14, 2016 1 hour ago, daaacz said: Maybe 60% or so, which I think is pretty good. One pointed me to her single mediocre TER review, but others have pointed me to boards that I don't normally frequent or to an old phone number. This works better over email, though. There's usually an awkward pause when I ask over the phone followed by a clumsy explanation of how to find them. Well that's good to know! That's a much better return than expected. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 14, 2016 2 hours ago, Lucy Kitten said: Well that's good to know! That's a much better return than expected. I still do my research, though. I don't just pick a pretty face out on BP. I do my google searches and only contact providers who seem to have some history. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 14, 2016 (edited) On 10/13/2016 at 10:54 AM, Nikki Holiday said: Providers put links on their advertisements to show where there reviews are. http://denver.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/highly-reviewed-upscale-erotic-companion-executive-types-only/25455483 Can you point me to this person's review? _________________________________cached Ad cached Ad Colorado escorts mujeres 21 de septiembre de 2016 http://webcache.googleusercontent.com/search?q=cache:k-ZbLVm2Sj8J:colorado.backpage.com/es-us/FemaleEscorts/highly-reviewed-upscale-erotic-companion-executive-types-only/25140807+&cd=4&hl=en&ct=clnk&gl=us Edited October 14, 2016 by Kaduk Added cached version of Ad 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 14, 2016 Well I did find she is on busted escorts.com, do not know how legit this site is, but would keep me away for sure. 12 minutes ago, frankenthaler91 said: http://denver.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/highly-reviewed-upscale-erotic-companion-executive-types-only/25455483 Can you point me to this person's review? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 14, 2016 50 minutes ago, daaacz said: I still do my research, though. I don't just pick a pretty face out on BP. I do my google searches and only contact providers who seem to have some history. I was just curious. I am sure you still do research but I had always assumed that those who have reviews but don't leave bread crumbs don't actually have reviews. So your success surprised me. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 14, 2016 5 hours ago, daaacz said: Maybe 60% or so, which I think is pretty good. One pointed me to her single mediocre TER review, but others have pointed me to boards that I don't normally frequent or to an old phone number. This works better over email, though. There's usually an awkward pause when I ask over the phone followed by a clumsy explanation of how to find them. 1 hour ago, daaacz said: I still do my research, though. I don't just pick a pretty face out on BP. I do my google searches and only contact providers who seem to have some history. That was going to be my question; How many Ads do you go through to get to the the Ads that peek your interest then the Ads you end up calling ? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 14, 2016 11 minutes ago, Kaduk said: How many Ads do you go through to get to the the Ads that peek your interest then the Ads you end up calling ? Lots. I have almost as much fun "shopping" as I do meeting up. I know I'm a jerk for picking on grammar, but I can't help it. https://www.vocabulary.com/articles/chooseyourwords/peak-peek-pique/ I just want to help, I swear. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 14, 2016 1 hour ago, frankenthaler91 said: http://denver.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/highly-reviewed-upscale-erotic-companion-executive-types-only/25455483 Can you point me to this person's review? What I ment was they can put the link in there advertising it's an option 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 14, 2016 32 minutes ago, daaacz said: Lots. I have almost as much fun "shopping" as I do meeting up. I know I'm a jerk for picking on grammar, but I can't help it. https://www.vocabulary.com/articles/chooseyourwords/peak-peek-pique/ I just want to help, I swear. Ok then; After you have reached the peak of your research, how many Ads have you peeked at to get to the the Ads that piqued your interest to the Ads you end up calling ? 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 14, 2016 On 10/13/2016 at 8:49 AM, engineer said: Often on Backpage I see either 1) visiting girls or out of towners and 2) ladies who say "highly reviewed." I always search TOB. I also google their number, and I also try to see if eccie/TER have reviews on them. BUT...what if those don't find the reviews? Is it rude to text/email a lady and ask her where I can find her reviews? As has been said many times on this board, you can check reviews to verify price, menu, options, etc. Absolutely no, it is not rude. She opened the topic by stating she has reviews. It would be FOOLISH and a purely little head move NOT to ask if you are seriously considering! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 14, 2016 2 hours ago, geecue2 said: Well I did find she is on busted escorts.com, do not know how legit this site is, but would keep me away for sure. Sorry, geecue2, and all due respect, however if you cross off your list every lady on that site and the several others like it you had better be exercising your right (left??) hand cause you are going to need it!! There are several like it. They are totally bogus and post every escort they can find - especially off BP - to scare folks into using "Adult Friend Finder" or similar "dating" sites. Totally and completely bogus. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 14, 2016 (edited) Funny this topic came up. Put out a 411 on someone who's posting said no bad reviews. Which means, she didn't F ing have any, but K man found one. Not to flattering. Anyhow, if the reviews are not from reputable sites....Walk or TOFTT and let us know how it works out. And no I don't think it would be rude to ask. Edited October 14, 2016 by Running with Scissors Spelling 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15, 2016 5 hours ago, Nikki Holiday said: What I ment was they can put the link in there advertising it's an option Yes they can. And she didn't. But she says she is. Which is the point of the OP. Is it rude to ask where. Not can they. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15, 2016 (edited) 1 hour ago, frankenthaler91 said: Yes they can. And she didn't. But she says she is. Which is the point of the OP. Is it rude to ask where. Not can they. Well it makes it easier for the guys if you ad a link to your reviews. Some guys don't know how research properly. Some girls lie and say they have reviews on TOB when they don't. I thinks ok to ask. Edited October 15, 2016 by Nikki Holiday 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15, 2016 If a girl states that she has reviews in her ad then she should be glad to let you know how to find them. If I'm spending my time with this person then I want all the info I can get 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 16, 2016 I don't think it's rude. I'll gladly guide you to my reviews. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 16, 2016 On 10/14/2016 at 11:47 AM, frankenthaler91 said: http://denver.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/highly-reviewed-upscale-erotic-companion-executive-types-only/25455483 Can you point me to this person's review? _________________________________cached Ad cached Ad Colorado escorts mujeres 21 de septiembre de 2016 http://webcache.googleusercontent.com/search?q=cache:k-ZbLVm2Sj8J:colorado.backpage.com/es-us/FemaleEscorts/highly-reviewed-upscale-erotic-companion-executive-types-only/25140807+&cd=4&hl=en&ct=clnk&gl=us Can't show you the review. Can show you the source of her pics. French Photo Blog Gonna be honest. Not much faith that an amateur french model's working Denver's Backpage. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 17, 2016 I almost always ask if I can't find anything. I always search first or just ask where if the ad states it. Never had an issue except this lady http://rockies.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/cougar-on-the-prowel-_hot-blonde-_970-306-4132-no-incall-and-no-text-please_-hot-blonde/23897346 she called me and screamed at me about "how dare you ask such a thing my clients are all happy," etc. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 18, 2016 8 hours ago, Redvines1 said: I almost always ask if I can't find anything. I always search first or just ask where if the ad states it. Never had an issue except this lady http://rockies.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/cougar-on-the-prowel-_hot-blonde-_970-306-4132-no-incall-and-no-text-please_-hot-blonde/23897346 she called me and screamed at me about "how dare you ask such a thing my clients are all happy," etc. Could also be the fact that the images in your shown BP Ad are fake https://www.google.com/imgres?imgurl=https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/564x/f0/6a/b4/f06ab4b8edeb12ba5f481c776b2dceb2.jpg&imgrefurl=https://www.pinterest.com/pin/509258670336155700/&h=500&w=341&tbnid=tHCvuL26mEE_MM&tbnh=272&tbnw=185&usg=__6FOYm5EENBJ63Q4OiGbTpk1wkbo=&docid=tCKXqojsYdjLvM cached Ad BP Rockies escorts Oct 16, 2016 http://webcache.googleusercontent.com/search?q=cache:IeQH9qM0Sg4J:rockies.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/cougar-on-the-prowel-_hot-blonde-_970-306-4132-no-incall-and-no-text-please_-hot-blonde/23897346+&cd=1&hl=en&ct=clnk&gl=us Tina | 970-306-4132 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
