On the background - music and television.

[outsideshooter2]

Personally I think most men see the television turned on as a distraction during sessions but some providers keep them open for some reason. Any ladies here who want to share probable reasons? 

Music on the other hand definitely can enhance the overall experience depending ofcourse on what type, how loud and the preferences of both parties. At first I did not care about music because I just want to indulge in the "natural sounds" created until I get to appreciate it later on. In my experience, I would say the best mood music would be instrumental EDM trance. Props to Hailey Bee for that:) Any other preference ladies and gents of TOB?

[Bit Banger]

While music may hide the sounds emanating from the room, but the conversations of TV will mask them better. 

[crazyb]

The TV is a deal breaker for me

[geecue2]

Some ladies you would need a live rock band to muffle the sounds and screams. I definitely know one for sure.  

Edited September 13, 2016 by geecue2

[Guest]

TV is an escorting no no. If the TV is on, it's distracting and takes away from the undivided attention the client is ultimately paying for. If I were a guy I would see it as the lady not taking me or our time seriously. 

Then again,  if you're only seeking a 3g quickie it really shouldn't matter, right.

[Johnboy#1]

Personally, I request that the TV be turned off, if it in.

I have often wondered if some ladies use the television as a clock substitute.

[Alexa Rayne]

TV is definitely a no-no. Music is appropriate, volume/genre appropriate...Although, I have been asked to have adult themed playfulness on the TV but of course, this was pre-arranged. 😉

[Juanmotai]

Television is a deal breaker. Too hard to concentrate on the task at hand. 

[BigBaldBlk]

If the TV is on, I hope it's a sex tape or video of the lady you're with (very hot when it happens)!  Other than this, TV off please!

[SultryKitten]

Tv is a turn off for me even if when it is porn playing. Sorry, I am not into porn guys. I think the only time I might make an exception is if I was doing something special like a sport special or something, but otherwise...pass!

xoxo,

Samantha Sheppard

[pointymoustache]

I like it when the TV is tuned to a music channel.  Of course you need pay TV for that.

[Lucy Kitten]

Guilty confession there was a brief moment that I didn't turn the TV. When FXX showed every Simpsons ever in order and in their original state (not edited syndication versions) I did not turn of my TV for 12 days. My Simpsons obsession is a little out of control.

[pfunk]

2 hours ago, Lucy Kitten said:

Guilty confession there was a brief moment that I didn't turn the TV. When FXX showed every Simpsons ever in order and in their original state (not edited syndication versions) I did not turn of my TV for 12 days. My Simpsons obsession is a little out of control.

[Kali Sensual Reiki]

Ambient, Reiki, Zen, Tibtan, healing, nature sounds, instramental, or classical music very soft in the background (variation of any of that)  That's what I like

[Kali Sensual Reiki]

Lol I can play a didgeridoo for you! I gave it to my Reiki instructor before she moved away. Healing sounds are incredible for you health and well being!

[Kali Sensual Reiki]

http://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=Girl+Didgeridoo&&view=detail&mid=39706CC9C8B2512406D739706CC9C8B2512406D7&FORM=VRDGAR

I found this lady. Since mine is long gone...:( 

[Audrey Astor]

Shoot, I can even have a good time by myself if the TV is on. It is very distracting. I prefer some sensual music in the background.

[outsideshooter2]

Good points coming from both sides.

To me, we are already multitasking as far session activities themselves are concerned. Cerebrally, we think about what where how and when if you know what i mean. Plus we listen and watch for signals from each other. It takes a lot to fully enjoy an experience especially that you only get to encounter each other once or a couple times. 

Simply put. The Broncos focus to play their best for the patrons and the patrons focus on the action to enjoy a great game. Both have roles and both are getting something out of it and they deserve ultimate enjoyment. And in this case both parties get to play boh roles. So we don't want anything that doesn't contribute to the experience.

[Kaduk]

8 hours ago, outsideshooter2 said:

Good points coming from both sides.

To me, we are already multitasking as far session activities themselves are concerned. Cerebrally, we think about what where how and when if you know what i mean. Plus we listen and watch for signals from each other. It takes a lot to fully enjoy an experience especially that you only get to encounter each other once or a couple times. 

Simply put. The Broncos focus to play their best for the patrons and the patrons focus on the action to enjoy a great game. Both have roles and both are getting something out of it and they deserve ultimate enjoyment. And in this case both parties get to play both roles. So we don't want anything that doesn't contribute to the experience.

I guess that means no more sideline distractions......

[outsideshooter2]

6 hours ago, Kaduk said:

I guess that means no more sideline distractions......

LOL. That can come during breaks.  On that note, television may be allowed during halftime for relaxation

Do our ladies agree?

[Vassago]

On September 14, 2016 at 1:45 PM, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

http://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=Girl+Didgeridoo&&view=detail&mid=39706CC9C8B2512406D739706CC9C8B2512406D7&FORM=VRDGAR

I found this lady. Since mine is long gone...:( 

That's sad, Reiki. You should find another one if you can. I have an Armenian duduk in my closet. I take it out only to rub it with olive oil and keep it from deteriating. I never got the courage to figure out how to play it. That's great that can play the Didgerdoo. I think if there was a sound that could describe my soul, the sound from an instrument, it would be the duduk. For me though I'm too self conscious about what music I listen to. I listen by myself. It's a different sort of intimacy. T V not so much. I've never had a session where the provider was clearly looking at it rather than at me. Just a background noise.

[Kaduk]

2 hours ago, Vassago said:

That's sad, Reiki. You should find another one if you can. I have an Armenian duduk in my closet. I take it out only to rub it with olive oil and keep it from deteriorating. I never got the courage to figure out how to play with it. That's great that can play the Didgerdoo. I think if there was a sound that could describe my soul, the sound from an instrument, it would be the duduk. For me though I'm too self conscious about what music I listen to. I listen by myself. It's a different sort of intimacy. T V not so much. I've never had a session where the provider was clearly looking at it rather than at me. Just a background noise.

I sure hope this is an Armenian duduk.....

I would rub it with oil & find the courage to play with it......

[Kali Sensual Reiki]

On 9/16/2016 at 1:22 AM, Vassago said:

That's sad, Reiki. You should find another one if you can. I have an Armenian duduk in my closet. I take it out only to rub it with olive oil and keep it from deteriating. I never got the courage to figure out how to play it. That's great that can play the Didgerdoo. I think if there was a sound that could describe my soul, the sound from an instrument, it would be the duduk. For me though I'm too self conscious about what music I listen to. I listen by myself. It's a different sort of intimacy. T V not so much. I've never had a session where the provider was clearly looking at it rather than at me. Just a background noise.

I would so love to hear you play Vassago,  You give me goosebumps just hearing you talk about it! It was SO many years ago back in 2006 when I met up with this incredible  Aboriginal Shaman who my Reiki Instructor fell in love with totally! I got to learn a bit from him, but wow my instructor really got good at playing!!!  So, I decided before my instructor with Reiki left Denver I would give her my instrument as a goodbye gift.  Figured  I got an incredible gift from her with learning  Reiki and she always admired the didgeridoo.  It was like a must!!! Please learn to play it the instrument will get lonely if you don't play and enjoy it! Everything has energy and resonates  on a vibration. No two digerie's sound the same either (not sure how many people are aware of that)??!!  I know you should work with it! Don't be  leaving your beautiful instrument in the back of your closet please!

 Also, sorry it took me a while to get back to you!! 

[Kali Sensual Reiki]

On 9/16/2016 at 3:56 AM, Kaduk said:

I sure hope this is an Armenian duduk.....

I would rub it with oil & find the courage to play with it......

OMG you naughty, naughty boy Kdunk!!! You have no idea?! LOL :))))))))))))))))))))

Edited September 17, 2016 by Kali Sensual Reiki
spelling Kaduk

[Bit Banger]

4 hours ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

... No two digerie's sound the same either (not sure how many people are aware of that)??!!  ...

I remember seeing a fella in Nottingham Hill area sitting with half a dozen digestives sitting in front of him - different woods, different lengths, different diameters. Each had a distinctive sound. 

Edited September 18, 2016 by Bit Banger

[Happymon]

TV on? Might as well get in a few phone calls, bring out the wedding pictures and open a magazine. 

[Kali Sensual Reiki]

On 9/17/2016 at 9:32 PM, Bit Banger said:

I remember seeing a fella in Nottingham Hill area sitting with half a dozen digestives sitting in front of him - different woods, different lengths, different diameters. Each had a distinctive sound. 

They are all hand crafted and incredible instruments! Wooden flutes are also beautiful too. Not sure who the person you saw selling the Diger's? That's pretty damn cool though Bit Banger!  I have not heard anything more from the Shaman who was giving concerts/healing circles/ lessons either? Sorry if people find this conversation boring? Sadly said, everyone is so quick to run off to their medical doctor to get on more pills that end up causing more harm.  Not so many people are interested into looking into alternative forms of healing/music.  Over the weekend i tried a session without any music and it was OK, but from here on forward I am going to always play my healing sound music. It just helps with calming people down and centering the mood.  

[SultryKitten]

On 9/18/2016 at 9:49 AM, Happymon said:

TV on? Might as well get in a few phone calls, bring out the wedding pictures and open a magazine. 

LOL HappyMon! This scenario makes me think of moments in a relationship! 

Xoxo,

Samantha Sheppard

[MamiMia]

I often play smooth jazz music while entertaining clients. Recently I have begun putting on adult movies instead of playing music during sessions. I haven't received any feedback about the change, or what is preferred. I am curious about what hobbyists generally prefer as their ambience while in appointments? Thanks! Xoxo

[Bit Banger]

3 hours ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

They are all hand crafted and incredible instruments! Wooden flutes are also beautiful too. Not sure who the person you saw selling the Diger's...

He was not selling the Digers. He was a busker (street performer - They're all over London). He was also selling CDs/tapes of his music.