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Will I, or Will I Not Ever have a Traditional Relationship Again? This Man’s Perspective…

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…I think about this from time to time, not that it really concerns me as I’ve been single for a long time now (No Commitments at All), and I have no intention of changing that. I fell out of companionship, but I guess never really outta love with my ex-wife in 2001 after 13 years together. We divorced by decree in January of 2005. We’ve stayed in touch through the years, she had some health issues, “Fuck You Cancer!” that actually made our friendship stronger. I found myself supporting her emotionally and financially, I don’t care, I only care she be happy and a Cancer Survivor! Is that Traditional? Yup…

…I hadn’t seen a naked women from 2004 until 2010. I like porn, but really don’t watch it much. Never strip clubs. I had an ex-girlfriend that at time I had known for 28 years. In 2007 she asked if I could help find her work, so I had her come in and clean my crib every 2 weeks with a nice hefty Christmas bonus each year. In ‘10, she now being 45, I met her when she was 17 and I was 24, yes I was a bad man. I came home one day and she was still there, I usually split when my Domestic Engineers are cleaning my crib. I thought odd, came in and she, still just being totally a babe at 45, came down the stairs in the sexiest maid’s uni from Victoria’s I’ve ever seen. An experience most men never get. We hanky panky’d for a month or so, then I found my maid was no longer cleaning anything but my pipes, actually it started getting serious so I abruptly cut it off, I’m good at that when feeling threatened. I’d given her,  her own bank account and debit card. Cancelled it after she swept the account. Haven’t seen or talked to her since. Is that Traditional? Yup…

…In January of this year I tried eHarmony to see if that might be a way to meet women. I’m no longer a bar hopper, haven’t been for years upon years. While it was a failed experiment and I’ll never try internet dating again, it was an experience. I’ve never yet experienced “Bait and Switch” in the Hobbies Environment, but man did I on eHarmony. I met one lady for lunch, and she turned out to be Aint Bea from the Andy Griffith Show. I’m a gentleman so we still had a good time. With the advent of internet dating, is that Traditional? Yup…

…I found myself again not seeing a naked lady from April of 2010 until August 15, 2015, when I finally cracked my way into the Hobbies. Maybe not the sharpest pencil in the box, I am a hard worker so I find I can enjoy these moments in my life. Back when I was young I was a silver tongued little bastard, so meeting women wasn’t always tough, keeping them was. So many pretty ladies here, so many wonderful personalities, most genuine, some rehearsed, that’s ok works for me that way too. I’ve shed a tear sharing our personal lives with a lady, I’ve gone into sessions not even knowing what my donation is supposed to be as we talked for 4-1/2 hours, yeah we boogied once, but had to order in lunch as we weren’t done learning about each other. I’ve been fortunate to break bread on occasion with ladies after sessions. Interesting conversation and companionship. I have a luncheon planned with a lady I have yet to meet. I go fishing with ladies, and instead of sexts, they send me pics of their fish. I believe it’s called camaraderie. I’ve learned that one should give camaraderie as well as receive. I’m fortunate I’ve met so many fascinating people and some fascinating stories and discussions. Sounds normal to me, relating to ladies and developing some friendships, some deeper than others. So is this Traditional? Yup…

…Sorry so long-winded, but I think I answered my own question, maybe I can still have Traditional Relationships, as I choose to define them. I seem to be incapable of true romance, and the drama involved with it, but I’ll take my sense of Traditional Relationships and new friends and friendships over that no Problem. Again only This Man’s Perspective…

…My normal close: “That’s My Story and I’m Stickin to It”, and What I believe in: “PEACE!”

Thanks for listening.

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Interesting indeed. Hey, if it works for you and you are happy, go with it. You only live once and there is a good 99.9% chance that there is no afterlife. I wish I had your attitude. Instead, I fruitlessly chase a passionate relationship with my wife (the only one I really want and the one that I love) that is not happening, has not happened for a long time, and probably won't ever happen again. But let's not go down that same pathetic road once again. Over and out. Happy hobbying.  

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Very interesting look at life .   I like the idea of seeing a woman to go fishing,  I have one lady that I plan on teaching her how to shoot the biggest guns I own just cause SHE thinks it would be great fun.

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 If you're saying that some of these ladies offer more than just a romp in the hay, I agree. Like you, I am also single. I have found that some of these wonderful ladies provide some emotional support that you may get out of a "traditional" relationship just because that's who they are. Because of that my life seems as full as ever. They don't even put a price on that.

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