Posted July 24, 2016 18 hours ago, Laci French-2940 said: The fuckery in Colorado is at an all time high and I guarantee the ladies are suffering more than the gentleman. I am actually looking forward to my move to Alabama in September We are out the cost of the incall location, sitters and our time. Time is the one that cannot be replaced. Laci- Sorry that you are needing to leave us too! Yes, and you are SO correct. I don''t know your problems exactly. However, in the last three years I have seen such a major shift going on here in Denver. I hope you stay in touch with us all! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 24, 2016 20 hours ago, Laci French-2940 said: The fuckery in Colorado is at an all time high and I guarantee the ladies are suffering more than the gentleman. I am actually looking forward to my move to Alabama in September We are out the cost of the incall location, sitters and our time. Time is the one that cannot be replaced. This is a great time to pause and think about the tenor in our community. As I am sure that most will agree Laci is a pillar of our group promoting a healthy attitude and goodwill towords all. Personally i am very thankful for her acquaintance, she has enhanced my life. The Ladies and Gentlemen of this board (including many contributors to this post) have shared of themselves and IMHO have generously promoted a high level of thought in the hobby/sport or spot/hobby It's is up to all of us to carry on their good works in our day to day interactions 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 24, 2016 21 hours ago, Lucy Kitten said: Men are desperate for sexual validation, in whatever form they can get it. Some men are intimidated by independent and sexually liberated women so they have to say stupid things so they can hide the fact that they're ashamed of themselves, being so good in the sack but still having to pay for it and all. It has nothing to do with confidence, just the opposite of, the enemy of...low self-esteem. It also has to do with this weird idea that providers only deal with gross old men and the sexually repressed. But it's mostly dudes who are looking to feel better about themselves in a really stupid way. What's with the "all men are just dumb and horny" trope blended in with the "haha you have to pay for it" bullshit? Never realized this was the Archie Bunker boards. It's about as dumb as saying all providers are drug addicts with daddy issues. Neither one is true. I've met some wonderful people in this business. One provider in this thread offered me a free half (and info on some service dogs) just because. I didn't ask for it. I didn't collect on it. Pretty cool of her to offer. Guess she suffered through my desperate need for sexual validation and wanted to do it again. Some of us - probably most of us - just like to fuck. I dig the experience and variety. Price ain't too far off a night of dinner, entertainment, and drinks. But I don't have to offend anyone when I disappear for a few weeks to read some books. And when I do meet a great woman during my adventures outside of this board I'm not handcuffed by the rules of traditional relationships. Spewing stupid stereotypes isn't the same thing as being independent and sexually liberated. Hell, if you really were "sexually liberated" the haha you have to pay for it joke wouldn't even occur to you. You got a ways to go to become the person you think you are. Anyway I'm out. Not sure why I bother reading threads anymore. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 24, 2016 1 hour ago, jj254 said: What's with the "all men are just dumb and horny" trope blended in with the "haha you have to pay for it" bullshit? Never realized this was the Archie Bunker boards. It's about as dumb as saying all providers are drug addicts with daddy issues. Neither one is true. I've met some wonderful people in this business. One provider in this thread offered me a free half (and info on some service dogs) just because. I didn't ask for it. I didn't collect on it. Pretty cool of her to offer. Guess she suffered through my desperate need for sexual validation and wanted to do it again. Some of us - probably most of us - just like to fuck. I dig the experience and variety. Price ain't too far off a night of dinner, entertainment, and drinks. But I don't have to offend anyone when I disappear for a few weeks to read some books. And when I do meet a great woman during my adventures outside of this board I'm not handcuffed by the rules of traditional relationships. Spewing stupid stereotypes isn't the same thing as being independent and sexually liberated. Hell, if you really were "sexually liberated" the haha you have to pay for it joke wouldn't even occur to you. You got a ways to go to become the person you think you are. Anyway I'm out. Not sure why I bother reading threads anymore. I was specifically was referring to men who want to pull the "you should pay me". I never said all men just offering an explanation to that. Men who approach escorts in that way are often insecure. Sorry you took such offense. Are you one of those that tells providers that they should pay you? No? Then why take offense? Men do seek sexual validation in many ways. Some watch freaky porn and are comforted knowing their not the only ones into it. Strip clubs are as much for he ego as they are the entertainment. Men write letter to Penthouse style reviews. To validate their sexuality. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 25, 2016 4 hours ago, Lucy Kitten said: Sorry you took such offense. Are you one of those that tells providers that they should pay you? No? Then why take offense? Your lack of self awareness is stunning. Namaste and what not. -1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 25, 2016 11 hours ago, jj254 said: Your lack of self awareness is stunning. Namaste and what not. It's obvious you didn't read, or understand the whole thread. Insulting people because you lack reading and comprehension skills reflects poorly on you, and no one else. Have a nice day! -1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 25, 2016 11 hours ago, jj254 said: Your lack of self awareness is stunning. Namaste and what not. I dunno what any of that has to do with my self awareness. It seems that your comprehension is what's really lacking. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 25, 2016 18 hours ago, ironman318 said: This is a great time to pause and think about the tenor in our community. As I am sure that most will agree Laci is a pillar of our group promoting a healthy attitude and goodwill towords all. Personally i am very thankful for her acquaintance, she has enhanced my life. The Ladies and Gentlemen of this board (including many contributors to this post) have shared of themselves and IMHO have generously promoted a high level of thought in the hobby/sport or spot/hobby It's is up to all of us to carry on their good works in our day to day interactions A truer post has never been penned on this forum 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 25, 2016 A BIG apology for my negativity on Saturday. I had a few frustrating experiences last week I should have looked at those as blessings because I had more time with my kids, walking the dogs and cleaning horse shit. A new week is in front of us and full of potential to treat each other with respect. Get out there and make some naughty memories. Hope everyone has a great week and appreciate all the love I have been shown. 8 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 26, 2016 Maybe it is just the quality of ladies you are choosing. I hope you have better luck in the future 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 27, 2016 On 7/19/2016 at 11:05 PM, Kali Sensual Reiki said: Sounds like my week totally! I have had a few marriage perposals, the rest have ask for free or major discounts. One even asked for a hour for $20.00. I chatted with another provider just to try and shake the frustration. Oh man I've had this one. .."Only got time for such an such, can you Sr nne for 20.00"... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 28, 2016 2 hours ago, SabrinaLynn said: Oh man I've had this one. .."Only got time for such an such, can you Sr nne for 20.00"... Consts us more to take a bath more than 20.00 to get dressed for one of those yo-yo's! Amen Lady Sabrina! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 28, 2016 Cost us more to draw a bath, clean sheets, fresh costume, make up, plus time and energy... Oh and also cental air. Haha freaking auto correct! Sorry for the confusion Sabina! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 28, 2016 With all the negativity going back and forth here I'm surprised anyone is getting together to find out about 'service levels'. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 28, 2016 4 minutes ago, Freedom1 said: With all the negativity going back and forth here I'm surprised anyone is getting together to find out about 'service levels'. I got serviced today big time. A+ level. I see no decline at all. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 28, 2016 On 6/25/2016 at 11:30 AM, Laplace said: The reviews can be overdone. I really enjoy crafting them, and a well written review can so.etimes help a provider a wee bit, and that feels nice to me. But the main purpose of the reviews is simply to let other guys know that the lady is a real and safe ASP. Everything else....and I mean EVERYTHING.....is entirely between the guy and the provider....and to be controlled by the provider. And I'm ok with that. As to ECCIE....... Anybody.....male or female.....with a prepaid visa card loaded with 75 dollars can read the review ROS info and all the so-called men's only stuff. ECCIE "mens only" stuff is a joke....even funnier in that they take themselves so seriously. But the ladies stuff was much more secure. A few years back a few enterprising guys got tired of this and created a 'bot' that scoured out a lot of the ladies stuff and posted it to a website called "Eccieleaks." A huge battle ensued. Eccieleaks is now defunct, but the web crawler still lives. Oh yes, indeed. Nothing on the web is secure. Nothing. It is best we all remember this. Wow I did not know that about ECCIE (men only able to read reviews) I like it if I am not distracted by all the silly dating sites that surround the real main website of ECCIE. I forgot my.password. word to TER. BP I post on the there most of the time on the weekends when I feel it. Just kind of depends on what is up for me. Also rhere is lots of silly questions from BP men. P411 I kind of difficult to navigate on for me. TOB is my favorite because I have known it for a long time. I miss SoWet!!! Remembering the old days of the Oyster. Lots of changes. Missing Catrina Heart too my old provider friend. Hmmm thinking I need to focus on my office work. Kisses! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
