MsLeilaLovely

Is Good Ole'Fashioned Intercourse Becoming Obsolete?

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I'm thinking that it's taking a back seat to blow jobs, oral servicing and kink. For many. Or perhaps it's just my impression because I tend to attract patrons who are wishing to explore alternative sexuality.

But I'm just not seeing that men are enjoying, for the most part, a good old fashioned fucking. What I AM seeing is men wish to lay back and just enjoy being serviced. This is completely fine. It's what I enjoy as well. Sometimes.

Although with some people, there are physical limitations and that precludes them from enjoying a more vigorous time together. I understand that. But when those variables aren't in the equation, is your number one pleasure just oral?

I believe for most, it is. I know that most of my female friends would prefer oral sex to penetration. Which is something that I don't believe that I will understand in this lifetime.

Ladies & Gents, your thoughts?

XOXO,
Ms. Leila Lovely

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I admit it, and I may be in the minority, but I put myself in the category you are describing.  Nothing wrong with  Good ol fashioned intercourse, which I enjoy very much, but like you say, sometimes I just like to lie there and be serviced.   

 

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4 hours ago, MsLeilaLovely said:

I'm thinking that it's taking a back seat to blow jobs, oral servicing and kink. For many. Or perhaps it's just my impression because I tend to attract patrons who are wishing to explore alternative sexuality.

But I'm just not seeing that men are enjoying, for the most part, a good old fashioned fucking. What I AM seeing is men wish to lay back and just enjoy being serviced. This is completely fine. It's what I enjoy as well. Sometimes.

Although with some people, there are physical limitations and that precludes them from enjoying a more vigorous time together. I understand that. But when those variables aren't in the equation, is your number one pleasure just oral?

I believe for most, it is. I know that most of my female friends would prefer oral sex to penetration. Which is something that I don't believe that I will understand in this lifetime.

Ladies & Gents, your thoughts?

XOXO,
Ms. Leila Lovely

I for one know I need to get less complacent and more proactive, most times I can't help but just lay back and be serviced. I'm trying to work on that. As far as the oral question, yeah I like that best, but I really like giving if she (they) are into it, as well as receiving. Will also have to depend on the connection with the Provider. No connection why bother either way. I had one set of ladies that were into each other but that was off limits to me. Their boundaries...so be it.

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A couple of thoughts on the subject:

  • BBBJ is closer to the sensations of what the (used to) get at home, i.e. unprotected vaginal sex. 
  • They don't get BJs at home. They are no longer dating gals who are "saving it for their husband."
  • They get the "You want do do WHAT?" look when they request kink at home or in the civilian scene. They are more comfortable asking a professional for those services. 
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Can't speak for the rest, but I like to just lay back and be serviced, then I like for her to lay back and be serviced, then I like a good old-fashioned fucking, then I like a good old fashioned cuddle, then I like to just lay back and be serviced (repeat until time is up or heart stops).

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15 hours ago, Badboy said:

Can't speak for the rest, but I like to just lay back and be serviced, then I like for her to lay back and be serviced, then I like a good old-fashioned fucking, then I like a good old fashioned cuddle, then I like to just lay back and be serviced (repeat until time is up or heart stops).

+1000

 

We have hour to drive each other crazy,  no holds bard. 

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1 hour ago, SpiceInCo said:

 no holds bard. 

And to quote the bard "you need not fear the bawds" Measure for Measure

Even Shakespeare had no use for FUD. 

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People end up here because they're not getting something they want. Blow jobs, bible study partner, sex swing hooked to the ceiling fan- something. We all got our thing. Best to let folks enjoy it without shame.

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Outside of Hobby: Get a boyfriend or husband who will love you. 

Inside the Hobby: Advertise you want all the vanilla boys, they will come right out of the wood works. . 

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On 3/31/2016 at 11:53 AM, Raoul said:

And to quote the bard "you need not fear the bawds" Measure for Measure

Even Shakespeare had no use for FUD. 

What the flock is FUD?

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33 minutes ago, bd5671 said:

What the flock is FUD?

I always thought that FUD meant Fuck Up Denier. lol

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OMG, are you kidding me!?! I like nothing more than  good ole fashion intercourse. Whatever happened to a gentleman gradually stirring up the juices of a lovely lady, then looking them in the eyes while fulfilling both their needs? I'm there!

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At times it is best to leave the midget and monkey in the closet and get back to the basics;)...making out and dry humping.  I so miss that!

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5 hours ago, Laci French-2940 said:

At times it is best to leave the midget and monkey in the closet and get back to the basics;)...making out and dry humping.  I so miss that!

This is absolutely the best... I miss it.

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7 hours ago, Laci French-2940 said:

At times it is best to leave the midget and monkey in the closet and get back to the basics;)...making out and dry humping.  I so miss that!

Making out and groping are the best!  The 3 minutes of humping pales in comparison!  For you porn stars out there it may be 5 minutes. :)

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When my wife gets in the mood on a quarterly basis, it involves me pleasuring her with my hand, then my mouth, then me doing all the work in missionary. Yes, I enjoy that. I enjoy pleasuring her tremendously, and wish it happened way way more often (beaten that topic to death).  

As for the blow job, well, that simply NEVER happens anymore with the wife. Never. Wait, it happened in 2014 when we were at a $500-per-night B&B suite -- absurdly gorgeous room, and I guess she got in the mood because she downed the schvonstooka like a ravenous vixen.  

So yes, on the very rare occasion when I'm in the room with a FS pro, I love to just lay there while she does all the work. That work usually ends with me on top, becuase I like that, but I can certainly see the demand for blow jobs outweighing ole fashioned intercourse.  I overwhelmingly do FBSM, and that is the ultimate in "being serviced" -- with the hand because my lady does not do oral. 

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