Posted April 14, 2016 (edited) The key really is deniability and that starts with making certain that there is no way to link personal information with hobby information. People can say anything. But if there no connection between real you with hobby you: deny deny deny. Edited April 14, 2016 by Yogi Typo 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 6, 2016 So, I get the need for discretion... What would you do, if you contacted a YL who in responding, gave a real name/email? She is a newbie I think... Would you give her a pleasant message letting her know that maybe this sort of openness isn't a great idea? And give a few links that talks the exposure? Thoughts? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 6, 2016 On April 12, 2016 at 0:48 PM, Kali Sensual Reiki said: Best remark said and to the point on this subject! Thank you Alex Joy!!! I second that! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 6, 2016 2 hours ago, bow-tie guy said: So, I get the need for discretion... What would you do, if you contacted a YL who in responding, gave a real name/email? She is a newbie I think... Would you give her a pleasant message letting her know that maybe this sort of openness isn't a great idea? And give a few links that talks the exposure? Thoughts? I would reply, with a short note mentioning her exposure, and a caution about letting people in this industry know your real name. Just that! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 6, 2016 1 hour ago, pfunk said: I would reply, with a short note mentioning her exposure, and a caution about letting people in this industry know your real name. Just that! I couldn't agree more. She probably doesn't realize her error and that information could be dangerous in the wrong hands (client or provider). 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 6, 2016 5 hours ago, bow-tie guy said: What would you do, if you contacted a YL who in responding, gave a real name/email? She is a newbie I think... How would you know this? What is real? I'm a big advocate for doing nothing, particularly in the face of uncertainty. pf and ww have given sound advice and if they are right you would be doing a good deed and helping a newbie learn the ropes. Or you could be walking into a weird backpage jilted boyfriend revenge scenario. Wouldn't be the first time an angry ex used some phone pics to make his girlfriend out to be a ho. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 7, 2016 54 minutes ago, Raoul said: How would you know this? What is real? I'm a big advocate for doing nothing, particularly in the face of uncertainty. pf and ww have given sound advice and if they are right you would be doing a good deed and helping a newbie learn the ropes. Or you could be walking into a weird backpage jilted boyfriend revenge scenario. Wouldn't be the first time an angry ex used some phone pics to make his girlfriend out to be a ho. You don't really but letting them know is pretty harmless. Its pros by far outweigh its cons. Would it be revenge porn if a jilted ex did that? I would definitely let someone know in that case because it borders on criminal behavior. With throw away email services it's easy to let someone know anonymously that their identity is compromised. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 7, 2016 I have gently warned more than one about such things as phone having been listed when registering to vote and thus popping up name address, etc., to one lady placing screen shots from her e-mail into an unsecured photo vault linked to her ad (wow) to her real life facebook or google+ account linking to her ads, etc. The usual reaction has been sincere and warm thanks. HOWEVER, there was at least one "WTF business is it of yours, are you a stalker?" reaction also. You never know but I still think it is the right thing to do to politely let them know. Ditto johns and their info, although less opportunity and therefore frequency. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 7, 2016 7 minutes ago, gr8owl said: I have gently warned more than one about such things as phone having been listed when registering to vote and thus popping up name address, etc., to one lady placing screen shots from her e-mail into an unsecured photo vault linked to her ad (wow) to her real life facebook or google+ account linking to her ads, etc. The usual reaction has been sincere and warm thanks. HOWEVER, there was at least one "WTF business is it of yours, are you a stalker?" reaction also. You never know but I still think it is the right thing to do to politely let them know. Ditto johns and their info, although less opportunity and therefore frequency. that voter registration site pisses me off, the creator is a sentient enema that I wish we could shoot off into space. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 7, 2016 Thanks, I was leaning that way... She had utility bills and other miscellaneous documentation around, is how I figured it out... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 7, 2016 50 minutes ago, Lucy Kitten said: that voter registration site pisses me off, the creator is a sentient enema that I wish we could shoot off into space. Yeah, there are many things to dislike about it. I just know a LOT of people don't think about it and have their personal info hanging out there so I keep warning about whenever I have the chance. But now ...... enemas in space!! yikes!! Talk about space debris. . 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 7, 2016 On 3/30/2016 at 4:12 PM, pfunk said: I think you've hit the nail on the head! In 25 years, I've never been outed, threatened, or blackmailed. I've seen several girls who have subsequently outed someone (I'm sure it was justified in their minds!). I've had more trouble with guys, than the girls. I don't know the percentage who have been wrongly outed, or threatened, but I suspect it's very low. There are some guys, and girls, who are violent, thieves, liars, and generally bad actors. That info NEEDS to be available, IMHO. There is a constant barrage of "never give out your information" on this board. It seems like exaggerated paranoia to me. On the "wrongly outed client" subject, I think the answer to this would be next to ZERO. ZILCH. NADA. Unless you are a big fat DOUCHE and you had it coming in some way. Were you a thief? Did you "short" the envelope?" Did you tell her "I thought it was for a Hr not an Hh" Did you tell lies in your review? Did you show up like a smelly piece of two day old cabbage? Were you trying to get something for nothing? Did you say "the condom slipped off?" Did you say "I'm not going to pay more for that" Did you tell her you'd show up at xyz and not show up at all? Did you tell her that'd you'd give her a good review if she'd just xyz? I'm thinking 99% of the time something that I've listed was going on to some degree.... Or somewhere next to that. Calm down, take a deep breath...see, all better. The vast majority of us on here are respectful, good people. Please don't focus on the 5% that are not. If we take things for what they really are (some bs some good) we will be able to continue to be a great community. If not, then we shall see where things will go from here. I'm thinking not so good. Of course in my most humble opinion as always... My rant is over, everyone have a very nice evening. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 7, 2016 9 hours ago, sparkey600 said: On the "wrongly outed client" subject, I think the answer to this would be next to ZERO. ZILCH. NADA. Unless you are a big fat DOUCHE and you had it coming in some way. Were you a thief? Did you "short" the envelope?" Did you tell her "I thought it was for a Hr not an Hh" Did you tell lies in your review? Did you show up like a smelly piece of two day old cabbage? Were you trying to get something for nothing? Did you say "the condom slipped off?" Did you say "I'm not going to pay more for that" Did you tell her you'd show up at xyz and not show up at all? Did you tell her that'd you'd give her a good review if she'd just xyz? I'm thinking 99% of the time something that I've listed was going on to some degree.... Or somewhere next to that. Calm down, take a deep breath...see, all better. The vast majority of us on here are respectful, good people. Please don't focus on the 5% that are not. If we take things for what they really are (some bs some good) we will be able to continue to be a great community. If not, then we shall see where things will go from here. I'm thinking not so good. Of course in my most humble opinion as always... My rant is over, everyone have a very nice evening. Yea that's a rant all right. It did in fact happen to me a couple years ago with what turns out is a bsc provider...and I'm none of the above traits. Turns out a few others have had issues with this women as well from about a dozen pm's I received. Don't ask about the review I already tried and awhile back I posted about it but the post was removed. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 8, 2016 1 minute ago, MrReindeer-9515 said: Unless you're planning on booking with her(in which case you will know), what fucking business is it of yours? +1 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
