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Should I post a negative review?

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So this particular ASP has canceled last minute on me twice. Last min meaning less than an hour, and pushing back the app time by a day, two days, an hour, half hour etc... She has all stellar reviews, both were medical reasons (so I'm told). Should I? Both times I have been in a restaurant waiting then got the text that she canceled. Is it out of line to try one more time, with a free hour ? I have never had a situation where I have felt I needed to write a bad review. I guess I should stick with the ladies I know will make it. BUT, if I had canceled twice last minute, I would be blacklisted. I just don't know. I believe her and I dont' at the same time.  

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I should clarify, the first time she texted me and asked if we could move a few days. No prob for me, but then she had aunt flow vist an hour before. Yesterday she passed out from dehydration, AFTER moving the app back 1.5 hours. 

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Shit happens. If she hadn't contacted you I'd definitely recommend a bad review. No calls /  no shows are that ones that should be reported. Just my opinion.

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Unless she actually thieved me, was bait and switch, something along those lines, I never would post a negative review about anyone. I walked out on one wet noodle half into the session, I would again never do that to her. I'd just give up trying. My opinion anyway.

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Should I post a negative review?

I don't know why you would ever want to post a negative review, or even a positive review. just post an honest review and leave it at that. 

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Since you have no evidence of lying on her part, why accuse her in public? (Which is what you just did.) Try a third time, if you wish, but I, personally, wouldn't pay any attention to a review about last minute cancellations, unless several people reported it. However, I wouldn't reschedule either. She may just be having a bad week. 

I know everyone, reading this, has had a bad week, at some point. :)

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Simply mentioning her IOP is a little rough should be enough, that way people may know that she is hard to schedule with. 

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5 hours ago, Big unit said:

Yesterday she passed out from dehydration, AFTER moving the app back 1.5 hours. 

 

5 hours ago, Big unit said:

. Is it out of line to try one more time, with a free hour ?

She used the "I passed out from dehydration" excuse and you think you're gonna get a free hour? Good luck. I hope you like that restaurant where you will be waiting for the next cancellation.

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How many cancellations before you figure out she is a fruitcake?  

I have had 2 different providers cancel in the last month.  Both involved "the emergency room" visit, kid is on the way to the hospital.  Before that was the story of finding a puddle under her car. Her mechanic said it must be serious, etc.

They are all good stories and creative but I do not believe one word.

Shit happens so I usually give a second chance.  A second cancellation gets you marked off my  list.

Being a good escort ...... .......being reliable?  Sometimes.

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10 hours ago, Big unit said:

So this particular ASP has canceled last minute on me twice. Last min meaning less than an hour, and pushing back the app time by a day, two days, an hour, half hour etc... She has all stellar reviews, both were medical reasons (so I'm told). For all you know she might be contagious. She did not ditch you. 

Should I? Both times I have been in a restaurant waiting then got the text that she canceled. Is it out of line to try one more time, with a free hour ? She has good reviews. Sounds like she didn't ditch you. Did she offer you the free hour or are you going tell her you want a free hour?  I guess you can try and force her to give you the hour. Im not sure how far that will get you. 

I have never had a situation where I have felt I needed to write a bad review.I don't think this is bad review worthy. Had she ditched you and treated you like shit, and not communicated with you, then I would say yes is worthy of bad review. But she didn't do that according to you. 

I guess I should stick with the ladies I know will make it. BUT, if I had canceled twice last minute, I would be blacklisted. I just don't know. I believe her and I dont' at the same time.  You have a valid argument. Yes there is very good chance you would get blacklisted. Its depending on who your seeing. If you followed the the proces of proteting your identity none of this would even matter. 

Providers do get sick and have health problems. Maybe she doesn't want you knowing her personal business.  She didn't leave you hanging. She did make contact. I say move on for now, and try her another day. Just call up another escort who is available and try her back another time, or don't.   

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10 hours ago, Big unit said:

I should clarify, the first time she texted me and asked if we could move a few days. No prob for me, but then she had aunt flow vist an hour before. Yesterday she passed out from dehydration, AFTER moving the app back 1.5 hours. 

When I had borderline Ovarian stage 1Cancer, I would start my period suddenly when I wasn't suppose to. I would even start bleeding suddenly during a session. I stopped full service temporally. Maybe she has a heavy flow and is unable to control the bleeding and she thought she could have. I don't know. 

Dehydration? Ok... Im not sure what to say here.... maybe she is a fruitcake like inkspot said. She should have have just stopped taking appointments and never rebooked you until she was well. 

1 hour ago, inkspot said:

Shit happens so I usually give a second chance.  A second cancellation gets you marked off my  list. Being a good escort ...... .......being reliable?  Sometimes.

^^^this^^^ Just call another escort. If you still wanna see her at later date then contact her. 

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I just think far too many gents think that we don't have lives.  I don't think I've ever known a man who I said hey let's have our appointment at 2pm Thursday and them be able to drop everything.  It takes planning on both ends, and life happens.  Especially with beings that we can't talk about.  Be gracious to her, sometimes there are things going on that she doesn't feel appropriate  to tell you  about so the first excuse she will use. I have had many times where it is someone I haven't met yet, and my personal life happened but I'm not about to tell a stranger my life story as to why I can't make it.  

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11 hours ago, Big unit said:

So this particular ASP has canceled last minute on me twice. Last min meaning less than an hour, and pushing back the app time by a day, two days, an hour, half hour etc... She has all stellar reviews, both were medical reasons (so I'm told). Should I? Both times I have been in a restaurant waiting then got the text that she canceled. Is it out of line to try one more time, with a free hour ? I have never had a situation where I have felt I needed to write a bad review. I guess I should stick with the ladies I know will make it. BUT, if I had canceled twice last minute, I would be blacklisted. I just don't know. I believe her and I dont' at the same time.  

Shit happens, but it tends to not be evenly distributed.  Some people's lives are just more chaotic than others'.  Your review will be informative after two occasions IF, as others have suggested, you stick to facts rather than offering your opinion of her motives.

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There was no session and she did cancel before the scheduled time, so I don't think their is grounds for a negative review.  I also would not ask someone who had canceled on me for a free hour, I just think that is bad form.  I would accept were the free hour offered however.  If I was canceled on twice on short notice I would just move on.

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I don't think any provider would offer a free hour for 2 missed appointments.  Now had you booked a room twice and paid for it maybe.  But in times where I have had screwy schedules, I'll give a certain amount of dollars off for chaos but never a free session because of health issues, or life happening.  I think that's just wishful thinking. 

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46 minutes ago, Mustang87 said:

There was no session and she did cancel before the scheduled time, so I don't think their is grounds for a negative review.  I also would not ask someone who had canceled on me for a free hour, I just think that is bad form.  I would accept were the free hour offered however.  If I was canceled on twice on short notice I would just move on.

 

28 minutes ago, SpiceInCo said:

I don't think any provider would offer a free hour for 2 missed appointments.  Now had you booked a room twice and paid for it maybe.  But in times where I have had screwy schedules, I'll give a certain amount of dollars off for chaos but never a free session because of health issues, or life happening.  I think that's just wishful thinking. 

Agree with both. If you really are that into her and want to try again (I wouldn't), you could say to her, "How about you tell me the next day and time you are available and I will let you know if I can make it." If she never texts back, you have your answer. If she sets something up, and flakes on you, you have your answer (the one you have now, btw). If she actually sees you at the appointed time, and it is amazing, then it (probably) was worth it.

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I have known providers who would change or cancel appointments on first time clients just to see how they react. Sort of combining a form of screening with a form of torture. :cool:

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This is tough.

While understanding that life does none of us many favors, clients aren't always just sitting on the couch, eating Cheetos and watching Judge Judy. (Well, not always....)

I think an honest review with the facts only would be appropriate. Especially after more than a few of these last minute cancellations. As mentioned, it would  ive a heads up to others that scheduling can be hit-or-miss with that provider. Let them decide.

I have had a similar experience with a provider who does the same thing. It is a bit of a killer because after confirming an appointment, I will block out an appointment on my calendar that folks cannot book against. (Dr. DDS, Funeral...) Those are hard to pull back. "Oh, they're burying that guy NEXT week. My bad. Ha, ha, ha.....")

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A lot of traveling girls charge a deposit,  but that's their whole reason for traveling.  Local gals, which tend to be the "flakier" have homes, lives, jobs, etc that come in the way.  There may be some local girls that charge deposits or charge for cancellation  (which I don't understand) but to my knowledge it's most typically the gals who only come in days at a time then go off their beautiful way.  

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2 hours ago, SpiceInCo said:

I don't think any provider would offer a free hour for 2 missed appointments.  Now had you booked a room twice and paid for it maybe.  But in times where I have had screwy schedules, I'll give a certain amount of dollars off for chaos but never a free session because of health issues, or life happening.  I think that's just wishful thinking. 

If providers did that, guys would be on the forum complaining that not enough providers cancel last minute. :D

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3 minutes ago, boink36 said:

If providers did that, guys would be on the forum complaining that not enough providers cancel last minute. :D

Lmao!!!! I could just see John in the parking lot twiddling his thumbs staring at his phone,  "please don't show up, please don't show up, plllleeeaaasseeeee!!!"

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I just don't see what there is to review.  She did NOT NCNS you.  I agree cancellations are frustrating, but it's not like her pussy contains the fountain of youth. There are lots of other wonderful providers who would be happy for your business. Call them instead.

She may not be into you.  Or have other priorities.  Let it go.  Besides, lack of business is the best revenge.

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2 minutes ago, Laplace said:

I just don't see what there is to review.  She did NOT NCNS you. Let it go.  Besides, lack of business is the best revenge.

Let it go.... and call another escort. There is more than one pussy cat available. :D 

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As Boink said, An honest review. 

This was not NCNS, but a pattern of last minute cancellations. If it had been just one, I probably would have let it go. 

Recently, after a 45min drive I'm literally sitting outside a YL's door when she texts to cancel because her room mates just showed up (I saw them arrive). Because she had several other reviews indicating last minute flakiness, I added to the list & put her in my DoNotCall list. Had she called more than an hour before, I probably would have rebooked.

As for your expectations of a free session? DELUSIONAL!

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21 minutes ago, Laplace said:

I just don't see what there is to review.  She did NOT NCNS you.

While not a nc/ns, what the OP describes is more than a "shit happens" cancellation. If I'm reading it right, she slow-rolled him for days, then cancelled within 60 min of the last agreed time, and this happened twice. If that's all true, (and I have my doubts) I think this might be worth a review. 

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decided to walk that back a little
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15 minutes ago, Raoul said:

While not a nc/ns, what the OP describes is more than a "shit happens" cancellation. If I'm reading it right, she slow-rolled him for days, then cancelled within 60 min of the last agreed time, and this happened twice. If that's all true, (and I have my doubts) I think this might be worth a review. 

I would not have walked back what you did....but your choice.  I think you were right.

This may be the best format for the upcoming review to follow:

butthurt_report_form_for_losers_by_shuut

 

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Laplace your killing me softly.........:D

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8 minutes ago, Laplace said:

I would not have walked back what you did....but your choice.  I think you were right.

Yeah, maybe. He may be spinning the story a bit. I just remember hanging out with a provider for the day a number of years back. She had decided we were going to spend the day together (who was I to argue/) but she had forgotten about an appointment with a newb client she had that afternoon. Instead of just cancelling the guy, she ran him all over town, telling him she had to change hotels, one excuse after another, for hours, before she finally told him she was too tired and could they try again tomorrow. 

Girls can be cruel. :cool:

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Of course she has great reviews.  No one wants to be the first to tarnish her record. 

If you have protected yourself as Nikki mentioned, write an honest review.  If she finally comes through, you can submit a new review saying so.

Been there, done that.   

 

 

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3 minutes ago, Raoul said:

Yeah, maybe. He may be spinning the story a bit. I just remember hanging out with a provider for the day a number of years back. She had decided we were going to spend the day together (who was I to argue/) but she had forgotten about an appointment with a newb client she had that afternoon. Instead of just cancelling the guy, she ran him all over town, telling him she had to change hotels, one excuse after another, for hours, before she finally told him she was too tired and could they try again tomorrow. 

Girls can be cruel. :cool:

WOW :eek:

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