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Is there a way to know ahead of time (before scheduling) if an incall location is safe and clean? At the same time respecting the privacy of the providers (e.g. not an exact location but a general description of the location). Is this information included in the reviews? There is nothing worse than showing up to a flop motel or apartment in a sketchy neighborhood.

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28 minutes ago, jimnecrickett said:

There is nothing worse than showing up to a flop motel or apartment in a sketchy neighborhood.

Sure there are.:cool:

Some times reviews give general info about what the setting was like (clean or messy, hard to find, easy to park, etc), but nothing very location specific. 

With a general location, you can use google earth to get an idea of what a neighborhood looks like. But most ladies aren't going to disclose enough before scheduling about where they are for it to be of much use. Nor should they imho.

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I have no problem asking for the specific hotel/motel.  From there, look at reviews.  If they can't provide that info and I have not seen them before, then I am not interested.

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What's wrong with flop motels? You a sissy, or something?;)

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1 hour ago, 2Big said:

What's wrong with flop motels? You a sissy, or something?;)

Not a sissy. A gentleman. ;)

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2 hours ago, 2Big said:

What's wrong with flop motels? You a sissy, or something?;)

I am of two minds. I have had a shitload of fun at Motel 6s with some downright nasty (in a good way) girls. But, you just never feel right stepping over a cracked-out guy in the hallway on your way to the ASP's door (not kidding). Of course I always go in anyway. I guess these days I do my best to avoid the flop motel situation if I can. But, in the end, if a shitty neighborhood is the only real problem, I'll just park my car in the safest place I can find within a few blocks of the location, do some brisk walking through the hood in question, get inside, and have a good time.

Always behaving like a gentleman, of course.

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That wouldn't be applicable to a lady like me that goes to a different hotel every week to keep under the radar.  Just ask the lady what type of hotel she is staying at.  You can ask out right which hotel it is if you're at the booking portion. Or you can ask near by cross streets room establish what side of town it's on. 

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5 hours ago, jimnecrickett said:

Is there a way to know ahead of time (before scheduling) if an incall location is safe and clean? At the same time respecting the privacy of the providers (e.g. not an exact location but a general description of the location). Is this information included in the reviews? There is nothing worse than showing up to a flop motel or apartment in a sketchy neighborhood.

Play hooky from work and do daytime appointments.  Reduces chances of getting shot at and the crackheads are still roaming the streets looking for that high!

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I'd recommend sticking to providers on P411. Not foolproof, but it does improve your chances. 

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What I'd like to see: someone who wants to use my incall that I provided, and wants it to be neat and clean and discreet, and doesn't get all sketched out as soon as I tell them it's a hotel.  I hate losing appts because they are unable to use anything but an upscale house /condo. My reviews/overall reputation become a moot point in these cases but idk what to tell them if I can't use my place anymore.  A NICE hotel with a well known and highly reviewed lady shouldn't be a problem, yet too often this is where I get passed over.

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6 minutes ago, B_randy said:

What I'd like to see: someone who wants to use my incall that I provided, and wants it to be neat and clean and discreet, and doesn't get all sketched out as soon as I tell them it's a hotel.  I hate losing appts because they are unable to use anything but an upscale house /condo. My reviews/overall reputation become a moot point in these cases but idk what to tell them if I can't use my place anymore.  A NICE hotel with a well known and highly reviewed lady shouldn't be a problem, yet too often this is where I get passed over.

B_randy I don't mind nice or moderately priced hotels. I wouldn't pass up a provider for that. It's the seedy motels and apartments in bad neighborhoods that I don't like (e.g. bums burning garbage in the parking lot). I want to be able to relax and have a good time without worrying that my car is being burglarized. 

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Jumpin JimminyCricket (sorry, I just had to), what are you worrying about?  I have been doing this for over five years, visited literally hundreds of incalls, and never was in a "sketchy" hotel as you described.  Sure, a couple of extended stays that I wouldn't stay in myself, but nothing scary or disgusting.  I think you need to visit a higher quality provider if you keep running into passed out crack addicts in the hallway. 

In my initial contact, and I mean right up front, I always ask the lady for her closest cross streets or name of apartment complex, hotel, etc.  They always tell me, and never seem to object to the question.  Of course, I reach out to them on P411 so that they can check my OKs before responding.

True story:  one lady said the closest cross streets were Colfax and Ogden, which is sort of the definition of sketchy in my mind, but she added "but it really is a nice building, honest, I know what you are thinking, and it is really nice."  Well, since it was the middle of the day,  I figured, "what the hell, I'm a pretty fast runner," and went.  And danged if it wasn't a really nice building, and a very nice lady.  Just gotta go with your instincts I guess, and wear your running shoes. 

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40 minutes ago, B_randy said:

What I'd like to see: someone who wants to use my incall that I provided, and wants it to be neat and clean and discreet, and doesn't get all sketched out as soon as I tell them it's a hotel.  I hate losing appts because they are unable to use anything but an upscale house /condo. My reviews/overall reputation become a moot point in these cases but idk what to tell them if I can't use my place anymore.  A NICE hotel with a well known and highly reviewed lady shouldn't be a problem, yet too often this is where I get passed over.

I had an amazing meeting in a Super 8, it's not the location, it's the lovely lady that makes the meeting great!

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1 hour ago, B_randy said:

What I'd like to see: someone who wants to use my incall that I provided, and wants it to be neat and clean and discreet, and doesn't get all sketched out as soon as I tell them it's a hotel.  I hate losing appts because they are unable to use anything but an upscale house /condo. My reviews/overall reputation become a moot point in these cases but idk what to tell them if I can't use my place anymore.  A NICE hotel with a well known and highly reviewed lady shouldn't be a problem, yet too often this is where I get passed over.

Seen you a few times. Good times. Dunno how a dude skips cause of a hotel. That's the norm. Walking up to a house is stranger imo. Probably dudes just looking for an 'out'. Not gonna do the dirty anyway. Their loss.

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3 hours ago, jj254 said:

Seen you a few times. Good times. Dunno how a dude skips cause of a hotel. That's the norm. Walking up to a house is stranger imo. Probably dudes just looking for an 'out'. Not gonna do the dirty anyway. Their loss.

Bless you, I needed that :)

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Just as you do not want to vist a sketchy location, we do not want an incall location that is questionable. However , take a good look at the rents in the metro area. A studio  will easily run $1000 in the areas I would consider "bad". Now just top that off with real life expenses.  Most places want at least a six month lease. A lot can happen in six months.

I cannot feasibly  say my budget will handle an extra 1000 off the top month to month. Some may say, "Just work more".  My reply to that is life is as busy as I want/ need it to be. We do after all live for ourselves, not our clients.

So gentlemen a moderate hotel is not a bad place. I always try to get somewhere in the upper levels of the hotel where the activity is not so hectic. Hotel parking lots are generally on camera, and if at night park under a street light if you can.

There are no guarentees in life, this is one of them. Use your head that is on your shoulders. Not the one between your legs. That is until you get to her room.;-D

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Rent is increasing.  What I used pay for a apartment in cherry 2bd/2bath $1,000. Now If i tried to get a place, it was like 1500-1800.00 a month. 

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Just now, Nikki Holiday said:

Rent is increasing.  What I used pay for a apartment in cherry 2bd/2bath $1,000. Now If i tried to get a place, it was like 1500-1800.00 a month. 

Yes no doubt. Denver is becoming the new Seattle or San Francisco.

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Simply ask the general area and/or if the hotel is a hotel or budget hotel or mid-range hotel or luxury hotel (i'm personally a teesny weensy bit of a hotel snob so you won't find me in anything less than what i'd be considered a "mid-range/moderate class" hotel).

If the lady works a residential type of incall I don't think it'd hurt to ask the neighborhood or side of town it's in.

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Just had my second amazing appointment in a Super 8 in a not-so great neighborhood... Still think the lady makes the meeting and not the location...
 Unless of course you are getting shot at or mugged, then I would advise getting the heck out of there. :D

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6 minutes ago, fishndude57 said:

It's why I host.

Because you like sketchy locations?  ;)

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7 minutes ago, Riggo said:

Because you like sketchy locations?  ;)

I'm in Lakewierd sooooooo yup.

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I don't have a set incall location. I live in a spot that offers me 3 great cities to see clients in. Hotels are it.

I recently had a potential client cancel, because he wasn't happy with my hotel suggestions in Boulder. It is Boulder! There really are no bad hotels or neighborhoods, or hotels under $150. I was happy he cancelled. How picky can you be.

With tourist season upon us, even the Econo lodges, Rodeways, ect wil be $120+ a night.

Many escorts cover that expense out of their own pocket. If the escort is low volume, or only sees one client for discretion, then that is huge chunk of her donation gone.

Most all respectable escorts will offer a clean and safe location. If you don't like what the escort has to offer for a location, then get your own hotel!!

You are there to look at the woman, not the décor of the room. Really!

 

 

 

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The hotels I stay at are 150-200 a night so between all expenses  I usually have 2 appointments on days I hobby, one basically was free.  It pays to cover the cost of the room. I wish I could stay somewhere cheap and sketchy. It would save me a lot more money!!!! Lol

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On 3/2/2016 at 4:57 PM, B_randy said:

What I'd like to see: someone who wants to use my incall that I provided, and wants it to be neat and clean and discreet, and doesn't get all sketched out as soon as I tell them it's a hotel.  I hate losing appts because they are unable to use anything but an upscale house /condo. My reviews/overall reputation become a moot point in these cases but idk what to tell them if I can't use my place anymore.  A NICE hotel with a well known and highly reviewed lady shouldn't be a problem, yet too often this is where I get passed over.

You used your private place previously right? Maybe it's not guys who are anti-hotel but guys that prefer private incalls and were possibly booking based on that? Reputation is a moot point for those with hotel fears, it's not your reputation they're concerned with it is the location be it upscale or a Motel 6. It's things like nosy hotel staff or nosy hotel neighbors that freak people out.

There are still many guys who don't mind hotels and they will find their way to you. Using the hotel thing could also just be a lame excuse for a client that wasn't planning on showing up anyways.

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For my in call, I use 3 stars or better.  You won't ever find me at a Motel 6 or any place under 3 stars.  BP girls, pimps, drug dealers and the guys that want to put them in hand cuffs frequent these places.  The quality of the room in these places is never up to my standards.  I'll never have a gentleman in a place where he's stepping over or even walking near undesirables.  I will never be in a shady area, I want to feel safe parking my car as well.  On the same note, I'll never use a permanent location such as a condo or the same hotel frequently.  Regardless if you think your being watched or not, a pattern of behavior in the same place is simply begging to get busted.  It makes you easy to watch.  

 

I agree with above, a lady's reviews should give you an idea of where your going.  If you know the neighborhood is bad or your going to a low quality motel, don't go. You deserve better and safe.  I don't mind if a guys asks me which star my hotel is.  I normally stay where there are a number of higher end hotels so giving the star level is not big deal to me.

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On March 3, 2016 at 5:08 PM, jimnecrickett said:

B_randy I don't mind nice or moderately priced hotels. I wouldn't pass up a provider for that. It's the seedy motels and apartments in bad neighborhoods that I don't like (e.g. bums burning garbage in the parking lot). I want to be able to relax and have a good time without worrying that my car is being burglarized. 

If you arrive at incall you don't like, you can walk away. Just be honest and tell her the truth so your not leaving her hanging. 

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On 3/3/2016 at 6:31 PM, jj254 said:

 

4 hours ago, Becca_Blossoms said:

Regardless if you think your being watched or not, a pattern of behavior in the same place is simply begging to get busted.  It makes you easy to watch.  

 

 

 

Aside from this, all it takes is one phone call by someone who Is a little pissed at you over something stupid...and believe me when I say you don't want that phone call made, getting outed SUCKS.

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6 hours ago, Becca_Blossoms said:

For my in call, I use 3 stars or better.  You won't ever find me at a Motel 6 or any place under 3 stars.  BP girls, pimps, drug dealers and the guys that want to put them in hand cuffs frequent these places.  The quality of the room in these places is never up to my standards.  I'll never have a gentleman in a place where he's stepping over or even walking near undesirables.  I will never be in a shady area, I want to feel safe parking my car as well.  On the same note, I'll never use a permanent location such as a condo or the same hotel frequently.  Regardless if you think your being watched or not, a pattern of behavior in the same place is simply begging to get busted.  It makes you easy to watch.  

 

I agree with above, a lady's reviews should give you an idea of where your going.  If you know the neighborhood is bad or your going to a low quality motel, don't go. You deserve better and safe.  I don't mind if a guys asks me which star my hotel is.  I normally stay where there are a number of higher end hotels so giving the star level is not big deal to me.

I've declined to see providers based on where their incall is located. The problem with flop motels is the amount of LEO activity that may be there. When everyone else is dressed in ragged clothes and the parking lot is filled with beaters, and you drive up in a fairly nice car, dressed decently, it may attract the notice of someone. 

The worst place I ever went to was a really bad motel up north that made Motel 6 look like a Hilton. When I arrived at her door, the supposed place for the deadbolt was filled with cardboard and the peephole was filled with tissue paper. Nowadays I would have left immediately, but as with many horny and desperate males, I let the little head think for me. Even the session was mediocre. The provider had drunk so much alcohol, she ended up passing out on me. After that experience, I do base my decision whether or not to follow through with the incall on where it is located.

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