Posted December 19, 2015 I normally don't do this kind of thing but this guy really upset me, and a possible danger to others... I don't want him trying to stiff or worse hurt other provider! I just saw a client, he emailed me a few days ago inquiring about an appointment and we set it up and everything seemed fine... Till he got here! He complained the entire time making the appointment super annoying ( anyone that has seen me knows I try my best to make the session great and I try to accommodate even the most difficult client) After he tried taking his money back and when I wouldn't give it to him, he tried to say he only wants to pay $100 and thats all he ever pays lol I laughed at him and told him I would have never responded to him if he tried to see me for $100 he then tried to push past me to go after his money I then told him he needed to leave before I call security... He left calling me a few curse words and called me ugly lol Ladies be careful here 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 19, 2015 He called you UGLY? He must have been speaking about the view he was seeing ,due to having his head up his ass!!! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 19, 2015 (edited) 5 minutes ago, mbgdog said: He called you UGLY? He must have been speaking about the view he was seeing ,due to having his head up his ass!!! I honestly think he was trying to be a cheap ass and thinking of every way to not pay lol then got forceful To call any girl here on TOB ugly is funny to me, because i have yet to see an ugly girl on this site! BP yes lots of fake ugly girls but on TOB none! Edited December 19, 2015 by AkilahRose 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 19, 2015 Sorry that happened to you, I think you would have been alright posting it except his name and his phone number, and email addy . 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2015 Ugly is as ugly does. I'm sorry this happened to you. You deserve better. Did I read you right? He was complaining while setting up the appointment? I would have told him no right then. Any man who can't be polite while trying to set up a tryst with a young lady can (and should) go fuck himself. I hope you inform the next jackwagon of this rule when he is being rude. Not sure about posting the info....but this guy probably deserves it. Have you tried the "national blacklist" and "verify him" sites? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2015 I think this thread will not be up to code with TOB. Verifyhim and NBL is really quite expensive for us. Colorado IMOP is a hot spot for the hobby. I hear praises all the time, the best of the best are here. TOB instantly pops up on searches. Would it be possible for TOB to add a "provider be warned section"? With out extra cost, just maybe please? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2015 7 minutes ago, Kashmir said: Would it be possible for TOB to add a "provider be warned section"? With out extra cost, just maybe please? I have to admit that, even as a client who sometimes wonders what the ladies are saying about him, it does seem strange that there is not a place the ladies can discretely post this kind of stuff to keep themselves safe. My only concern with a ladies only forum is that the ladies would stay there, as I have very much enjoyed the increased participation by the ladies on this board. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2015 POSSIBLE ADDITION- Without an Escorts Only Board the framework you are requesting would allow a provider to enter the individuals Name, Number, Email, physical Description and a short Description of the incident ...correct? We would then need to create a way for providers to search that Data...all possible QUESTION- how would that not be outing the individual? How would you allow the individual to dispute that information? Additionally how would that be investigated to ensure a fair result? ISSUE- I see that as a way to retaliate against a bad review. To reduce that from occuring the framework could only be used to report a dangerous individual , not someone that is just pushy or rude. BENEFIT IN QUESTION- are there enough of those dangerous individuals to create a special section to report them. This may then create a sense of false security, if the individual is not on the list. That could be because they changed phones, emails and their name... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2015 6 hours ago, AkilahRose said: I honestly think he was trying to be a cheap ass and thinking of every way to not pay lol then got forceful To call any girl here on TOB ugly is funny to me, because i have yet to see an ugly girl on this site! BP yes lots of fake ugly girls but on TOB none! I'm sorry this happened to you, pretty lady. So many people are ugly but that's never an excuse to do what he did to you. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2015 7 hours ago, Laplace said: Ugly is as ugly does. I'm sorry this happened to you. You deserve better. Did I read you right? He was complaining while setting up the appointment? I would have told him no right then. Any man who can't be polite while trying to set up a tryst with a young lady can (and should) go fuck himself. I hope you inform the next jackwagon of this rule when he is being rude. Not sure about posting the info....but this guy probably deserves it. Have you tried the "national blacklist" and "verify him" sites? No he started complaining once he got into the room 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2015 11 hours ago, Kashmir said: I think this thread will not be up to code with TOB. Verifyhim and NBL is really quite expensive for us. Colorado IMOP is a hot spot for the hobby. I hear praises all the time, the best of the best are here. TOB instantly pops up on searches. Would it be possible for TOB to add a "provider be warned section"? With out extra cost, just maybe please? I agree we need a "Provider Be Warned Section" as well! guys can read about us but we can't read about guys! thats not fair lol 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2015 5 hours ago, AkilahRose said: I agree we need a "Provider Be Warned Section" as well! guys can read about us but we can't read about guys! thats not fair lol Ah, but should that area be public or private? Would the guys be able to refute your posts? What personal information would be allowed? Remember, even in the reviews we(guys) are not allowed to out a lady by posting unpublished information like real names, home addresses, or personal contact information. If what you post is limited to our profile, how useful would it be for you? What about non-TOB clients? I'm not denying a need, just discussing a few mechanics. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2015 11 hours ago, TheWhisperer said: POSSIBLE ADDITION- Without an Escorts Only Board the framework you are requesting would allow a provider to enter the individuals Name, Number, Email, physical Description and a short Description of the incident ...correct? We would then need to create a way for providers to search that Data...all possible QUESTION- how would that not be outing the individual? How would you allow the individual to dispute that information? Additionally how would that be investigated to ensure a fair result? ISSUE- I see that as a way to retaliate against a bad review. To reduce that from occuring the framework could only be used to report a dangerous individual , not someone that is just pushy or rude. BENEFIT IN QUESTION- are there enough of those dangerous individuals to create a special section to report them. This may then create a sense of false security, if the individual is not on the list. That could be because they changed phones, emails and their name... All excellent questions to which I have no answer. Ideally, in this imperfect world, there would be some kind of formal "court process" which would require trusted clients and providers acting as a "jury of peers." Alas, I understand that can never happen. If only. Sometimes this world of ours needs some old school justice, with the men and women each policing themselves. Back in my hometown (rural Midwest) about five years ago, there was a local business man who kept beating his wife, and the last time it happened he sent her to the hospital. For some reason (maybe their progeny) she didn't push matters and the small town Barney-Fifes did nothing. He was met coming out of the local bar one night by 5 men in stocking masks. They each had socks with a few bars of soap in them, which they used to give this man a whoopin', and told him this was going to happen again every time he beat his wife. The beatings stopped. That is "old school vigilante" justice. And while I don't necessarily espouse it, it sure as hell gets the job done. It only works in clear-cut cases when justice is otherwise denied. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2015 Verifyhim may charge but honestly "Boss" will credit your account for free if you ask. Some try to push there boundaries and it makes our TRUE COLORS SHINE! Good to know you stood your ground AkilahRose! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2015 Let me get this correct...He made a fuss about paying, wanted his money back didn't get any of his money back and he got no service from you? I think you won Akilah! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2015 4 hours ago, inadifferentvoice said: >> and he got no service from you? << Where did you see that part? I can't seem to find this information elsewhere in the thread. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2015 13 minutes ago, N6_in_the_village said: Where did you see that part? I can't seem to find this information elsewhere in the thread. Having just re-read the OP I have to agree with N6. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2015 (edited) Your NOT ugly. Ladies Don't become a victim. Ways women can protect themselves. 1. Take self defense training classes and make sure you fish the fight. You keep going to classes until your solid. 1st Year: Go to classes once a month. 2nd Year: Go to classes every 3 months. 3rd Year: Go to classes every 6 Months and keep going every 6 months. 2. Always cary a Knife, Mace/Pepper Spray, Tazor. Get high powered tazor and don't buy the little cheep shit. Make sure you know hoe to use it properly. 3. Buy a gun Fill out the application at the gun store. It only takes a few minutes. Buy a gun that is right for you. Ask about the different sizes and how they handle. Take a gun class. Learn how to use it. Once every 3 months go to a practice range. Get a conceal and carry license. Traveling from state to another? Make sure you check to see what the restrictions from one state to another. 4. Pay attention and keep your awareness up. Use your Sixth Sense aka Gut instinct, and trust your gut feelings. 5. Learn how to identify risky situations before he arrives. 6. Always make the guy take a shower before the session. During the you can put the money wherever you hide your stuff. The next time some asshole pushes on you, you'll have options. Take his fucking ass down until he taps out. Give him something to bitch about. Then drag him out the door. If necessary call security and change hotels. Edited December 20, 2015 by Nikki Holiday 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 21, 2015 (edited) While I strongly agree with the concept of well-armed women, DAMN, that's quite an arsenal! I can see it now: Laplace: "Hi Nikki" Nikki "Hi Laplace" Laplace: Fumbles the envelope to the floor while placing it. Laplace+Nikki: Epic 3 stooges head bonk while both go for the envelope Nikki: <slash> <slash> Nikki: <Shprittzz!> <brrrrrZZZZAPPP!> Nikki: <BANG!> <BANG!BANG!BANG!> Laplace's Last Words: "Nice grouping!" Edited December 21, 2015 by Laplace 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 21, 2015 I am as pro gun as they come, but taking a class and only practicing once every three months is not even close to enough. If you carry a gun you had better be prepared to use it once you pull it out. If you are not then leave it concealed or don't carry. Again a person should practice weekly if not more often. Not just practice shooting, but different situations you may end up in and what the best response is, which may be to do nothing. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 21, 2015 1 hour ago, Nikki Holiday said: Your NOT ugly. Ladies Don't become a victim. Ways women can protect themselves. 1. Take self defense training classes and make sure you fish the fight. You keep going to classes until your solid. 1st Year: Go to classes once a month. 2nd Year: Go to classes every 3 months. 3rd Year: Go to classes every 6 Months and keep going every 6 months. 2. Always cary a Knife, Mace/Pepper Spray, Tazor. Get high powered tazor and don't buy the little cheep shit. Make sure you know hoe to use it properly. 3. Buy a gun Fill out the application at the gun store. It only takes a few minutes. Buy a gun that is right for you. Ask about the different sizes and how they handle. Take a gun class. Learn how to use it. Once every 3 months go to a practice range. Get a conceal and carry license. Traveling from state to another? Make sure you check to see what the restrictions from one state to another. 4. Pay attention and keep your awareness up. Use your Sixth Sense aka Gut instinct, and trust your gut feelings. 5. Learn how to identify risky situations before he arrives. 6. Always make the guy take a shower before the session. During the you can put the money wherever you hide your stuff. The next time some asshole pushes on you, you'll have options. Take his fucking ass down until he taps out. Give him something to bitch about. Then drag him out the door. If necessary call security and change hotels. Better yet, just take Nikki with you! Holy Batman 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 21, 2015 11 hours ago, Laplace said: All excellent questions to which I have no answer. Ideally, in this imperfect world, there would be some kind of formal "court process" which would require trusted clients and providers acting as a "jury of peers." Alas, I understand that can never happen. If only. Sometimes this world of ours needs some old school justice, with the men and women each policing themselves. Back in my hometown (rural Midwest) about five years ago, there was a local business man who kept beating his wife, and the last time it happened he sent her to the hospital. For some reason (maybe their progeny) she didn't push matters and the small town Barney-Fifes did nothing. He was met coming out of the local bar one night by 5 men in stocking masks. They each had socks with a few bars of soap in them, which they used to give this man a whoopin', and told him this was going to happen again every time he beat his wife. The beatings stopped. That is "old school vigilante" justice. And while I don't necessarily espouse it, it sure as hell gets the job done. It only works in clear-cut cases when justice is otherwise denied. That's awesome! if this guy does this again we can fill a sock full of Trojans and beat the shit out of him with it. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 21, 2015 (edited) 31 minutes ago, boink36 said: That's awesome! if this guy does this again we can fill a sock full of Trojans and beat the shit out of him with it. This is awesome, Ill have to ad it to my list of "forms of beat downs" lol JK http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-3AxxGu4Q0ZE/UNw_jnEo3AI/AAAAAAAAAds/Fzrwf4xcZHQ/s1600/Giant-condom-pillow-3.jpg Edited December 21, 2015 by Nikki Holiday 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 21, 2015 9 hours ago, inadifferentvoice said: Let me get this correct...He made a fuss about paying, wanted his money back didn't get any of his money back and he got no service from you? I think you won Akilah! No no lol we started the session and he complained the whole time, finally "finished" the session and thats when he wanted his money back 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 21, 2015 On 12/20/2015 at 5:55 PM, Kashmir said: I think this thread will not be up to code with TOB. Verifyhim and NBL is really quite expensive for us. Colorado IMOP is a hot spot for the hobby. I hear praises all the time, the best of the best are here. TOB instantly pops up on searches. Would it be possible for TOB to add a "provider be warned section"? With out extra cost, just maybe please? Excellent suggestion! I would make it anonymous though. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 21, 2015 The guy sounds like a jerk. I'm sorry this happened to you, pretty lady. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 22, 2015 On 12/21/2015 at 8:18 PM, AkilahRose said: No no lol we started the session and he complained the whole time, finally "finished" the session and thats when he wanted his money back You should have told him............."If you can get the condom full of jizz back into your penis you can have the money back too". 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
