Stale

[sparkey600]

Is it just me, or do the posts on here seem to be stale since the update?

Is it just my imagination? Did some of the regular users drop off? Seems to me to be the case.

Just saying, it's too bad, it's not as fun as it used to be for some reason.

Do you agree? Disagree? Think I've lost my mind? (I would have to agree lol)

So, what caused this? Anyone have any input?

Thanks in advance!

[Guest]

23 minutes ago, sparkey600 said:

Is it just me, or do the posts on here seem to be stale since the update? Yes

Is it just my imagination? No

 Did some of the regular users drop off? Yes 

Just saying, it's too bad, it's not as fun as it used to be for some reason.

Do you agree? Yes

So, what caused this? Anyone have any input? Hmmmm, good questions.

Thanks in advance!

 

Edited December 11, 2015 by Kashmir
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[Guest]

Perhaps a bit.  Some old timers are still around.  But this type of forum, while very helpful to newcomers into our world, will eventually become stale and less useful to those who have been in the activity for a while.

There are only so many threads on NCNS, "Hooker math," "Outing",  "Screening," "Blacklisting," "First call etiquette", "Washing your Ass", "Personal grooming", "Writing reviews," and "When is a chick fat, or merely a BBW or curvy or pleasingly plump body type" that one can wade through before you finally understand, and eventually become jaded.

So, maybe the place isn't stale.  Maybe, you are just all grown up.  

Still, if you or others want to liven the place up, try to find something different and post on it.  Some things I'd like to see posted, some serious, some tongue in cheek:

1) We have the first transsexual/transgendered provider posting and advertising here that I've been aware of.  Beyond her introductory post, I would be fascinated to hear her take on the "hobby."  How are her experiences similar to the other providers?  How are they different?  It would have the advantage, at least, of not being "stale."

2) Gossip.  Pillow talk.  PMs.  There's a lot of stuff out there being said behind the scenes.  Who is sharing info with whom?  Which providers travel together in which circles? Which clients? When is it appropriate to say something?  When do you just listen and then forget?  Because, despite vehement protestations (and I have found that the louder one protests, the more likely they do it a lot) , every single provider and client in the world talks about other providers and clients in the world.  And it can get you in trouble.

3)  Some providers here obviously don't like some other providers here.  How about a photo-session of a single elimination naked mudwrestling throwdown between the top female providers who post here?  

4) Have the guys send in dick picks.  See how many providers can accurately identify the owner of each dick.

5) Do a provider of the month or week thing like ECCIE does.  Whatever the criteria, the winner gets a week long ad as a sticky at the top of the state forum they are in.

 

These may be good or bad topics. Just things I haven't seen a lot here.  Anyone have any ideas, post them.

 

 

[geecue2]

What I have noticed is the reviews early in the change over were really stale and or boring. Noticed here lately they are starting to get better. 

[MrFister]

2 hours ago, geecue2 said:

What I have noticed is the reviews early in the change over were really stale and or boring. Noticed here lately they are starting to get better. 

You can tell those reviews posted by phone - lacking any detail but at least it's another notch for the provider.

I seem to remember this kind of complaint (boring posts) in the past. Like the weather, just wait and it'll change.

[Guest]

3 hours ago, Laplace said:

4) Have the guys send in dick picks.  See how many providers can accurately identify the owner of each dick.

I want to play that game! Don't forget the berries in that selfie.

Cocks are better than finger prints.

No,  I may not remember the face, but I do remember the junk.

Oh and course the smile

 

 

 

 

 

[Jez UaBriain]

It would seem to be that way Sparkey600. But really I think its more of a "time" thing. Just basing this off of my own perspective. I tend to post more when I have the time to do so. Not to try to say I am a great wit, but it always comes down to - time.

[gr8owl]

13 hours ago, sparkey600 said:

Is it just me, or do the posts on here seem to be stale since the update?

Is it just my imagination? Did some of the regular users drop off? Seems to me to be the case.

Just saying, it's too bad, it's not as fun as it used to be for some reason.

Do you agree? Disagree? Think I've lost my mind? (I would have to agree lol)

So, what caused this? Anyone have any input?

Thanks in advance!

There are several members that seem to have disappeared that just seemed to have a knack for humor, wit, and asking new questions.  Some ladies in particular that if it were in person I am sure they could just lift the whole mood of the room just by walking in.  Guessing long time members know who I mean.  Certainly there have been a few new ones come in that fit that description (see second post in thread ) but seems as though more have left than new to take their place.  Probably just a phase. On a brighter note, there seem to be some missing trolls as well 

[Guest]

10 minutes ago, gr8owl said:

Some ladies in particular that if it were in person I am sure they could just lift the whole mood of the room just by walking in.  Guessing long time members know who I mean.  

Destiny.

Destiny needs to waltz in here, kick a few asses, take a few names, and waltz back out again; leaving us all wondering :   WTF just happened?

Edited December 11, 2015 by Laplace
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[Guest]

34 minutes ago, Kashmir said:

<Bold claim to be able to identify twigs and berries>

And turn about is fair play.  We could have the ladies send in an audio recording of them giving head.  I could probably Identify a dozen ladies on this board with the lights out, just by the "yummy noises" they make giving head.

Edited December 11, 2015 by Laplace

[Guest]

4 hours ago, Laplace said:

And turn about is fair play.  We could have the ladies send in an audio recording of them giving head.  I could probably Identify a dozen ladies on this board with the lights out, just by the "yummy noises" they make giving head.

What if a lady doesn't make noises giving head? Is that bad head?

To the OP, yes the forum has changed for sure.

 

[MrFister]

22 minutes ago, Kashmir said:

What if a lady doesn't make noises giving head? Is that bad head?

No "bad head" but definitely extra points for "yummy noises"

Dick pics would be a riot. I never get tired of the compliments I get 

[Guest]

25 minutes ago, Kashmir said:

What if a lady doesn't make noises giving head? Is that bad head?

To the OP, yes the forum has changed for sure.

 

The only bad head involves teeth.

But, all women make noises giving head.  They may not be aware they're making them, though. 

[sparkey600]

10 hours ago, Jez UaBriain said:

It would seem to be that way Sparkey600. But really I think its more of a "time" thing. Just basing this off of my own perspective. I tend to post more when I have the time to do so. Not to try to say I am a great wit, but it always comes down to - time.

I hope you are right Jez, that it is a kind of "off time" right now. And I for one can say I always enjoy your posts when you have the time to do so.

[pejo]

Not even close to being as good as the old board. My general feeling is the forum discussions feel sanitized, "safe" and downright boring now (there are occasional, but rare, exceptions).

[Guest]

48 minutes ago, pejo said:

Not even close to being as good as the old board. My general feeling is the forum discussions feel sanitized, "safe" and downright boring now (there are occasional, but rare, exceptions).

Fair enough.   Post something unsanitized.  Radical.  Non-boring  This board is only as good as each and every one of us make it.

I've popped my popcorn.  I'm sitting back.  Entertain me!

"Ignite my toes, Romeo!"

[pfunk]

It used to be fun to come here, and see Donny Dark ranting about conspiracies, aliens, and the "falsehoods about aids".  Or Boink and Tide32 putting each other down. Or  Katie Creme trying to convince us that she's just misunderstood. Or Gandalf Black calling everyone names, and moralizing about our sins. 

However, I prefer to see the board used as an exchange for information. About clients, escorts, safety, legal issues, and maybe even a little compassion, and fun.

If I want real excitement, I book an appointment! 

 

[TheWhisperer]

On December 11, 2015 at 7:00 AM, Laplace said:

Perhaps a bit.  Some old timers are still around.  But this type of forum, while very helpful to newcomers into our world, will eventually become stale and less useful to those who have been in the activity for a while.

There are only so many threads on NCNS, "Hooker math," "Outing",  "Screening," "Blacklisting," "First call etiquette", "Washing your Ass", "Personal grooming", "Writing reviews," and "When is a chick fat, or merely a BBW or curvy or pleasingly plump body type" that one can wade through before you finally understand, and eventually become jaded.

So, maybe the place isn't stale.  Maybe, you are just all grown up.  

Still, if you or others want to liven the place up, try to find something different and post on it.  Some things I'd like to see posted, some serious, some tongue in cheek:

1) We have the first transsexual/transgendered provider posting and advertising here that I've been aware of.  Beyond her introductory post, I would be fascinated to hear her take on the "hobby."  How are her experiences similar to the other providers?  How are they different?  It would have the advantage, at least, of not being "stale."

2) Gossip.  Pillow talk.  PMs.  There's a lot of stuff out there being said behind the scenes.  Who is sharing info with whom?  Which providers travel together in which circles? Which clients? When is it appropriate to say something?  When do you just listen and then forget?  Because, despite vehement protestations (and I have found that the louder one protests, the more likely they do it a lot) , every single provider and client in the world talks about other providers and clients in the world.  And it can get you in trouble.

3)  Some providers here obviously don't like some other providers here.  How about a photo-session of a single elimination naked mudwrestling throwdown between the top female providers who post here?  

4) Have the guys send in dick picks.  See how many providers can accurately identify the owner of each dick.

5) Do a provider of the month or week thing like ECCIE does.  Whatever the criteria, the winner gets a week long ad as a sticky at the top of the state forum they are in.

 

These may be good or bad topics. Just things I haven't seen a lot here.  Anyone have any ideas, post them.

 

 

Good suggestions:)

We have opened the discussions up to almost everything but 420 talk, so have at it:)

[pejo]

19 hours ago, Laplace said:

Fair enough.   Post something unsanitized.  Radical.  Non-boring  This board is only as good as each and every one of us make it.

Nah. I was just responding to OP's question. Otherwise I would have kept my bitching to myself. I'm not too interested in fixing the problem, really. Although, I do try to pitch in whenever I can with useful info in the 411 forum. And I try to keep things light by posting a wise crack now and then in the other forums.

[sparkey600]

2) Gossip.  Pillow talk.  PMs.  There's a lot of stuff out there being said behind the scenes.  Who is sharing info with whom?  Which providers travel together in which circles? Which clients? When is it appropriate to say something?  When do you just listen and then forget?  Because, despite vehement protestations (and I have found that the louder one protests, the more likely they do it a lot) , every single provider and client in the world talks about other providers and clients in the world.  And it can get you in trouble.

 

Big trouble indeed, I don't know anyone on here that would do this.

[BadBoy]

I would say the entertainment value is just a bit lower because some folks seem to have moved on.  Destiny was always a hoot.  2 Big was annoying, but entertaining, it could go on.  Thankfully we still have Justina, but she seems to be the only one who likes to light it up with fun.  Please don't stop Justina, even if you do move.

[Guest]

Since I've been posting more since the change, I'll consider my vanilla posts to be part of the boring trend around here. I'm not really into flaming or getting into a scrape with other posters. I'll step back into the background if I've contributed to the lack of interesting dialogue.

[MoneyTeam]

Sooooo how would you suggest we spice things up?? 

[TheWhisperer]

In October we opened the forum topics up:

TOB is considered home for all members both Male & Female to congregate collectively in a harmonious fashion, with the primary focus on our Adult pursuits.

There will be no conversation exchange pertaining to Outing---> good, bad or indifferent.

Expansion of All adult topics to a greater extent will be expressively welcomed, with the exception of controlled substances; illegal drugs, meth, pcp, weed, etc.…

[Guest]

On 12/17/2015 at 11:26 AM, TheWhisperer said:

In October we opened the forum topics up:

TOB is considered home for all members both Male & Female to congregate collectively in a harmonious fashion, with the primary focus on our Adult pursuits.

There will be no conversation exchange pertaining to Outing---> good, bad or indifferent.

Expansion of All adult topics to a greater extent will be expressively welcomed, with the exception of controlled substances; illegal drugs, meth, pcp, weed, etc.…

This is a private site and you may set whatever rules you like. [Snip}

[TheWhisperer]

On 12/17/2015 at 11:40 AM, MisterBigShot said:

This is a private site and you may set whatever rules you like. [Snip}

We will revisit that issue at a later date:)

[Guest]

12 minutes ago, TheWhisperer said:

We will revisit that issue at a later date:)

That's all I can ask. Thank you.

[chisum]

There is a great review that Includes pegging and there is a TS that is now a member of TOB. Maybe those two topics would be good thread starters. Both are something that could be interesting threads......

[Wannabebad]

On December 11, 2015 at 0:05 PM, gr8owl said:

There are several members that seem to have disappeared that just seemed to have a knack for humor, wit, and asking new questions.  Some ladies in particular that if it were in person I am sure they could just lift the whole mood of the room just by walking in.  Guessing long time members know who I mean.  Certainly there have been a few new ones come in that fit that description (see second post in thread ) but seems as though more have left than new to take their place.  Probably just a phase. On a brighter note, there seem to be some missing trolls as well 

I'm still here

[Milos Vesely]

On 12/11/2015 at 8:00 AM, Laplace said:

1) We have the first transsexual/transgendered provider posting and advertising here that I've been aware of.  Beyond her introductory post, I would be fascinated to hear her take on the "hobby."  How are her experiences similar to the other providers?  How are they different?  It would have the advantage, at least, of not being "stale."

Musta missed this one.  Link?