Posted November 18, 2015 NBC Washington: Happiest Married Couples Only Have Sex Once a Week, Study 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 18, 2015 That's only 26 times more frequent than I get it. I am only 3 sigma off happy I think. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 19, 2015 Only once a week. Hell if I could have sex with my wife once a week I would be so happy, and unfortunately none of you would have ever even heard of me. Now that I think of it, I guess everything works out for the best. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 19, 2015 Oh my, your insertion of the word "only" will get a lot of us laughing here. If I had sex once a week, I would have never, ever considered the hobby -- not for a second. It's when it becomes once every three months for eight years that I reached the breaking point. I have a relatively low sex drive, which makes my wife's inability to "keep up" with me all the more baffling. Twice a month would be fine with me. Plenty. For others, I realize, that would be absurdly low. We are all different. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 19, 2015 (edited) Survey says...How long have they been married? Sad for newlyweds, a marathon for some of us. Edited November 19, 2015 by catmanchu 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 19, 2015 16 hours ago, pitbull said: Oh my, your insertion of the word "only" will get a lot of us laughing here. If I had sex once a week, I would have never, ever considered the hobby -- not for a second. It's when it becomes once every three months for eight years that I reached the breaking point. I have a relatively low sex drive, which makes my wife's inability to "keep up" with me all the more baffling. Twice a month would be fine with me. Plenty. For others, I realize, that would be absurdly low. We are all different. This is my exact sitch. "Only" once a week would have kept me from ever considering this activity/hobby and I would have no concept of TOB and all that goes with it. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 22, 2015 I actually laughed when I heard this, no way I could be happy with my husband only wanting sex once a week, but hey that's me, I have a high sex drive. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 22, 2015 27 minutes ago, Nina Simone said: I actually laughed when I heard this, no way I could be happy with my husband only wanting sex once a week, but hey that's me, I have a high sex drive. That's the same reason that brought us to TOB! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 22, 2015 4 hours ago, Bora Bora said: That's the same reason that brought us to TOB! Lol, happy to accommodate you I actually laughed when I heard this, no way I could be happy with my husband only wanting sex once a week, but hey that's me, I have a high sex drive. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 22, 2015 I would go absolutely bonkers if I could only have sex 1 time a week! Had that kind of relationship many, many moons ago. We broke up, and I became an escort. See what starving someone of sex can do to a person LOL hee hee? I will never enter into a relationship or get married to a man unless I know that he also enjoys having sex (with me lol) on an extremely frequent basis. I need it to be a kind, focused and sane person lol. Without regular sex my mind will have erotic images and scenes constantly playing in my mind rendering me useless to the rest of the world because I'll spend A LOT of "alone" time trying to fill that void lol. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 22, 2015 (edited) Not having sex makes me depressed. I was once married. Notice the word once? I would say the best thing for a neglected husband or wife to do is either, get a mistress, get a divorce or put it to your wife/hubby plainly that you need attention as you can’t go on like this. As you can see I choose divorce over no sex. I found many men who are more than willing and have lots of fun with. Tell-Tale Signs That it's Time to Divorce = No sex No sex. I have high sex drive. If I would have stayed married to him, "I would have committed suicide." Edited November 22, 2015 by Nikki Holiday 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 23, 2015 20 hours ago, Nikki Holiday said: Not having sex makes me depressed. I was once married. Notice the word once? I would say the best thing for a neglected husband or wife to do is either, get a mistress, get a divorce or put it to your wife/hubby plainly that you need attention as you can’t go on like this. As you can see I choose divorce over no sex. I found many men who are more than willing and have lots of fun with. Tell-Tale Signs That it's Time to Divorce = No sex No sex. I have high sex drive. If I would have stayed married to him, "I would have committed suicide." Thank you for sharing this. Your words are very moving. I'm sure a lot of people reading this can relate to your situation. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites