Posted November 9, 2015 Agreed come on now why should any of us ladies have to take responsibility for you? Either be better at hiding or better at owning up but either way don't make anyone else deal with your situation. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 9, 2015 Exactly why i have always remained somewhat "Old School" in my discretionary practices. (There is no "Melinda Phone" nor "Melinda Phone Number" floating around out there.) In the past..1.Phone girls were most targeted by LE (easy for them to run down the list of numbers to run a same day/same nite sting) and2. time wasters ("Oh Goodie! I can chat up an escort!") or 3am calls- or rejected/danger guys-changing hobby phones and trying to bypass the past and get in. 3. SO's can google a number on their hubby's or BF's phone and LINK identities/activites to an escort.4. SO's FIND a "hobby phone" (and no, guys- they will not believe that it is a roadside emergency phone- there's been enough talk about "hobby phone's" out there for any woman to know what they are.5. Guy's leaving "call me back" and not saying what time is discreet to do so and RISK of the provider calling back at the wrong time..or missing the opportunity to connect.Overall.... Phone's (although convenient to the "want it now" crowd HAVE more RISK than payoff. *** YES..it's important to me to speak to a new friend by phone prior to meeting them- but we arrange that privately after the introduction is made and they are committed to meet. LESS HEADACHE... but also...I go through GREAT Lengths to protect both myself and My Client's Discretion and leave NO CHANCE to error of a phone password being known by an SO or a Silly TEXT (OMG- don't get me started on the lack of discretion of THOSE) and a gent by accident not locking down his Shit. (or even the super rarity of an SO showing up in a blind jealous rage to an incall - people get hurt that way) Yes, call me Old School...but my life has been super peaceful in the drama department and all the years I've been playing- have eliminated the stalkers-never had a call or email from an SO -ever! (and emails are easier to passcode and hide for most) frustrations and risks that can tarnish the pleasure of this venture.That's what works for me. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 9, 2015 except I don't sound like jake!!!!That's likely a good thing....reportedly, Jake sounds hideous. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 9, 2015 Exactly why i have always remained somewhat "Old School" in my discretionary practices. (There is no "Melinda Phone" nor "Melinda Phone Number" floating around out there.) *** YES..it's important to me to speak to a new friend by phone prior to meeting them- but we arrange that privately after the introduction is made and they are committed to meet. Hiya, Old School...great to see the lovely MM in the conversation!!I would say these practices are not just old school, but super secret agent old school I'm pretty sure we talked on the phone when we met but it was long ago and my memory fails.How does the "committed to meet" before you talk on the phone work?I'm thinking of getting one of those satellite phones like Bin Laden had...I mean, look how long it took to track him down. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 9, 2015 To the OP, I'm sure your "playing dumb" act was appreciated by your client.To the esteemed Nikki (who's posts I always enjoy): No, the wives/girlfriends do NOT always know. That's just not accurate. The other day I was out running errands -- really harmless stuff. I was texting with my wife and somehow, someway (I don't know how), my phone texted her my exact location. I was at a Home Depot, and it said "Home Depot." No, I don't have "Spyware" but I must have hit some sort of tracker on my texting function. All I could think of was the obvious hazard. During the rare times that I'm messing around, I turn that thing OFF. OFF OFF. At a strip club in Las Vegas three years ago, the limousine guy told me a funny story about a guy who butt dialed his wife while the guy had a 21-year-old hottie grinding in his lap -- the wife basically heard the whole interaction for a good half hour. Not good, but could have been worse. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 9, 2015 girlfriends and wives always know.Lol. I have many friends and family members whose experiences prove this statement is exactly, 100%, wrong. Of course, SOME of the SOs out there know. But "always"? Nope. Sorry. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 9, 2015 Lol. I have many friends and family members whose experiences prove this statement is exactly, 100%, wrong. Of course, SOME of the SOs out there know. But "always"? Nope. Sorry.You might be right about that. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 10, 2015 "Thats why you get an iPhone. It's impossible to put a spying app on the iPhone and hide it UNLESS it's jailbroken. All the spyware apps are aimed at the android and Windows phones. Unbroken iPhone with a software lock on it is just about bulletproof. Thats why you get an iPhone. It's impossible to put a spying app on the iPhone and hide it UNLESS it's jailbroken. All the spyware apps are aimed at the android and Windows phones. Unbroken iPhone with a software lock on it is just about bulletproof. Two stories re the iPhone1. About 3 years ago, a good friend of mine suspected her boyfriend was cheating on her and had heard about an iPhone spy app. Yes it required his phone to be 'jaibroken' which she managed to accomplish in about 5 minutes while he was sleeping. This app not only tracked with complete detail every incoming and outgoing text message, but also incoming and outgoing phone calls (even the ones he would delete from his log would still show); as well as every website he visited; every picture he took with his phone and the whopper of them all - she could LISTEN to his phone even if he turned it OFF! Meaning she could hear what was happening within a certain distance of his phone regardless if it was powered on or not!!! It was INSANE how much access this app gave her into her boyfriends life. Creepy and just goes to prove that if a regular person can do this - you can be damn sure the government can do so much more....2. A client of mine upgraded his iPhone last fall but kept his original phone. Not sure of the specific particulars but apparently it had something to do with his Apple ID being active on both phones - while he was out of town texting providers from his "new upgraded iPhone" ; his wife was at home when his old phone began to vibrate from the nightstand She picks it up and see's in real-time every text he is sending from his new phone! Needless to say, he is now going thru a hell of a divorce.... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 10, 2015 (edited) Two stories re the iPhone1. About 3 years ago, a good friend of mine suspected her boyfriend was cheating on her and had heard about an iPhone spy app. Yes it required his phone to be 'jaibroken' which she managed to accomplish in about 5 minutes while he was sleeping. This app not only tracked with complete detail every incoming and outgoing text message, but also incoming and outgoing phone calls (even the ones he would delete from his log would still show); as well as every website he visited; every picture he took with his phone and the whopper of them all - she could LISTEN to his phone even if he turned it OFF! Meaning she could hear what was happening within a certain distance of his phone regardless if it was powered on or not!!! It was INSANE how much access this app gave her into her boyfriends life. Creepy and just goes to prove that if a regular person can do this - you can be damn sure the government can do so much more....2. A client of mine upgraded his iPhone last fall but kept his original phone. Not sure of the specific particulars but apparently it had something to do with his Apple ID being active on both phones - while he was out of town texting providers from his "new upgraded iPhone" ; his wife was at home when his old phone began to vibrate from the nightstand She picks it up and see's in real-time every text he is sending from his new phone! Needless to say, he is now going thru a hell of a divorce.... Wow! Women are evil! :-) Thank god my SO is a technophobe! She can't even figure out how to use a remote. :-) Edited November 10, 2015 by Riggo 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 10, 2015 Sometimes it's funny when the wife calls during an appointment LOL Apparently, our idea of humor is not in alignment. Nothing humorous about coitus interuptus due to paranoid SO checking in via cell phone. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 10, 2015 Apparently, our idea of humor is not in alignment. Nothing humorous about coitus interuptus due to paranoid SO checking in via cell phone. That's why I said *sometimes*... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 10, 2015 I guess I must be blessed as I have never had the misfortune of begin contacted by anyone's wife and/or girlfriend...So there's little I can add to this post beyond to say I am truly glad its never happened to me and hope it doesn't happen to anyone else here in the future, as that would have to make for a rather unpleasant experience for sure.... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 10, 2015 Re: Danielle Rae's post re: multiple iPhones showing same texts. Yup, a feature. If texting with a fellow Apple user, the texts are actually IM-like in that goes across the internet via Apple servers. And all Apple devices that are signed into iCloud can also send/receive these "texts". So, iPad can go off. And the Mac. You see couples complain about this on the Mac/Apple boards: share same iTunes/iCloud account, and are seeing each others contacts, texts, "his" phone rings when the call is to "her" phone, etc.So the lesson to the guys is: get a burner phone app for your smartphone and use that to do your mongering calls and texts. And to be safe, don't have that same app installed on the old device. And put a damn security code on. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 10, 2015 Apparently, our idea of humor is not in alignment. Nothing humorous about coitus interuptus due to paranoid SO checking in via cell phone. 'Paranoid' perhaps the wrong word to describe the SO in that scenario...just saying... LOL 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 10, 2015 What would be a better term then? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 10, 2015 (edited) Two stories re the iPhone1. About 3 years ago, a good friend of mine suspected her boyfriend was cheating on her and had heard about an iPhone spy app. Yes it required his phone to be 'jaibroken' which she managed to accomplish in about 5 minutes while he was sleeping. This app not only tracked with complete detail every incoming and outgoing text message, but also incoming and outgoing phone calls (even the ones he would delete from his log would still show); as well as every website he visited; every picture he took with his phone and the whopper of them all - she could LISTEN to his phone even if he turned it OFF! Meaning she could hear what was happening within a certain distance of his phone regardless if it was powered on or not!!! It was INSANE how much access this app gave her into her boyfriends life. Creepy and just goes to prove that if a regular person can do this - you can be damn sure the government can do so much more....2. A client of mine upgraded his iPhone last fall but kept his original phone. Not sure of the specific particulars but apparently it had something to do with his Apple ID being active on both phones - while he was out of town texting providers from his "new upgraded iPhone" ; his wife was at home when his old phone began to vibrate from the nightstand She picks it up and see's in real-time every text he is sending from his new phone! Needless to say, he is now going thru a hell of a divorce.... Wow this just happened to my sister with her husband doing it to her. She filed, and is now in the process of getting divorced. Wow! Women are evil! :-) Thank god my SO is a technophobe! She can't even figure out how to use a remote. :-)Yeah sometimes we are lol. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned lol. We'll see how fun and funny this act of deceit was to her husband once the divorce is finalized LOL. She has never worked a day since they have been married, they have two small children and she doesn't have a college education. I'm guessing she will make out nicely lol.Insecure people make unwise decisions that eventually cause them more harm than benefit.BACK TO THE TOPIC...Men... Please save all numbers as if they were just another man in your phone. (Example: Scarlett Dayne would become Scott Dayne.) It's pretty simple to do, OR even better yet... GET A HOBBY PHONE LOL.I have been contacted by wives a few times. It's gut wrenching for me to have to deal with. All of them have been men that just contacted me, and hadn't had a date yet so I didn't have to tell any lies to cover someone's ass lol. However once right when the date was just beginning my phone was blowing up. The gentleman's wife kept calling me and her husband's phone repeatably. So he finally picked up his phone, and proceeded to get in a huge argument. I am not down for all that drama so I quickly got dressed, put the donation back on the nightstand and left out the back door. I do not like or engage in all that chaotic negative energy. He called to apologize, and ask to reschedule LOL. Ummm not so much lol. Edited November 10, 2015 by Scarlett Dayne 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 10, 2015 "Needless to say, he is now going thru a hell of a divorce.... ""Wow this just happened to my sister with her husband doing it to her. She filed, and is now in the process of getting divorced."Where are the forgiving wives? You know, the ones who when they realize their man is stepping out for some strange, decide to up their game, suck a dick, and save their marriage? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 10, 2015 In all the time I have been around, and yes, it's been a while, I have had maybe 1 or 2 wives or girlfriends contact me.I probably ask for more screening information than most any other woman on the board, and am super diligent in my screening. Funny how many problems can arise when you open yourself up to visiting someone when using the 2 references, or the like, as screening.I personally don't think this is a large issue in this business. I find drama follows those who look for it. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 11, 2015 What would be a better term then? Insightful. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 11, 2015 "Needless to say, he is now going thru a hell of a divorce.... ""Wow this just happened to my sister with her husband doing it to her. She filed, and is now in the process of getting divorced."Where are the forgiving wives? You know, the ones who when they realize their man is stepping out for some strange, decide to up their game, suck a dick, and save their marriage?Those guys stopped posting the minute they got caught! LOL! They probably also spent a few thousand on some really nice gifts! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 11, 2015 (edited) I have been contacted by wives a few times. It's gut wrenching for me to have to deal with. All of them have been men that just contacted me, and hadn't had a date yet so I didn't have to tell any lies to cover someone's ass lol. However once right when the date was just beginning my phone was blowing up. The gentleman's wife kept calling me and her husband's phone repeatably. So he finally picked up his phone, and proceeded to get in a huge argument. I am not down for all that drama so I quickly got dressed, put the donation back on the nightstand and left out the back door. I do not like or engage in all that chaotic negative energy. He called to apologize, and ask to reschedule LOL. Ummm not so much lol.I bet. God bless all of you beautiful ladies! Better management from the clients side would keep you from having to deal with the crap. Sorry you have to deal with it at all.I actually do not use a hobby phone since it would be difficult to explain. My work phone however has over 8000 contacts in it. Hard to pick out the rose bushes from the weeds... And it is password protected by company policy. :-) Edited November 11, 2015 by Riggo 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 11, 2015 What would be a better term then? Intuitive; bright; keen; justifiably suspicious, etc. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 11, 2015 This is a very good topic. I wish guys where not like this.A client contacted me. His screening cleared, our schedules didn't mesh at time. He booked and appointment for the next day. Little did I know his girlfriend had spy wear on his cell phone. She showed up at my incall first thing in the morning before his 3ock. Then of course he never showed up. lol Seriously?! SPY WEAR! or Spy WARE?. Just teasing you Nikki. What a stupid mistake. At least get a "cheater" phone! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 11, 2015 Seriously?! SPY WEAR! or Spy WARE?. Just teasing you Nikki. What a stupid mistake. At least get a "cheater" phone!Sometimes my spelling is so bad, even laugh at myself. For example one time Wendy emailed very nicely said hey honey did you know your spelling which as in witch with a broom. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 11, 2015 THANK GOD I'M SINGLE HA HA HA HA !Hello All. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 11, 2015 Intuitive; bright; keen; justifiably suspicious, etc. Touche'. Chalk one up for the SO(s) 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 12, 2015 Just don't be really stupid with your iphone. iMessage defaults to all your devices, so if you get a new ipad or computer that you left someone else use, all your messaging and contacts will pop up there too!But Burner is awesome. Just don't let it access all your stuff like they are doing with the new updates for people that just want to give numbers to insane girls at bars then track that 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 13, 2015 A thought... when you are wrapping up the session and giving them a hug good-bye, remind them to delete your correspondence (text message, phone number, etc).Or, you could ask to invite their wife/GF to stop by the next time! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 14, 2015 i once had a regular's SO call me. she asked if i knew "john". the first thing i could think of was to ask her if she was the one who was fucking my boyfriend, john. i continued on, telling her that i would appreciate it if she kept her ass to herself. it fucked with her enough that she just hung up. apparently, she never mentioned anything to my regular. ha ha 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 15, 2015 i once had a regular's SO call me. she asked if i knew "john". the first thing i could think of was to ask her if she was the one who was fucking my boyfriend, john. i continued on, telling her that i would appreciate it if she kept her ass to herself. it fucked with her enough that she just hung up. apparently, she never mentioned anything to my regular. ha haI don't care who you are, that there is funny! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
