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 This may be a question more for the providers, obviously good hygiene is of the upmost importance but what type of grooming is preferred?  Obviously there some personal preference ranging from waxed like a swimmers body to none at all but just wondering what the expectation is or if there is an expectation beyond being  freshly showered 

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NO expectation. It's what you are comfortable with. Ladies may have a preference but it seems to me like in a business that preference shouldn't be enforced. One may like a full on bush while the other likes it smooth, you can't please everyone so just please yourself

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I would recommend at least trimming the hair around your balls. I'd wager that most of us, men and women, prefer less pubic hair over "au naturel". If anything, less chance of gagging on hairs that way. I've shaved down there (just the sack and crack) for so many years that I really prefer it even if I'm not hobbying. The SO prefers it too.

I admire Lucy's professionalism but, if I prefer "bald", then I figure my partners do too. 

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I would recommend at least trimming the hair around your balls. I'd wager that most of us, men and women, prefer less pubic hair over "au naturel". If anything, less chance of gagging on hairs that way. I've shaved down there (just the sack and crack) for so many years that I really prefer it even if I'm not hobbying. The SO prefers it too.

I admire Lucy's professionalism but, if I prefer "bald", then I figure my partners do too. 

You know bald is losing traction and pubes are coming back in! Thank you for the nice words but to me it really is about professionalism and personal choice. Ladies aren't here to pick their clients based on their preferences. Pubes are personal and should be handled how you prefer. I personally am a fan of bush on men and women and it really doesn't have an impact on whether not I want to get busy with someone.

I have pierced nips and prefer them would you do that for me??? :P

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Us married guys have to be a little careful. I don't want her wondering why, after all these years, all of a sudden I'm really concerned about shaving my balls. But I do try to strategically trim a bit in a few ares of concern.

As for women, well, honestly, I like a little something going on down there. All women are different. If you have a jungle going on, yeah, a trim is nice. Some women are just fine without any work at all. But shaving it all seems to be the fashion. Certainly not a deal breaker for me, though. 

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I know I prefer a small landing strip or shaved on a woman so I try to be very neetly trimmed.  I do find it interesting that some like the full bush

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I double dog dare you to show up with a hairy ass, balls and flop. :mad: 

If your pubic hair has grown past the length of your cock, and your dick is lost in the tangled forest, you get no cock and sucking no licks. Id ask you for divorce if was your wife. Lets be honest, some girls seem cool with having your hair in there mouth, lose hairs stuck down in there throat or between there teeth.  UMMMMM NO... with this crap about be professional. Try gaging on fur balls and no dick. Take care of your flop and sack shave your nuts.  

Now I'm starting to think that a tongue ring would be better than spiting balls of fur. 

No fur balls please.

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Ahhhh much better......shave your boys and your dip stick. :P

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I double dog dare you to show up with a hairy ass, balls and flop. :mad: 

If your pubic hair has grown past the length of your cock, and your dick is lost in the tangled forest, you get no cock and sucking no licks. Id ask you for divorce if was your wife. Lets be honest, some girls seem cool with having your hair in there mouth, lose hairs stuck down in there throat or between there teeth.  UMMMMM NO... with this crap about be professional. Try gaging on fur balls and no dick. Take care of your flop and sack shave your nuts.  

Now I'm starting to think that a tongue ring would be better than spiting balls of fur. 

No fur balls please.

UMMMMM so that's your opinion. I like hair and I even have a tongue ring. Professionalism is not forcing you personal preference on something that is so intimate and not your choice.

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If your pubic hair has grown past the length of your cock, and your dick is lost in the tangled forest, you get no cock and sucking no licks. Id ask you for divorce if was your wife. Lets be honest...

Some wives have no risk of hair being stuck in their teeth. And before anyone says they'd get a divorce if their wife didn't give them blow jobs; please. A marriage is about more than that. And if that's the only thing you're lacking, there are plenty of women who are happy to make your life complete. I think a lot of guys just deal with it. Some of us are more open to alternative solutions.

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I guess the same would go for facial grooming. Stubble likely the least desirable (anywhere on the body). At least I've never heard that being an attractive option. I know beards can be attractive but I never liked mine.

I dress casually for meetings, never shorts, but I have worn sandals with jeans and a t-shirt. Always clean, of course.

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You know bald is losing traction and pubes are coming back in! Thank you for the nice words but to me it really is about professionalism and personal choice. Ladies aren't here to pick their clients based on their preferences. Pubes are personal and should be handled how you prefer. I personally am a fan of bush on men and women and it really doesn't have an impact on whether not I want to get busy with someone.

I have pierced nips and prefer them would you do that for me??? :P

Yeah, I see a lot more bush in porn now. I haven't considered piercings. I'm past my mid-life crisis so probably not going to happen now.

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No body come yell at me about this, please. It is a bit more than about personal preference in the hobby. It is about cleanliness. Bare skin is easier to clean than hair, why do you think people are shaved before surgery? Hair is a breeding ground, trapping moisture and what nots.

I can see the point of not alerting your SO by suddenly shaving, but you can trim.

A huge bush makes it more difficult to check for lumps, bumps, and lesions.

If you are in a monogamous relationship, grow that shit until you can braid it. Who cares?

Personally, I don't like my teeth flossed during a BJ.

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I guess the same would go for facial grooming. Stubble likely the least desirable (anywhere on the body). At least I've never heard that being an attractive option. I know beards can be attractive but I never liked mine.

I dress casually for meetings, never shorts, but I have worn sandals with jeans and a t-shirt. Always clean, of course.

I love whiskers a man with facial hair is super sexy to me. 

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I guess the same would go for facial grooming. Stubble likely the least desirable (anywhere on the body). At least I've never heard that being an attractive option. I know beards can be attractive but I never liked mine.

I dress casually for meetings, never shorts, but I have worn sandals with jeans and a t-shirt. Always clean, of course.

You observation is correct. I for one love facial hair when NOT freshly trimmed. Facial hair is actually very soft and kinda tickles down there;). It's a general rule to not trim before seeing a Lady and if you must, do so 3 days before your date. This is especially important for those without a full beard.

As for trimming or shaving,  do what is your comfort level and not draw unwanted attention to your new routine. If unable to shave, trimming is very much appreciated by myself. I really don't like hairballs yet fortunately I can count on 1 hand how many times I've actually had hair stuck in my throat:eek:. Oh and guess what, sometimes it's been my long ass blonde hair:P

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Some wives have no risk of hair being stuck in their teeth. And before anyone says they'd get a divorce if their wife didn't give them blow jobs; please. A marriage is about more than that. And if that's the only thing you're lacking, there are plenty of women who are happy to make your life complete. I think a lot of guys just deal with it. Some of us are more open to alternative solutions.

IDK but last time I checked sexual intimacy is very important, especially within a marriage. Instead of cheating on my husband, in 2006 I walked out my sexless marriage. Yes, I divorced him over no sex. I later found many other men to satisfy my heart and physical desires. No sex for me would cause me depression. 

It is important to some people. 

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UMMMMM so that's your opinion. I like hair and I even have a tongue ring. Professionalism is not forcing you personal preference on something that is so intimate and not your choice.

I was being sarcastic with the tongue ring. I was thinking of Justina's incident. Because it was funny. I can promise you I wasn't thinking of you. :rolleyes:Your right about one thing "not forcing you personal preference". However, It is my choice if he wants to see me. I make my own rules. No one sets them for me, that includes you. I bring it up in a very friendly professional way so I don't offend anyone. So far I haven't had any problems. Its worked out fabulous for me and them. And it his choice to not see me. 

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IDK but last time I checked sexual intimacy is very important, especially within a marriage. Instead of cheating on my husband, in 2006 I walked out my sexless marriage. Yes, I divorced him over no sex. I later found many other men to satisfy my heart and physical desires. No sex for me would cause me depression. 

It is important to some people. 

I didn't say no sex or intimacy. I said no blow jobs. At least from my wife. ;)

I agree that sex is important. And ironically, that has improved since I've started doing this. 

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I didn't say no sex or intimacy. I said no blow jobs. At least from my wife. ;)

I agree that sex is important. And ironically, that has improved since I've started doing this. 

Lucky you! Many men don't have sex and intimacy from their wives. They would probably give their right arm for it. As for blow jobs, maybe your wife knows something we don't.

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I was being sarcastic with the tongue ring. I was thinking of Justina's incident. Because it was funny. I can promise you I wasn't thinking of you. :rolleyes:Your right about one thing "not forcing you personal preference". However, It is my choice if he wants to see me. I make my own rules. No one sets them for me, that includes you. I bring it up in a very friendly professional way so I don't offend anyone. So far I haven't had any problems. Its worked out fabulous for me and them. And it his choice to not see me. 

UMMMMM NO... with this crap about be professional

 

except you said that

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UMMMMM NO... with this crap about be professional

 

except you said that

Except I was again being sarcastic in nice way. :rolleyes:

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Lucky you! Many men don't have sex and intimacy from their wives. They would probably give their right arm for it. As for blow jobs, maybe your wife knows something we don't.

Very Ironic. I feel like the word of the day is "grateful". And I certainly am that, in a big way. I was just having a conversation with a friend about that. We were kinda laughing because I kept using that word. I really do appreciate how well things have worked out for me.

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At this stage of my life grooming down there just isn't an option.  I've never gotten a complaint, but maybe the ladies are just being polite.

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I had to shave when I got the tubes clipped. My SO liked the way it looked and I like the way she showed me she liked it. So I shave.

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I had to shave when I got the tubes clipped. My SO liked the way it looked and I like the way she showed me she liked it. So I shave.

lol I remember doing that. I'd never done anything down there before. I shaved every hair in a mile of my balls. My Doc commented that I'd done a thorough job. It made me hot when the nurse nodded. She was kinda hot. Later, the doc kept telling me I owed him a sample for the test. I kept thinking the nurse should get it from me. 

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I'll trim, but shave no way. And I prefer providers that have a little hair down there too.

 

 

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There's no sense beating around the bush on this topic. Hair is a personal choice whether it's on your head, your face, or in more intimate areas. To each his own. Personally I like shaved and smooth both for me and my partner. I know some prefer the more natural look, or even just a trim. I started shaving the boys to make the ladies who prefer the smooth and shaved look happier. I know that some ladies prefer facial hair on their man and some prefer the clean cut look. I'm sure that this applies to other areas as well.

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If you want me to lick, kiss, suck and savor your balls.....please wax them or at least trim them somehow. Same kind of applies for the pussy I like in my mouth....trimmed at the hairiest. I don't want to feel like i'm sucking on wet mittens lol.  

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I agree it's up to personal preference, but I've always at least trimmed down there since my former wife brought it up many years ago.  I always enjoyed going down on her more when she was clean shaven or bare...ever since then I've at least trimmed and shaved to make things more enjoyable for the woman I am with.  Over the past couple of years I get a monthly wax (brazilian, butt and abs) and have gotten many compliments from girlfriends that appreciate the effort and when I look back I think I received more oral sex because I keep it so clean and hair free.  Yes, I was very concerned about how much it would hurt the first time I got my "junk" waxed, but the lady I go to was great and if you do it on a regular basis (ever 4 - 6 weeks) it thins the hair and it doesn't hurt.  I keep this routine even if I'm not in a relationship because I do like the look and feel and it just feels better and cleaner all around.   Also, there is the mental aspect for me where I it make me feel more secure knowing that I'm clean and smell good and don't look like a bear down under when it's time to get "frisky"!  Too each their own, but I prefer clean shaven and to be clean shaven (or waxed). 

Also, if waxing isn't your thing, laser hair removal does work too...I've had a few sessions that has thinned the hair out significantly, but it is a bit more expensive.

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