Should I say Hi out side of the hobby??

[crazyb]

I wonder how the girls feel about this

I have seen one of my favorite providers a few times at the store, she is by her self and I was by myself. Should I say HI? or should I do as I have done and just keep walking and not say anything?

Just curious

[coolhand luke]

don't say anything unless she does. just smile and nod.

[geecue2]

Once seen a provider outside the hobby while walking downtown going to a party, out of the corner of my eye, seen her walking towards me. I was thinking wow sexy lady. When I looked up at her, she was already smiling, did not say anything. She gave me a big hug, funny thing was we were both going to the same function.

[Guest]

don't say anything unless she does. just smile and nod.

I agree. The last thing I would ever want is for some client to out me in public, especially if I was with company. Smile and nod; leave the rest for another time..

[Bit Banger]

don't say anything unless she does. just smile and nod.

^^ THIS ^^

Let her begin anything further.

[Guest]

In Denver, you can also get away with a hat-tip and a "howdy ma'am."

But nothing more.

[wglide2003]

I agree, let the lady make the first move. Yes smile at her.

[MAG]

I wonder how the girls feel about this

I have seen one of my favorite providers a few times at the store, she is by her self and I was by myself. Should I say HI? or should I do as I have done and just keep walking and not say anything?

Just curious

Even if she APPEARS alone, she may not BE alone. Especially at the store - mom or SO could be just around the corner, in the next aisle.

Next time you have an appointment with her, bring this up. She might say, "geez I wondered why you didn't say hi"

[Guest]

Even if she APPEARS alone, she may not BE alone. Especially at the store - mom or SO could be just around the corner, in the next aisle.

Next time you have an appointment with her, bring this up. She might say, "geez I wondered why you didn't say hi"

sorry, but the moral high ground you're pushing is a red herring. first of all, why would a client bring it up in the next session (especially if the provider's "mom" or so called whatever was around the corner) and second, chances are the provider never even noticed that person. it's pretty arrogant for a provider to act that way after the fact. truth be told i don't want anyone that knows me professional to out me personally, and i would never demand a reason why a client didn't say hi to me (if i saw him) in public..

[MAG]

sorry, but the moral high ground you're pushing is a red herring. first of all, why would a client bring it up in the next session (especially if the provider's "mom" or so called whatever was around the corner) and second, chances are the provider never even noticed that person. it's pretty arrogant for a provider to act that way after the fact. truth be told i don't want anyone that knows me professional to out me personally, and i would never demand a reason why a client didn't say hi to me (if i saw him) in public..

What "moral high ground"??? I simply suggested he bring it up if he was curious how to handle it if happens again, and that maybe (maybe) she saw him as well, and didn't say anything at the time.

I don't know what translator you used to interpret my post, but you might try taking off your shit colored glasses next time. I never used the word "demand" and I never insinuated he should out her.

Sheesh.

[BigBaldBlk]

don't say anything unless she does. just smile and nod.

Best advice, unless you can get a running high five from her . . . still just smile and nod!

[frankenthaler91]

don't say anything unless she does. just smile and nod.

Of course, the flip is true. Unless she is 1000% sure you are single. Maybe you now have a FWB sense you last saw her.

[macho]

If you really love her set her free. See all escorts are wild and can never be tamed. Even if you could gentle her, one look in the eyes in a challenging way and wack you getting stabbed with hair pins. Many men have successfully corralled and barebacked escorts. But they can never break them and they remain wild. That's not even the hard part . The hard part is when realize you can't keep her and you have to release her. Your dream of love is crushed. Back to being lonely. As you take her back to the fields to roam free. You have to tell her to be free. GO! Your free now. you feel a deep sadness. But at the same time you see the beauty that she will be better off. She will not be able to comprehend why you are dropping her off naked in a field. While throwing rocks at her yelling "your free now please go".

You're are probably thinking "Macho don't no shit bout shit." Well my friend I too have successfully caught and barebacked an escort. Maybe not excalty like what I wrote up there but close. But in the end she could never be domesticated. She will always be my moby dick. My white whale. I have never again been that close.

[csm007]

You're are probably thinking "Macho don't no shit bout shit." Well my friend I too have successfully caught and barebacked an escort.

Not sure how the topic if one should say hi to an ASP on the streets led to loving an ASP and setting her free. I hope your mentioning of "bareback" is a metaphor and not BBFS. BBFS should be discouraged.

[Guest]

If you really love her set her free. See all escorts are wild and can never be tamed. Even if you could gentle her, one look in the eyes in a challenging way and wack you getting stabbed with hair pins. Many men have successfully corralled and barebacked escorts. But they can never break them and they remain wild. That's not even the hard part . The hard part is when realize you can't keep her and you have to release her. Your dream of love is crushed. Back to being lonely. As you take her back to the fields to roam free. You have to tell her to be free. GO! Your free now. you feel a deep sadness. But at the same time you see the beauty that she will be better off. She will not be able to comprehend why you are dropping her off naked in a field. While throwing rocks at her yelling "your free now please go".

You're are probably thinking "Macho don't no shit bout shit." Well my friend I too have successfully caught and barebacked an escort. Maybe not excalty like what I wrote up there but close. But in the end she could never be domesticated. She will always be my moby dick. My white whale. I have never again been that close.

Macho, your posts are sometimes silly and annoying, but this one is a treasure! I have copied it into Word, changed the font to a calligraphy style, and printed it onto an 11x17 parchment style paper. Tonight it will find a prominant place on the wall of my man-cave.

It has the biting wit of Fred Reed, with strong undertones of Dave Barry's surrealism, and a wisdom all its own.

Thank you.

[Bit Banger]

With the references to horses, I think he meant w/o a saddle.

But w/Macho you never know.

[Guest]

I would say to just give a nod and smile in recognition and if she reacts with a nod and smile back or nothing at all, she is probably not in a place where she would want to explain how she knows you. On the other hand she may come up and give you a big hug. I have seen clients out with their families and I have done the same thing. Hell one guy came into my retail store with his wife. I acted totally normal but, when she went into the dressing room I could see he was very nervous. I had to tell him, relax I know nothing.

I have run into a couple of clients at school and have one in a class with me. It was really interesting having to do a group paper together. We both handled it maturely, and now we get a kick out of sharing our dirty little secret. Nothing could be done really except drop the class, and well I don't think going to that extreme would be necessary. If I see someone at school, I always say hi and give hugs, nobody knows me or what I do. Other places, not so much.

[crazyb]

Thanks Every One

I think I made the correct choice to just leave her be

Have a great week all

I am heading for the Bahamas next week so some one else will have to pick up my slack

[Big unit]

Nothing wrong with a smile and a nod, It's common courtesy for someone you DON'T know. However I had one awkward situation were I was at a bar with both my sisters for a Bday when up saunters a leggy blonde, WAAAAY outta my league lol. Gives a hug and kiss on the cheek. That was hard to explain.

[inkspot]

If you really love her set her free. ,,,,

Macho, I think you should get the TOB 2015 Award For Humor previously held by Boink.

Your posting border between comic genius and alcohol infused nonsense.

I enjoy reading your posts despite the difficulty in comprehension.

[crazyb]

Nothing wrong with a smile and a nod, It's common courtesy for someone you DON'T know. However I had one awkward situation were I was at a bar with both my sisters for a Bday when up saunters a leggy blonde, WAAAAY outta my league lol. Gives a hug and kiss on the cheek. That was hard to explain.

I think that would be priceless to explain to my sister

[frankenthaler91]

Nothing wrong with a smile and a nod, It's common courtesy for someone you DON'T know. However I had one awkward situation were I was at a bar with both my sisters for a Bday when up saunters a leggy blonde, WAAAAY outta my league lol. Gives a hug and kiss on the cheek. That was hard to explain.

Someone dared her to do it.

[pitbull]

sorry, but the moral high ground you're pushing is a red herring. first of all, why would a client bring it up in the next session (especially if the provider's "mom" or so called whatever was around the corner) and second, chances are the provider never even noticed that person. it's pretty arrogant for a provider to act that way after the fact. truth be told i don't want anyone that knows me professional to out me personally, and i would never demand a reason why a client didn't say hi to me (if i saw him) in public..

Whoa! I have to white knight for av8r now, who was actually just warning others about those grocery aisle lurkers. Actually it's a good point. The "lady" may have sent a family member to the bread aisle, right? Now the shy and retiring av8r can go about the business of defending himself.

[MAG]

Whoa! I have to white knight for av8r now, who was actually just warning others about those grocery aisle lurkers. Actually it's a good point. The "lady" may have sent a family member to the bread aisle, right? Now the shy and retiring av8r can go about the business of defending himself.

I don't think I've been called shy before. Good one pit!

[socutesocurvy]

In Denver, you can also get away with a hat-tip and a "howdy ma'am."

But nothing more.

What movie is this?

[Bit Banger]

Legends of the Fall, I think.

IMHO one of Pitt's best.

[boink36]

If you really love her set her free. See all escorts are wild and can never be tamed. Even if you could gentle her, one look in the eyes in a challenging way and wack you getting stabbed with hair pins. Many men have successfully corralled and barebacked escorts. But they can never break them and they remain wild. That's not even the hard part . The hard part is when realize you can't keep her and you have to release her. Your dream of love is crushed. Back to being lonely. As you take her back to the fields to roam free. You have to tell her to be free. GO! Your free now. you feel a deep sadness. But at the same time you see the beauty that she will be better off. She will not be able to comprehend why you are dropping her off naked in a field. While throwing rocks at her yelling "your free now please go".

You're are probably thinking "Macho don't no shit bout shit." Well my friend I too have successfully caught and barebacked an escort. Maybe not excalty like what I wrote up there but close. But in the end she could never be domesticated. She will always be my moby dick. My white whale. I have never again been that close.

Catch and release preserves quality fishing for future generations.

[Guest]

If she made eye contact, I might just smile and say "hello". If she didn't see me, I wouldn't do anything. On a second or third visit, I did have one lady say she thought she saw me at a gas station. But it was so far out of my travel area that I was sure it wasn't me.

Let me put the shoe on the other foot guys: What if a lady recognized you? Would you want HER to say hi?

[Guest]

Last summer I had someone (who I had not met) recognize me at FedEx. When I stepped outside he called out my name: Justina. and started talking to me about "how he has yet to reach out to me but has been meaning to."

I immediately became aware of my surroundings and the fact that anyone who may have been in the parking lot could hear him. He later sent me an email profusely apologizing for his error.

I have yet to recognize anyone (Gentleman or Lady) but if I did, I would be very aware of both of our surroundings before I made a gesture or flashed a smile. I would never want to disrespect anyone's personal space/life and I would hope the same for me.

[JRWolfe]

Last summer I had someone (who I had not met) recognize me at FedEx. When I stepped outside he called out my name: Justina. .

HUGE no-no. I've run into a few ladies and if a nod leads to a conversation, I never ever address them by name. Doesn't matter if its a stripper, an escort or a porn star...who knows who else is around that may know them by their civilian name and not their industry alais...and vice versa, when I know a girls real name ,I don't address her by it at a convention or on a set.

Think time and place...know your surroundings and keep it on the downlow.