Posted January 12, 2015 The 99% assumption from the sexting thread has me wondering. There are a lot of variables around repeat visits so this poll can't cover it all. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 12, 2015 If the chemistry is right, have seen some ladies over 20 times. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 12, 2015 I have a group of ladies (sometimes as many as a dozen) who I tended to see once or twice EACH YEAR. I've been seeing some of them for 10 years. Interspersed with that are 'one & done' ladies, some because the didn't peak my interest enough, some because they had moved on before they came around in the rotation. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 12, 2015 I picked "2 or 3", but your selections don't really reflect my experience. So far I have visited 33 different ladies. Of those I have seen: 2 ladies 10+ times each 4 ladies 3 times each 5 ladies 2 times each The rest 1 time each. I'm new enough that I can remember the particulars of each and every encounter. Many were amazing. Some, not so much. So, in addition to continuing to see the two ladies who aways deliver an outstanding session, I intend to make return visits to about 17 of the 31 ladies I have seen 1, 2, or 3 times. Usually, I want the sure thing, which I can get by seeing a favorite or someone I've seen before. But sometimes, I want the excitement of walking through the door for the first time. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 12, 2015 Usually, I want the sure thing, which I can get by seeing a favorite or someone I've seen before. But sometimes, I want the excitement of walking through the door for the first time. I'm not voting because I'm not exactly sure how to apply it to me. LOL But I like Laplace's response. I have 3 ATF's. Each for their own reason and each completely different from the other. I've built my relationship with them individually so I always have an idea of what to expect. It's always a blast in person and the sideline conversations that continue outside of the visits are also something that I enjoy. New guys: its like a *new relationship*. (That early phase where you are getting to know each other and almost everything is funny or intriguing.) It's fun and exciting and maybe he's about to teach me something I've never done or thought of before. With some of the BDSM/Kink stuff, it's awesome to see what they bring to the table as far as experience and desires. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 12, 2015 About 18 or 19 times for myself with one lady......I guess that qualifies as an ATF! But she is in semi retirement now so my days are numbered I'm afraid. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 12, 2015 I only see one Lady although I did venture out one time. That was a disappointment but it wasn't any fault of that Gorgeous Lady. It was just me. I have built a relationship with my ATF and every visit is exceptional. She is low volume and part time. Maybe I like to believe we help each other. She is exceptionally accomodating. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 12, 2015 I have seen my FBSM lady probably about 15 times. She has some quirks, but she now has a PhD in how to yank my crank and feel me up. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 12, 2015 I disagree with the 99% hit it and quit it stat. That would leave the rest of us to divide up the remaining 1% as regulars. I have more repeats than I do one and dones. It's my preference and I try to encourage it, there are some ladies that are the exact opposite they would prefer the constant stream of new friends. Having many repeats I have many good friends as a result, many of them have been with me for years. Some are once a week, month to a handful of times a year. I think what makes those repeats so good is we reach a level of comfort where both involved share real pieces of themselves. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 12, 2015 I've got a wide range, but a session has to really curl my toes for a repeat. On the other hand, once my toes are curled, I'll see a gal until my interest wanes or she retires. I currently enjoy seeing a couple of girls who are still working eight years later. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 12, 2015 (edited) Indeed , Bit has his stable. He loves us, we love him. He loves all women. 'Nuff said there. Justina is right. LOL! (Like always)!. We ladies have our ATF's. I have , suffice to say-more then one. These friends, for indeed they have become (with all the right boundaries in place) my friends. I absolutely love these guys. I look forward to meeting with them because we have so much fun. And as I said they have become my friends. And friends are people we like catching up with on life . These are the guys we extend our time with them for free. I have had many multiple day times with my ATF's. Simply because I like them. We have gone through divorces,' deaths of parents, (mine included), deaths of spouses........ Oh yes, some guys I will repeat with as long as they will have me, and I, them. They are my many repeats all time favorite guys. The rest, wile I like them and consider them to be very nice men, I am absolutely fine with a one -time visit. I just hope I remeber thir name 6 months down the road when ask as a reference. Do you know how many men are named Bob, Dick, Tom, Harry, Steve, Joe, Jack...........etc. (Right, I know-hijack!) LoL !Sorry. Edited January 12, 2015 by Jez UaBriain adding to. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 12, 2015 I've got a wide range, but a session has to really curl my toes for a repeat. On the other hand, once my toes are curled, I'll see a gal until my interest wanes or she retires. I currently enjoy seeing a couple of girls who are still working eight years later. Or her interest wanes. Guys, just because you have benjamins in your pocket does not mean you will be seen. Hoes' being ho's you can find someone. But their are a few of us that don't care for some guys Mr. Bens. Just sayin' ..... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 12, 2015 A few for me. Much of the time, I'm a one and doner lol! But there are at least two I try to see every few months, there maybe some new additions to the stable after my last two visits! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 12, 2015 I think what makes those repeats so good is we reach a level of comfort where both involved share real pieces of themselves. Luce, this is the one, (and only) time I agree with you. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 13, 2015 Interesting results from this poll so far with the short-attention-span clients in the minority. I appreciate the comments. They've forced me to consider my own preferences. The majority of my experiences in the past few years have been mediocre. Some of it due to health issues but most likely because of my particular expectations. I find that much more satisfying than those first time encounters that can get awkward and sometimes leaves you with a twinge of regret because you overhyped it or it didn't go as planned. Do you give them a second chance and revisit? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 13, 2015 this thread had me thinking so i crunched the numbers. ATH number of visits would be shared among about 5 clients who are weekly visitors . they are up to over 200 visits each. ahhhhh....the memories. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 13, 2015 i think when you find a good fit keep with it 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 14, 2015 i think when you find a good fit keep with it Repeat after me.. A fool and his money are soon parted... A fool and his money are soon parted... A fool and his money are soon parted... Signed, A. Foole with no money but I repeat myself... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 14, 2015 There are some ladies that I have seen multiple times because I enjoy my time with them and we get to know what each of us likes with regard to sharing pleasure. So the "loyalty" category is my choice. Each has their own unique "spin" and I enjoy their differences and special talents. With that being said, I also enjoy meeting ladies I have not yet seen because of the "new" feel, the excitement of exploring someone for the first time and because sometimes I just like uncharted territories. It can be a ton of fun and I have found more ladies to re-visit. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 16, 2015 Typically it's one and done. Not because I don't like repeating but because it's really hard for me to prebook and most of my appointments are same day or last minute. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 17, 2015 My distribution is similar to Laplace's but I've been active for 4 years, so I've had the opportunity to see more ladies. Probably half the ladies I've seen once, but many 2-4 times, several 5-10 times and a couple more than 10 times. I obviously like repeats, but the excitement of meeting the periodic new gal is mucho fun. As the OP makes note, the question of how many guys see ladies more than once came up in the thread about providers sexting and why should they both bother? If this poll indicates many guys see providers more than once and providers would like certain clients to repeat, it is good business to make that client feel a little special and a sexy message is a quick way to accomplish this. Sometimes I turn on my hobby phone to find a more random message from a provider, but sexting around the time of a scheduled appointment stimulates both of my heads. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 17, 2015 As the OP makes note, the question of how many guys see ladies more than once came up in the thread about providers sexting and why should they both bother? If this poll indicates many guys see providers more than once and providers would like certain clients to repeat, it is good business to make that client feel a little special and a sexy message is a quick way to accomplish this. Sometimes I turn on my hobby phone to find a more random message from a provider, but sexting around the time of a scheduled appointment stimulates both of my heads. Yes, the good ones do seem to know how to make you feel special. True story to let you ladies know what simple man-sluts a lot of us are. One provider I've only seen a few times recently sent me a short email: "I've been thinking a lot about your cock, lately." That was it. Wow! A lady who thinks about something I think about every day! Seriously, I wouldn't be surprised if she sent the same email to most of her repeat clients. But it was a simple, suggestive, message out of the blue that struck me at just the right time. I made an appointment with her within a week. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 17, 2015 Lol! I'm just like you. If only women knew how easy we are! Now I'm likely to get a flood of sexual compliments and it's going to cost me a fortune. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 17, 2015 Lol! I'm just like you. If only women knew how easy we are! Now I'm likely to get a flood of sexual compliments and it's going to cost me a fortune. Chapter 1 of the service manual. They all have it. Trust me, they know VERY well how easy we are. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 17, 2015 Interesting...in a hobby where cheating on wives and SOs is common place the results for the Loyalty is Royalty kind of surprised me. I understand the variety is the spice of life thinking and over the years I've had a number of ATFs that I saw almost exclusively but I'm having trouble wrapping my head around this concept of, I'm not going to cheat on the woman I'm cheating on my wife with. ...Happy Hobbying... ...Crazy Horse... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 17, 2015 I tend to see a small circle of ladies repeatedly. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 17, 2015 Interesting...in a hobby where cheating on wives and SOs is common place the results for the Loyalty is Royalty kind of surprised me. I understand the variety is the spice of life thinking and over the years I've had a number of ATFs that I saw almost exclusively but I'm having trouble wrapping my head around this concept of, I'm not going to cheat on the woman I'm cheating on my wife with. ...Happy Hobbying... ...Crazy Horse... lol, this is a good one!!! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 17, 2015 Interesting...in a hobby where cheating on wives and SOs is common place the results for the Loyalty is Royalty kind of surprised me. I understand the variety is the spice of life thinking and over the years I've had a number of ATFs that I saw almost exclusively but I'm having trouble wrapping my head around this concept of, I'm not going to cheat on the woman I'm cheating on my wife with. ...Happy Hobbying... ...Crazy Horse... I guess I missed the part where anyone mentioned cheating, or that seeing more than one "business woman" was cheating. I am one that prefers to repeat because I enjoy myself more when I feel like I kinda know the lady and her unique traits, abilities and inclinations. But I like to repeat with more than one and the word "cheat" never enters the picture. I know, a common assumption is that all johns are married, but it is a bad assumption. The only time I have screwed an escort while married was when I was married to one - except technically she was retired so not sure that counts! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
