Posted February 15, 2013 So my wife and I have a fantasy. She wants to see me with another woman and I want to be with two women (one my wife) at once. She is also bi-curious and excited of the thought being with a woman, which I wouldn't mind watching (can't lie). Lol. Has anybody experience this type of date and do they usually go as we'll as I'm seeing in my head? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 15, 2013 The general advice for this scenario is, "Let her pick the third playmate." As for who should be on the selection list, use the search term "couple friendly." 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 15, 2013 How open is your relationship? Does she know that you see ASP's? How would she react if she found out? If she doesn't know, let her lead this encounter. If you drop the bomb that you have been seeing ASP's (TMI might give it away) it might just end the relationship. Hope it works out for you. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 15, 2013 had a friend of mine many years ago, who had a very open minded young lady for his wife.... after several years of an open marriage working out fine for the both of them, she left him for a female playmate of theirs... now they are married... true story. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 15, 2013 Well, the good news is that many providers (most ASP's I know) are up for couples sessions. Sounds like fun . 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 16, 2013 Thanks for all of the advice and to the girls for those who were willing to send me a private message. Please keep it coming. There we have some time to think but I know for now we are still at a "fantasy" level. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 17, 2013 Go to a swingers club like Scarlet Ranch. There is opportunity for gg play and 3 or 4 some activity as well. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 18, 2013 How exciting. Your wife sounds very open. You are a lucky man. Since it sounds like you're starting out, I would like to give you a way to make sure that your wife feels that she is in control during your adventure. Even if your session does not include BDSM, a safeword is a great way to make sure that each participant has a way of stopping the session if necessary. If your wife were to feel uncomfortable during the session, she mite have a hard time saying so. Having one word that everyone agrees upon makes it easier. Talk with her about a safeword. Agree on what that safeword is. Example: "Mississippi." At the beginning of your session, sit down in the living room to have a chat with the provider. Inform her that a safeword is in place. She can use it if she needs to. So can you (altho, it sounds like you won't, tee hee). During the session, check in w your wife at least twice. Ask her if she is OK w everything. If your provider is skilled at couples, she will take longer in the bathroom than she needs. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 18, 2013 Lucky man if this works out, amigo. My wife can't even watch hetero couples kissing on TV anymore. (guess that explains why I am here). 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 18, 2013 Lucky man if this works out, amigo. My wife can't even watch hetero couples kissing on TV anymore. (guess that explains why I am here). Lucky indeed. Stoke that fire of lust as long as you can. Don't take it for granted, comrade. Make it happen. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
