Posted January 30, 2013 I'm being told more than I wish that I last too long. I've always been this way, even when younger. I can go for an hour, or more, without a goal (assuming there's chemistry, and there usually is). I totally enjoy the the sensation of two people being so close and almost as one, it's an art form, and to me, the shot is just not that important. I am an aerobic fitness addict, and rate on the MET scale as an elite endurance athlete, just below world class. I don't get tired. I hate it when a lady tells me she's worn out, or sore. I certainly don't want to hurt anyone, and yet I hate to stop. So, what I am to do? Most providers I've seen lately think they've failed if I don't pop in the allotted time, but I don't feel that way at all. Should I tell ladies about this up front, so they know? How do I find ladies who enjoy sex as an endurance sport? Should I put this on my P411 profile? I understand that providers, because of the nature of the work, may focus differently than I do. I just want to have a good time, but no one seems to want to go full blast for as long as I do. I would really appreciate some honest answers from the lovely ladies here! It's a real problem. Thanks. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 30, 2013 I'm not very familiar wit the MET scale....but I've been able to play John Madden football for 11 hrs on three separate occassions:p 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 30, 2013 How do I find ladies who enjoy sex as an endurance sport? Advertise on swinger-type sites for women who want endurance sex. I've never met a single one, either escort or civilian. Should I put this on my P411 profile? I suspect you'll scare girls off if you do. This is work, and who wants to work harder, and longer? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 30, 2013 I'm not very familiar wit the MET scale....but I've been able to play John Madden football for 11 hrs on three separate occassions:p Good one! LMFAO! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 30, 2013 What are some "good" swinger sites? I've tried Ashley Madison, Adult Friend Finder, Sugar Sugar, all without any luck. I think the webmasters are the only ones who get "lucky" taking money from suckers like me. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 30, 2013 The whole concept of "sex as an endurance sport" sounds like something you don't want to list. For providers, it simply means more work for the same $. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 30, 2013 sounds like a guy who spends too many hours with his prostate planted on a bike seat to me. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 30, 2013 What are some "good" swinger sites? I've tried Ashley Madison, Adult Friend Finder, Sugar Sugar, all without any luck. I think the webmasters are the only ones who get "lucky" taking money from suckers like me. As I noted in my previous post, I've never met anyone who wanted sex as an endurance sport. I kinda doubt there are many who do. Good Luck! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 30, 2013 The whole concept of "sex as an endurance sport" sounds like something you don't want to list. For providers, it simply means more work for the same $. As I noted in my previous post, I've never met anyone who wanted sex as an endurance sport. I kinda doubt there are many who do. Good Luck! Disagree. Assuming this isn't complaint-bragging/self promotion, the dude should be fully upfront regarding this quirk. Women should know what they are getting into(what if he books a multi-hour? ) OTOH, to the OP: Just be glad you don't have this guy's problems: http://www.theotherboard.com/forums/showthread.php?t=34556 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 30, 2013 sounds like a guy who spends too many hours with his prostate planted on a bike seat to me. That could be true! I use a cut-out saddle, but there's still a loss of sensitivity. When I was younger, after a trip to Shotguns, I'd hole up at the hotel across the street and call zzzz escorts, Rick and Crystal if anyone remembers them. They had great ladies working for them, super hot. I'd go through 2 in a row most nights I was out. Maybe that's the solution, book back-to-back appointments. Hard to do in the mountains, though. I had lot's of discretionary income back then, too. Not so much anymore. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 30, 2013 hey bum, interesting post. must be the combination of good genetics (presumably) and a superior workout regimen. kind of nature+nurture. poor guy. i'd think that there must be a few providers who would enjoy a good hard-pounding session (after all sex can be a delirious aerobic workout of pleasure) once in a while instead of 2 minutes and the furious inch they probably typically get (after 58 minutes of blowing for all they're worth) from the majority of their clients - old, fat, out of shape hobby horses. and hey, no offense but you know who you are. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 30, 2013 hey bum, interesting post. must be the combination of good genetics (presumably) and a superior workout regimen. kind of nature+nurture. poor guy. i'd think that there must be a few providers who would enjoy a good hard-pounding session (after all sex can be a delirious aerobic workout of pleasure) once in a while instead of 2 minutes and the furious inch they probably typically get (after 58 minutes of blowing for all they're worth) from the majority of their clients - old, fat, out of shape hobby horses. and hey, no offense but you know who you are. Thanks for the post, urfan. I've been interested in your postings for some time, they always shed a different light on things. I'm not quite sure, though, what you meant when you said "no offense but you know who you are." What are you trying to say? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 30, 2013 hey bum, interesting post. must be the combination of good genetics (presumably) and a superior workout regimen. kind of nature+nurture. poor guy. i'd think that there must be a few providers who would enjoy a good hard-pounding session (after all sex can be a delirious aerobic workout of pleasure) once in a while instead of 2 minutes and the furious inch they probably typically get (after 58 minutes of blowing for all they're worth) from the majority of their clients - old, fat, out of shape hobby horses. and hey, no offense but you know who you are. One clarification: it's not all about hard pounding. I prefer to mix it up, super slow to super fast, whatever the mood calls for and what I sense my partner wants. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 30, 2013 hey bum - tmi there but seriously, what i meant with the 'no offense' comment was two-fold, as usual. first, it's to keep me from getting any more infractions for being an outspoken little prick. second, have you ever seen some of your fellow 'hobbyists' - with their clothes on? when i think of some of the humanity that these wonderful gals have to deal with as their job . . . 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 30, 2013 I hear you skibum, we are a lot alike in that department. All I can say is in my life aside from hobbying.................it just depends on the woman. Some absolutely love it and those have been some of my best experiences. At the same time there are others who didn't know exactly what I meant about going for a while until they find out and they get sore more easily, tired, or end up thinking they are doing something wrong and that it has to do with them. I have personally felt bad with those ladies before because I knew it had nothing to do with them, it's just what I like, what I wanted my partner to like, and what I see as a better experience. Everyone's idea of a better experience is different though, and that's fair enough. It's all just hit and miss until you find the right one. If you find the right one, make sure to see her again, and not just a one time thing. When it comes to hobbying, it is the exact same. Some love it, some don't. Some haven't charged me extra for going over the allotted time, but be prepared to schedule the time you need and pay if you do go over, or go home empty handed. If you find a provider that likes it and sees things the way you do.............make sure to see her again. Oh, and I do put it in my profiles, posts, whatever...........that is part of why I have gotten responses, but again it's just hit and miss when it actually comes down to it, and it still doesn't matter when it comes to hobbying, you have to plan ahead for it just in case. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 30, 2013 I'm not very familiar wit the MET scale....but I've been able to play John Madden football for 11 hrs on three separate occassions:p LMFAO! (Almost spit out my coffee) 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 30, 2013 Skibum, Be careful with this one as a lot of bike riding on a hard saddle can cause impotence/ED and loss of sensitivity. I live in Boulder, and trust me, the biking community knows of this. It has to do with continually compressing a certain nerve/set of vessels in the groin area, I believe. So if you're already having symptoms, I would switch to (only) running for a while. http://men.webmd.com/features/biking-and-erectile-dysfunction-a-real-risk Good luck. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 30, 2013 Irish, we are totally on the same page. I want to be like Rocco Seffridi, how does he find women like that? What an inspiration! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 30, 2013 You paid for "an hour of her time". So pound away. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 30, 2013 I think the lack of responses from the ladies says it all. Unfortunately for you, for us this is a "job". While some of us may only see one client a day or one client a week, several of us see several guys in one day. For the most part, and I say most part so that I am not including everyone, we do not want you to come and physically and emotionally drain us when we know we have four other appointments lined up for the day. Even for escorts that only do one appointment that day, having a significant amount of endurance during a one hour appointment can greatly affect the rest of our day. Some of us have boyfriends or families that we have to tend to outside of this hobby. Some of us have school and regular jobs and we prefer to not stretch our endurance to the limits before we deal with these other situations that we will be faced with throughout the day. I am not saying that the type of woman that you are looking for does not exist, because that would not be true. But, from an escorts point of view (generally), we do not want to fuck you for the whole hour straight. When the appointment ends, we do not want to feel like we just participated in a triathlon. Like Mr. Reindeer, I DO recommend that you put this information in your preferred 411 profile, because to be honest with you, for me, this would be a deterrent, and just as fair as it is that you have your likes, we have our dislikes too. My assumption is that you would do better finding this type of situation in the civilian world than the escort world. Anyhow, I wish you good luck. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 30, 2013 Thanks for the honest response Destiny, I totally understand where you're coming from and agree with what you said. I think it's best to be up front, I'm willing to compensate for the extra "work", and search out the ladies who are best suited. You piqued my interest on finding someone in the "civilian" world. I just don't know how to do that. Any ideas? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 30, 2013 Not a problem for me. Like Dave Chappelle said(regarding premature ejaculation, paraphrase), "Everytime I cum it's right on time!" 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 30, 2013 You piqued my interest on finding someone in the "civilian" world. I just don't know how to do that. Any ideas? Maybe you can find a girl at a bar or a club. I remember in my drinking days I actually really loved this type of sex. You know, drunk girls can be a lot of fun. Since you are just looking for sex and not commitment, this very well could be a good avenue for you to pursue. Just a thought. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 30, 2013 Nothing wrong with burning a few calories!! I'd prefer a good roll in the hay verses running on the treadmill! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 30, 2013 Destiny, I can't drink, that's why I workout so much! Sexy, PM me, we should meet up! Any others who feel the same, PLEASE PM me! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 30, 2013 meant to say erotic, not sexy. sorry. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 31, 2013 Just remember...never take them back to your place...and pick another alias besides "Boink"...at least five of us are already using it:D Maybe you can find a girl at a bar or a club. I remember in my drinking days I actually really loved this type of sex. You know, drunk girls can be a lot of fun. Since you are just looking for sex and not commitment, this very well could be a good avenue for you to pursue. Just a thought. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 31, 2013 hey bum - tmi there but seriously, what i meant with the 'no offense' comment was two-fold, as usual. first, it's to keep me from getting any more infractions for being an outspoken little prick. second, have you ever seen some of your fellow 'hobbyists' - with their clothes on? when i think of some of the humanity that these wonderful gals have to deal with as their job . . . I look just as good with my clothes off as I do with them on. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 31, 2013 You wanted the gals response? I thought the same as destiny.. providers are NOT chiming in. Well.. from porn where 40 minutes of a solid viagra blown out dick are required.. that's $1,000 immediately in my/ our hand. I see the director holding fingers of the eight minutes I must hold every position. I have had ONE guy" sport fuck" in 6 years... pounded an hour and 15 minutes out of me straight from when the door opened to when I threw him out. Anger... resentment... hatred... toward women/his wife that he yelled in my ear the ENTIRE TIME. I layed on my washer/dryer floor and cried afterward. WOMEN HATE THAT! Guys hate when we take daddy issues out on them..wait... they cash in on it... We hate when it is a sport fuck with a troll. When guys are going for "time".. we feel HATE not that you passed a P90X workout. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 31, 2013 If the ladies had their way it would be 2 min sex and if they offer msog then they hope its another 2 min and the rest of the time being talking, foreplay, etc... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
