Posted January 4, 2013 Hey ladies what is it about being tied up and dominated thats sexy? I see some of the photos in the posts and I gotta wonder WTF!!! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 4, 2013 It's not to me, but who am I to judge others? I know there are at a least a few people, I would like to tie up, and leave, but... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 4, 2013 It's not to me, but who am I to judge others? I know there are at a least a few people, I would like to tie up, and leave, but... Oddly enough, that just might make me hot. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 4, 2013 it's all about trust and control, babe 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 4, 2013 I am not so sure Rough equates Dominance but I enjoy that every so often. I think it has something to do with just being able to relax and let your senses be heightened. Especially if you are a person who has to make a lot of decisions or has a lot of responsibilities during "office hours" if you will. Then it's great to not have to lead in the bedroom. To have the other take control of your pleasure is pretty sexy I must say. But I wouldn't do that with a person I don't know or trust. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 4, 2013 I think it goes both ways. I love the idea of being dominated, having no power over what may or may not happen next. Exciting! I also love when I am in control, so its not really about being dominated for me, its the idea of getting really into it and not knowing whats next to come...or who. ;0 Hey ladies what is it about being tied up and dominated thats sexy? I see some of the photos in the posts and I gotta wonder WTF!!! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 4, 2013 Urfan had it right... Different strokes, for different folks! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 4, 2013 Hey ladies what is it about being tied up and dominated thats sexy? I see some of the photos in the posts and I gotta wonder WTF!!! "Domination" does not mean "rough". Tying her up and teasing her, talking softly yet sternly to her, sensually dominating her and be slightly mean to her can be a HUGE turn-on for both. You can gently gag her with your cock without hurting her, make her mascara run without making her cry... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 4, 2013 Because of the title, I think it needs to be qualified. Being dominant and being rough aren't the same thing. I think most girls have a fantasy of being dominated...without fear of physical harm. There's probably a small percentage of girls that get off on fear and physical abuse...and as others have mentioned...to each their own. I suppose there's a ton of gray area in between this as well, but I would assume that any of these activities would be suited to a familiar partner....not a first time appointment. Of course...I have a better understanding of moon rocks than what women actually think:o I think it goes both ways. I love the idea of being dominated, having no power over what may or may not happen next. Exciting! I also love when I am in control, so its not really about being dominated for me, its the idea of getting really into it and not knowing whats next to come...or who. ;0 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 4, 2013 Because of the title, I think it needs to be qualified. Being dominant and being rough aren't the same thing. I think most girls have a fantasy of being dominated...without fear of physical harm. There's probably a small percentage of girls that get off on fear and physical abuse...and as others have mentioned...to each their own. I suppose there's a ton of gray area in between this as well, but I would assume that any of these activities would be suited to a familiar partner....not a first time appointment. Of course...I have a better understanding of moon rocks than what women actually think:o Jake and LittleOreo have the right if it. Dominance and being rough are not synonymous. There is a name for those of us that do like pain, we are called masochists or sometimes pain sluts but what it never is is abuse. There is a great satisfaction in relinquishing control to someone you trust implicitly. You get to close your eyes and simply enjoy. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 4, 2013 Porn has very much distorted the perception of Dom/sub sexual relationships. A good DOM is patient, a guide, teacher. He creates an atmoshhere where the young lady wanting to experience a submissive journey knows there will be no judgements. She is free to ask questions, push limits and boundaries. Stopping and starting for doubts and fears is OK. Of course for an experienced sub with a good DOM, the trip can be earth shattering. "Rough" can be a part of the journey. But as always a discussion of boundaries, physical and sexual limits must be established and...honored. Soft and sensual under the control of a mature, experience DOM is also part of the journey Not for everyone, but for those that understand....... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 4, 2013 yeah, yeah, yeah but how does one utter the safe word with a ball gag in one's mouth, pray tell? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 5, 2013 yeah, yeah, yeah but how does one utter the safe word with a ball gag in one's mouth, pray tell? By dropping the silk scarf clutched in your hand. Not all safe word signals are verbal. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 5, 2013 ahhh the old silk scarf clutched in your hand trick. now, if i can just wriggle my wrist free of that darn restraint . . . 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
