Posted December 11, 2012 So, I just found out that there's a post-op transexual (lady hole & boobies) advertising services [to straight men] & not disclosing the fact that he/she has a mattel branding somewhere on his/her body... A friend of mine told me that he/she kind of follows the "don't ask, don't tell" policy when it comes to having a conversation about his/her background & a lot of gents never find out about his/her credibility as it relates to being an authentic woman. My question to all of you is: How would it make you feel to find out that a 'lady' you once saw was in fact a post-operative transexual? Do you think it's wrong for shim to handle business this way? P.S. He/She is somewhat high-end & goes for no less than 1k every hour... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 11, 2012 First question - Do the body parts match the stated gender? Yes, then move on! For all LEGAL purposes she is a woman. End of story. Now as pre-op TS advertising as a female escort (as opposed to TS, for which there is a considerable market in some areas) would be a problem, similar to any Bait&Switch situation. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 11, 2012 In my book, it is wrong to NOT mention the operation. Nothing against anyone, but I want to be with a woman who was a born a female. If that is an unjust bias of some sort, so be it. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 11, 2012 I would be pissed if i found our after the fact. i too would want a woman who was born a woman. i would hate to find out that i can't tell the difference between a woman and a shim. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 11, 2012 I'm with BB on this one. As long as the lady hole and boobies are good...as Taj Mahal would say..."ain't nobodies biddness but 'cho own". 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 11, 2012 to me it is an issue of integrity.... not to say that he/she wouldn't be able to provide a great session, but that, to me, it would also fall into the bait and switch category... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 11, 2012 I'm with BB on this one. As long as the lady hole and boobies are good+1. I don't need to look at baby pictures or a birth certificate to see how s/he was born. If s/he advertises as a lady and in the eyes of the law she's a lady and looks like a lady, I'm alright with it. As long as the only junk in the room is mine, we are solid 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 11, 2012 to me it is an issue of integrity.... Bingo! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 11, 2012 oh wait while i throw up a little in the back of my throat after reading this thread 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 11, 2012 I'm actually surprised at the number of responses (so far) that have been comfortable with the situation. Personally, I'd be upset if that fact were not disclosed beforehand. It almost seems like some of the guys are saying "a hole is a hole!". Apologies if that rubs some people the wrong way. I couldn't care less if someone I knew of a friendship level was a TS. However, whether it's my dating life or my john life, I want intimate relations with a woman who was born a woman. There are plenty of men out there who might be turned on by a TS, so advertise as such and stop hiding things. As others have said, nondisclosure shows a lack of integrity. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 12, 2012 I will just say that my concern for this individual is for their safety if a client found out the reality of the situation. Some people do not always react well to information such as this, and there is potential for someone to fly off the handle. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 12, 2012 P.S. He/She is somewhat high-end & goes for no less than 1k every hour... It's a good thing none of you cheap TOB bastards can afford this Ladyboy. I kid, I kid. Y'all know I heart you and your deep pockets. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 12, 2012 I once picked up a girl in a bar (or rather, she picked me up), who, upon further reflection in the days after, I decided was originally a dude. She was great, it was fun, but then, I wasn't paying. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 12, 2012 It's a good thing none of you cheap TOB bastards can afford this Ladyboy. Yes I'm a cheap bastand and was thinking that since she is out of my price range it just doesn't matter. As for the OPs questions, if the equipment is correct and functional I really don't see why it would make a difference. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 12, 2012 It's a good thing none of you cheap TOB bastards can afford this Ladyboy. I kid, I kid. Y'all know I heart you and your deep pockets. She is $980.05 out of my price range. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 12, 2012 She is $980.05 out of my price range. Any luck ever finding that girl that lets you pay in three easy installments?? If the person in question is post operational is it not more than a little insulting to call them a "shim"? I would think that most that would actually go through with something like a sex change certainly identifies with their chosen sex. I also don't personally believe that our genitalia always match our true gender. I can understand wanting to know I suppose and it might be fair to let your clientele know. I can surmise however from this thread that people already do know and it is only a matter of time before it is just common knowledge In Roberta's heart of hearts, Garp and Jenny knew, she was more feminine than anyone; but in her body of bodies she was a highly trained rock. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 12, 2012 Not my thing....I wouldn't be happy to find out, but I'd have a hard time believing I couldn't tell either. There's more than anatomical differences between men and women. My question to all of you is: How would it make you feel to find out that a 'lady' you once saw was in fact a post-operative transexual? Do you think it's wrong for shim to handle business this way? P.S. He/She is somewhat high-end & goes for no less than 1k every hour... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 12, 2012 take it to the jerry springer show. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 12, 2012 This thread is gay. But...I got to use the term "ladyhole" twice in one day. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 12, 2012 Thing of it is...A surgeon can't do a perfect replica of nature. A surgeon doesn't change the tell-tale appearance of man hands and man jawline. Again, it's a free country and I have absolutely no problem with those who wish to change their bodies. Just not a turn-on in any way. A woman is more than the sum of her parts, and the same can be said of a man. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 12, 2012 There's more than anatomical differences between men and women. One anatomical item - does the individual still have an Adam's Apple? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 12, 2012 This thread is gay. But...I got to use the term "ladyhole" twice in one day. It's not gay. Someday there will have to be more acceptance about this issue. It took time to learn that homosexuals didn't choose their orientation and eventually people will learn that not everyone born with a penis is really a man and not every vagina belongs to a woman. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 12, 2012 It's not gay. Someday there will have to be more acceptance about this issue. It took time to learn that homosexuals didn't choose their orientation and eventually people will learn that not everyone born with a penis is really a man and not every vagina belongs to a woman. Luce, I agree with you. To answer the OP's question, I have no problem with someone who was born male, but is now female. I don't require the info (in advance or after), nor would it affect my choice of a provider. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 12, 2012 It makes all the difference to me. Regardless of their anatomy, I have zero interest in getting that close to someone possessing a Y chromosome. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 12, 2012 Tastes like chicken Seriously, if you guys are too stupid to do your due dilligence, or are too drunk/stoned to figure out the tell-tale signs of a tranny, then you deserve to bung-hole a ladyboy. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 12, 2012 Sophia I agree with you. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 12, 2012 I would not actively search out this provider, but if I were to find her advertizment and find her photos attractive, if she had good reviews providing the type of session I was looking for, then I would have no problem with her. But I would prefer to never know that 4 years ago she was a man. I am not looking for a long term relationship with her or any other provider, the rules differ. I would be pissed if my SO were to post nekid pics of herself online (of course if she did - not to many dates I am sure) and screw 12 strange men a week. But I have no issue if my provider does. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 13, 2012 yea it does make a difference to me! not that it has to do with a post op lady. it's as if she is hiding or covering up a really important detail! i may not be able to interpret or guess this detail through her website. as great as photos may be presented. but i would feel mislead once meeting this lady. and i don't believe take backs would be in order considering her asking rate. also if i'm going to be dropping that type of donation, i certainly would expect, and rightfully so, that all interesting info would be disclosed to me before the appointment. again not a negitive prejudice on my end-BUT JUST BE FRIKEN HONEST. there certainly are gentleman seeking this type of provider. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 14, 2012 I guess it really would not make a difference to me as long as I did not know. If the person appeals to me and has good reviews and her services were what I was looking for. TS or TG is not my thing but if none the wiser....... I am sure that the person in question really considers themself of the female gender. In order to go that far with surgery and all she must have undergone extensive psychiatric counseling and have been living like a female. I myself would consider her a female. If push came to shove I would much rather be with a transgender than a transsexual but would seek out neither if I knew. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
