Would It Be Fair For Me To Say...

[Guest]

Well, the proof is in the pudding. Thanks Dave.

Sorry, no brainer for me, #1 gets my call!

[Guest]

Hmm,guess I should have been clearer...by "media " I was referring to both mainstream AND adult video. The sex industry isn't just confined to escorts.

That said..my observations as to what sells best does not always reflect my personal tastes.

Sorry maybe I misunderstood u

[Wendy Whitney]

I should remind you that a man only interested in boning a woman only cares about her beauty.

I don't think that is always the case - JMHO

[2small]

Im like some of the other guys. I like women with a little meat on there bones. Its a proven fact that good looks and a sexy body will get you noticed and in the door. For me if you want to stay inside the door you have to have a brain and be able to carry on a decent conversation. I dont care who you are or who you are with, in time the sex may still be good but its not as passionate as it once was. A lady with a brain will always make it interesting. I like medium to haevy ladies. If im paying for it i like the more spinner types even though im a fat old geezer. In the real world I like all types. Destiny would fit in my world either for pay or as an SO.

[Bigguy]

I am not into fat chicks, but there are some guys who are. That said, I prefer a girl closer to 200 pounds than 150, but she should be about 6' 3". Maybe I am different, but I am such a big guy that I feel like I might break a spinner even though I know I won't. Height is a big criterion for me, and I prefer a girl with a little extra padding-not fat but not skinny either.

[lilithia]

Being called a bitch is a complement, I love it, god knows I have a string of men who can can testify too that.

Secure, confident, sexy as hell intelligent, empathic loving, dedicated, attractive and yes a bitch.

Hobby on

[Velvet Valentine]

If guys only liked skinny girls, I wouldn't live the lifestyle I have, and I'd be broke...so they can say what they think is cool here, but the proof is in that, for me.

[Guest]

Every guy has a "type" they like agreed. Some do prefer & only see spinners. But to say a big girl cannot do as good or better than a petite girl is false.

When I first started doing this, I knew guys liked me/hit on me etc....but I honestly was not sure if I could make a living off of it. I was introduced by a petite girl, 100lbs 5'2 natural D's & a very nice butt...long dark hair beautiful white skin & blue eyes. (she is no longer in the business lol so don't ask who lol) So I posted on CL & the first night I got nothing:( I was very sad....but the next day I woke up to 100 missed calls!!! In fact for the first year we worked together & to my surprise my "FAT ASS" Got WAY more calls than she did!

It has been great ever since, in colorado & now traveling....infact its been so good I am planning to travel to other places. (hope what I'm saying is not considered advertising, just trying to proove a point....forgive me if I'm breaking a rule.)

Just because a few guys on the colorado board claim they only pay spinners....doesn't mean it's true for everyone.

I get so many guys who tell me they never liked full-figured women til me...& I know many big girls who say the same thing. So for someone to tell me that the calls I get, the money I make & guys that tell me they love curves do not exist is a joke....I'm living proof.

Beauty & sexuality comes in different shapes & sizes, either your sexy or not, & personality does play a BIG part in it.

So believe what you like....imagine what you wish...I know what MY reality is & its LOTS of Money for a FAT GIRL:D

[Guest]

If guys only liked skinny girls, I wouldn't live the lifestyle I have, and I'd be broke...so they can say what they think is cool here, but the proof is in that, for me.

exatly...how are a few rondom guys on TOB gonna tell us what we get & don't get....thats soooo silly hahahah:p

People are not investing money into vuloptuous magazines & bbw sites for nothing;)

[Guest sophiarose]

I'm sure they probably are. I don't think this question was phrased as who gets more clients, but it seems to have veered that way for whatever reason.

I am with JR on this...in terms of marketing you appeal to the majority. Plus size women are starting to become more prominent in advertising, but still to a lesser degree than skinny/very skinny women.

I do know when I lived in NYC guys were constantly telling me to eat more so I could be thicker lol...problem with that is that's just not my genetics. I eat a lot anyway.

I've also definitely been too skinny, and that's not GENERALLY attractive to men. I've been as low as 105lbs when I used to obssesively work out, and guys wouldn't really hit on me. I was too bony (I'm 5'8"). I noticed a definite change in interest when I put on 10/15 pounds.

There's also a certain level of flack that guys take from each other or their friends for their preferences. I have one friend who LOVES obese women...when his friends first found out they gave him a lot of crap as that's not the media image of what a girlfriend should look like. Eventually with time he got over it and now he doesn't give a shit. I think this peer pressure can affect how men express their preferences, and they may have a tendency to keep it more hidden if it goes against the grain so to speak.

[Guest]

You can say whatever you like, but I know and you know too that girls that are not overweight are GENERALLY considered more attractive by men than girls that are overweight. As long as fat women keep justifying to themselves that they are "sexy" they will never have any motivation to change.

[Guest]

I don't think this question was phrased as who gets more clients, but it seems to have veered that way

Yep...

it had absolutely NOTHING to do with getting clients.

[Guest]

If guys only liked skinny girls, I wouldn't live the lifestyle I have, and I'd be broke

Sure, guys will pay girls of any size. My point wasn't about clients that pay. My point was a generalization that most men would prefer a woman that is not overweight as to a woman that is overweight. Also, my thread was not directed toward anybody here. It was more about me and my insecurities so don't take it personally.

[Guest]

for someone to tell me that the calls I get, the money I make & guys that tell me they love curves do not exist is a joke....I'm living proof.

Nobody said that.

Do you think you get MORE attention than [snip]?

Edited September 27, 2012 by The Oxymoron
intended to antagonize

[Guest]

You can say whatever you like, but I know and you know too that girls that are not overweight are GENERALLY considered more attractive by men than girls that are overweight. As long as fat women keep justifying to themselves that they are "sexy" they will never have any motivation to change.

Actually I lost 60lbs in the last year. (I love weight watchers;)) I now wear a size 14 I am still BIG & sexy & if I was skinny i WOULD still be skinny & sexy! its called sex apeal u either have it or u don't.

And honestly I had A LOT of guys who asked me to STOP loosing weight! Although for my health I would still like to loose more weight & i made it clear to the guys it was for my health.

As I mentioned before, and I MEAN IT 100% ANYONE who doubts my FAT ASS makes more money then the average spinner can come hang out with me for a week. So until you come hang out & see for yourself...speak for your self....like I said before the $$ in my wallet is not imaginary nor are the guys who adore my curves....my FAT ASS GETS PAID PERIOD:D

[Guest]

MY FAT ASS GETS PAID PERIOD:D

This thread is not about you getting paid or not. This thread is not about IF guys find you to be attractive or not. This thread IS about weather guys prefer a non-overweight woman over an overweight woman.

Looks like I struck a nerve....

[WOW456]

I don't think its fair to say that at all. I have compared girls with my friends for a long time now and the fact is, when it comes to how attractive a woman is depends mostly on the eye of the beholder.

I personally don't like skinny, I feel like I might break them. Thats not just in reference to sex because I want a woman that I can hold and hug and be able to show physical affection in a non sexual way too.

No woman should ever ask a question like that especially a Hottie like you.

[Guest]

This thread is not about you getting paid or not. This thread is not about IF guys find you to be attractive or not. This thread IS about weather guys prefer a non-overweight woman over an overweight woman.

Looks like I struck a nerve....

[Velvet Valentine]

Sure, guys will pay girls of any size. My point wasn't about clients that pay. My point was a generalization that most men would prefer a woman that is not overweight as to a woman that is overweight. Also, my thread was not directed toward anybody here. It was more about me and my insecurities so don't take it personally.

oh no, I didnt take it personally at all. I think you and Sophia missed my point. I wasnt saying anyone makes more than another, or that it was about me. My point was that if guys were not attracted to my size, then they wouldn't call me. Who wants to spend money on someone they are not attracted to? if I wasn't attractive to some, then the phone wouldn't ring. I guess I have no issues with my own size....NEVER have. It's never been an issue for me. I also feel personality does have everything to do with attraction....but its not so much about size. if it were, then I'd be lonely, I guess. LOL....

But Destiny...I still don't get it. You have clients who love you. You have one of the best boyfriends on the planet, who adores you. You have good friends who are there when you need them.....so why always worry about it so much? Don't try to over analize something that it's such a big deal. If you feel you wanna diet, great. But do it for yourself. Not anyone else. Who cares what anyone else thinks? Really....Don't worry. Be happy!

You already got it goin' on Girly. Love you!

[Guest]

But Destiny...I still don't get it. You have clients who love you. You have one of the best boyfriends on the planet, who adores you. You have good friends who are there when you need them.....so why always worry about it so much? Don't try to over analize something that it's such a big deal. If you feel you wanna diet, great. But do it for yourself. Not anyone else. Who cares what anyone else thinks? Really....Don't worry. Be happy!

You already got it goin' on Girly. Love you!

Thank you for saying that. I love you too. The reason why I posted this was so that I could hear it. I want to hear that men prefer non-overweight women over overweight women so that I can get my ass in gear and lose some of this extra weight.

[Velvet Valentine]

Thank you for saying that. I love you too. The reason why I posted this was so that I could hear it. I want to hear that men prefer non-overweight women over overweight women so that I can get my ass in gear and lose some of this extra weight.

well I understand that you personally wanna hear that to motivate yourself, but by asking the guys to say that you are pushing them to start a shitstorm with everyone else. LOL...you arn't doing them any favors. LOL You need to find deeper personal motivation. then. I'll think on it and come up with some good challenge for ya....

[Guest]

you are pushing them to start a shitstorm

Yep. I'm fully aware of that. Nothing wrong with a good shit storm every once and a while.

[Velvet Valentine]

Starting a shitstorm for your own personal gain is not nice. BAD girl...SPANK!

[Sphinx]

Starting a shitstorm for your own personal gain is not nice. BAD girl...SPANK!

Sounds like she's looking for loss, not gain lol. And hey, probably 98% of the people in this country over the age of four could stand to eat better, get more exercise and lose a few pounds. If manipulating a discussion on an internet discussion board gets it done, is say well done there.

[boink36]

Sounds like she's looking for loss, not gain lol. And hey, probably 98% of the people in this country over the age of four could stand to eat better, get more exercise and lose a few pounds. If manipulating a discussion on an internet discussion board gets it done, is say well done there.

I have been told I eat great.

[thaetviking]

[dreamer]

Yep...

it had absolutely NOTHING to do with getting clients.

Another funny thing about this thread is that the question was what gents preferred in general and many of the responses are from dolls professing what gents prefer and disputing the responses from gents.

[boink36]

Another funny thing about this thread is that the question was what gents preferred in general and many of the responses are from dolls professing what gents prefer and disputing the responses from gents.

This can't be the first time a woman has told you what you do and don't like, do and don't want, do and don't need.................

[Guest sophiarose]

I am actually curious now if it is a preference, or like my friend, a lot of men just go along with what they think society expects them to have in a girlfriend/significant other. I feel like a lot of times in life we go along with what is expected for us to show the world externally, when internally we may feel different.

Hey and men feel free to speak up lol

[Sphinx]

I feel like a lot of times in life we go along with what is expected for us to show the world externally, when internally we may feel different. Hey and men feel free to speak up lol

Alright...lemme think about it....no...still don't wanna have sex with fat girls.