Posted July 29, 2012 wondering about my fellow hobbyists frequency of scheduling play times, given that it is dictated by the level of disposable income, work, travel and other time obligations. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 29, 2012 9 times in 2012. Looks like I'm averaging a little better than once a month. It ain't the money....there's plenty of that. It's the drive time. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 30, 2012 8 times in 2012. Around once a month, but I cannot give anything concrete and precise. Like the other poster said, it's never about the money, work, time, or travel. For me it just depends on my own personal circumstances and whether or not I feel the hunger. I know that can sound lame to some, but whatever, none of us are in it for the exact same reasons. Most of the time I am fine and just happy with my significant other, and yes, there is sex, so I already got that, but sometimes I am not happy, and it has nothing to do with the sex. I have had plenty of long term FWBs, and yes, again there is even more sex followed with adventures, but, sometimes even when you have that.............there is still some sort of a different rush that comes with this lifestyle that you cannot get elsewhere. So how often? I do not know, it just depends on when I feel like I need that rush, and I never know for sure, but seems to be around once every month or there around. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 30, 2012 Most of last year and until March I was averaging 3 per month. Since March I think I have only had 3 sessions. I have not had the time to get out. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 30, 2012 It varies. Sometimes once a week, sometimes once a month, sometimes 3 months in between. A big part of the variable is that I work for myself. Do I want more money, or time to play? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 30, 2012 I am averaging once a month. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 30, 2012 I am a few months and I am averaging about 10 a month. I really need to tone it down; I am spending way too much time and money on this stuff. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 30, 2012 I saddle up and come to the big city about every 2 months and pay for the company of one or two sporting ladies. For a while there, tried coming in once a month but it became too much of a chore. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 30, 2012 I try to hobby at least once a year. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 30, 2012 Put me in the once/month camp. It's built into my budget, at the moderate priced level. If I book with a higher priced gal one month I need to look for a bargain the next. Thank you, ladies, for keeping it real. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 31, 2012 I try to hobby at least once a year. You need to cut down on the golf. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 1, 2012 Averages about once a month, but sometimes it cums in spurts. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 1, 2012 I hobby every day ....... in my dreams?! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 2, 2012 New to hobby. But been on a tear. Started with a list then it just grew and grew. I imagine I will slow down. I only have 2 more. Then I hope to see some favorites 1-4 times a month. I saw ashley star Sunday katja today and have plans w someone friday. Guess I am an addict..its all new and fun and hope to slow down. I haven't reviewed everyone I've seen. Depends if I feel compelled or if they ask. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 2, 2012 Bingo my man, much less now, property destroyed by fire this summer, this lethargic economical recovery have cut me back significantly. However plan to see one of my all time atf this weekend. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 2, 2012 I am a few months and I am averaging about 10 a month. I really need to tone it down; I am spending way too much time and money on this stuff. Ding, ding - we have a winner 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 2, 2012 Once, sometimes twice a week. Occasionally three. I love it! You women are just too good. Thank god I live in the mtns which provide a natural barrier! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 2, 2012 I try to hobby at least once a year. Yeah, me too GQ. Give or take a few hundred 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 2, 2012 Guess I am an addict..its all new and fun and hope to slow down. I haven't reviewed everyone I've seen. Good luck with the slowing down part. Sometimes, it just never happens . 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 2, 2012 I keep a log. 40 appointments in 2011. About the same pace in 2012. At this frequency cost becomes an issue, but I shop wisely. My ATFs understand that paying more reduces how often I see them. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 2, 2012 yeah but when you're old and gray sitting in your rocking chair, you won't think to yourself: shit, i blew through about 10 grand back in '11 having the time of my life 3 times a month with some bangin' hot escorts - what i should have done was jack off more and let my kids inherit it. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 6, 2012 Damn, it used to be about 12 to 15 times a year, but this economy has kicked my ass big time. so far this whole year it has been twice. ugh! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 6, 2012 i hear you passiondog. my solution was to slash my overhead and refocus my priorities. so far, so good - lol 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites