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If you were a woman,instead of a guy, would you become a provider?   34 members have voted

  1. 1. If you were a woman,instead of a guy, would you become a provider?

    • Hell NO
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    • Yes, Immediatly
      10
    • Yes, but Id keep my real job too.
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Guys, I sometimes feel that those that come on here and really bash providers are actually jealous, and wish they could do what we get to do.

If you were a woman, would you quit your jobs and become providers?

Would you do what we do?

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Answered "hell no"....

The thing is... I think it's a tougher job...

I respect that you ladies are kind enough to help us fullfill our needs, and maybe we can give you some pleasure.... But, I don't think that I could do it. Even being a male ASP doesn't strike me as something I'd like to do.. Sure, getting paid to "entertain" females sounds good on the surface...

So, ladies...... THANK YOU :)

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I think I would. With all the things I'm in to, I'm sure I could find a following of regulars.

But I would keep a day job.

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that's a tough question. i know my atf makes it look so effortless, easy, fun and maybe a bit glamorous (at least in my sessions - lol) but i'm sure there are plenty of landmines all around.

still, it doesn't keep me from joking that i'm jealous of her because if i were her, i'd be doing the same damn thing - lol

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I was 100% honest and it's a big hell yes. I know I have talked to my guy friends about this all the way back to high school.

So you get all the sex you want AND you get paid for it? To me that's better than playing the singles game, getting all the sex you want, just to find yourself with nothing in the end time and time again, lied to just the same, yada, yada, yada.

Use what you got, while you can. Unfortunately a lot of girls just end up blowing through everything they make and don't see the long term. Age and security WILL catch up to not just you, but everyone.

Not everyone can afford to go to college. So, you do what you have to do, even if that means making certain choices others do not have to make, or cannot make. There is a lot of people that enter relationships and marriages that do just the same. So no surprise to me that the break up, divorce rate is so high. Half the time I thought I was no different than a provider myself, and I guarantee, if most guys had the chance to get paid and fuck, while also being careful to protect their identity to enter other future prospects...............they would jump at the chance. There are a LOT of good looking guys trying to do just that, but, it's not the same for guys as it is for girls.

Be smart, play it right, look to for security in the long term rather than relying on looks in the short term, and do what you have to do while you can............I know I honestly have, and will.

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Heck yea! If I was a female, I would be a provider. Why? Because you can make a shit load of money and it is all tax free!

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Because you can make a shit load of money and it is all tax free!

Perfect. Drop right off the old tax grid and live it up! What could possibly go wrong?:rolleyes:

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That is a great question Velvet. I am seeing some empathy and understanding that I didn't know was there. Thanks guys! Like all jobs, there are pros and cons. Unfortunately it's not just getting to have sex and make lots of money. he he That is the fun part. Getting to that point... well...

My male friend told me the other day, "I wish I had big tittles and blonde hair". So, you see the male thinking... he he

Muah, love you guys!!!

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Guys, I sometimes feel that those that come on here and really bash providers are actually jealous, and wish they could do what we get to do.

If you were a woman, would you quit your jobs and become providers?

Would you do what we do?

If I was a woman would not be a provider because I would starve to death. Would be one ugly looking woman. :D If I did would definitely not quit my day job.

What I am really envious of the ladies is the ability to travel so much.

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Would I get to play with my new boobies?

I voted yes, but I'd keep my old job, too. I am extremely jealous of you ladies. You lead a life (at least it appears so) much closer to the James Bond ideal than I could ever hope for. And yes, I realize that there are dangerous aspects to that ideal.

To be honest, you ladies have bigger balls than 95% of the male population.

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And have somebody looking like me show up at the door? No thank you.

You ladies who are good at your work make it look easy. You make us all feel like the sexiest man alive when we walk in the door. I would not be able to pull that off. You ladies are so amazing, thank you for doing what you do.

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No because if I was a woman I would be a lesbian, hopefully a hot lesbian with a hot girlfriend. :D

In seriousness I could not because there is no way I could provide a good session if I was not attracted to my client. I don't know how you ladies do it. I have much respect for the ladies that do this well cause I couldn't

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the only allure is travel, setting ones own schedule and multiple sex partners... (i do that already)

-but-

with 100% honest reviews the girls basically have a daily "employee evaluation", so you never escape the dynamic of having a "boss" so to say... with that you can never become completely financially independent... so "having a bad day" can haunt you and overall effect the ability to conduct business... i would pass...

-but-

the girls i do envy are the few UTR girls i met who have awesome jobs and only do this because the have a freaky sex addiction. lol

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I would love to say "yes"...but I don't think I could make it as a provider. As it has been said..you ladies make it look so easy to entertain us.

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I have to say no...I just don't know how the ladies do that job. I know some like it, but I don't think I could do that job....besides, I am WAAAAAAY to ugly to make a living as an escort.

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