Posted April 21, 2012 Would I be safe in assuming that not all of you (guys) hobby just to have a sexual encounter? Or, maybe I am wrong. Maybe you hobby ONLY because of the sexual aspect. It seems to me, that many of you like to "make a connection", cuddle, and just have intimate human interaction with another person. I'm sure that the reason that each one of you hobby will be very different from the next gent. So, why do you hobby? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 21, 2012 Would I be safe in assuming that not all of you (guys) hobby just to have a sexual encounter? Or, maybe I am wrong. Maybe you hobby ONLY because of the sexual aspect. It seems to me, that many of you like to "make a connection", cuddle, and just have intimate human interaction with another person. I'm sure that the reason that each one of you hobby will be very different from the next gent. So, why do you hobby? I agree. The connection is what makes everything work. And, keeps you coming back again and again. How about you ladies? Is that important for you too? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 21, 2012 Would I be safe in assuming that not all of you (guys) hobby just to have a sexual encounter? Or, maybe I am wrong. Maybe you hobby ONLY because of the sexual aspect. It seems to me, that many of you like to "make a connection", cuddle, and just have intimate human interaction with another person. I'm sure that the reason that each one of you hobby will be very different from the next gent. So, why do you hobby? Yes when it comes right down to it the encounter is the main reason to hobby. Where else can you see so many different sexy, hot ladies. But for me it is always nice to make a connection, cuddle, whatever. These are always my favorite appts. If the connection is made and I am treated special and with respect, even if its for just an hour, always try and return the special aspect and respect back. Alot of people might say this is not the place for connections but for me personally its always nicer to connect on some kind of level. Oh by the way another reason why I hobby is that I am a Manwhore Slut. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 21, 2012 It’s a combination of many factors. I hobby for companionship without the drama, it’s defiantly about the sex yet sometimes I am looking for more of a GFE encounter cuddle, talk, fondle and play. At times it may be about the wow factor. Someone younger more attractive than I normally find in my personal life. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 21, 2012 So, why do you hobby? For capitalist/business reasons mostly. Friendship secondly. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 21, 2012 Interpersonal relationships are a pain. A little temporary solace is most welcome, but doesn't need to be permanent. Also, the variety is nice - and seeing nice young ladies whom otherwise I probably would not meet. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 21, 2012 I hobby mainly for the sex but if I make a connection that is always a nice bonus and makes the experience even better. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 21, 2012 Okay I am a total newbie first of all. I am here because I recently had cancer and the treatments have left me wondering. I would be embarassed to try and date someone and get them hot, wet and ready for it then fizzle. I want find someone who will not rip me off or LE. So checking the boards and trying to cross check reviews. I want of find someone who will be patient with me and hopefully I can connect with. I would be a regular as it is not my mission to sleep with as many different women as I possibly can. I just want one talented quality lady to visit. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 22, 2012 I hobby cause I cant play golf worth a shit ! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 22, 2012 I get to play with women who, otherwise, would never even look at me. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 22, 2012 I agree. The connection is what makes everything work. And, keeps you coming back again and again. How about you ladies? Is that important for you too? Regulars are the bread and butter of any working girl's business. And I'm truly grateful for that. This business is so paradoxical...on one hand, we meet in an intimate situation knowing very little about each other, and on occasion, a real connection can be made. I find clients telling me things they would never reveal to anyone else. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 22, 2012 Yes when it comes right down to it the encounter is the main reason to hobby. Where else can you see so many different sexy, hot ladies. But for me it is always nice to make a connection, cuddle, whatever. These are always my favorite appts. If the connection is made and I am treated special and with respect, even if its for just an hour, always try and return the special aspect and respect back. Alot of people might say this is not the place for connections but for me personally its always nicer to connect on some kind of level. Oh by the way another reason why I hobby is that I am a Manwhore Slut. Most men really appreciate the intimacy of the GFE. And as you said respect is crucial. I think when a person says 'this is not the place for connections' they forget that the connection is there for that one hour, even if they never see the girl again. I know I want to make it memorable for someone even if he never returns and sees other girls. At least for that one moment, we did have a connection of sorts, and had a good time. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 22, 2012 I hobby mainly for the sex but if I make a connection that is always a nice bonus and makes the experience even better. I think sex is always the basis for why a man hobbies but there can be other benefits too. The MAIN one though I always thought was...men don't pay for 'sex' they pay for the convenience and lack of committment. In other words, you pay the woman to leave, not 'stay' like a girlfriend. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 22, 2012 What a thought provoking question!! I think that I hobby because 1) I want to try new sexual things that I can only read about. 2) In high school, everyone around me was getting laid except for me, the nerdy guy. Now I have the chance to screw many very beautiful women. Sort of makes up for my high school days. 3)Why spend lots of money on a date and only HOPE to get laid, when I can spend the same amount of money and DEFINETLY get laid? And finally, 4)I enjoy that thrill, that excitement, that rush of adrenaline, from meeting someone for the first time. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 22, 2012 I've been playing for 4 years. I've wondered "why" from the beginning. As I told my companion the other evening, "At my age, younger women aren't going to fuck me anymore unless I pay them." I know there's more than that. The passing from youth to middle-age is significant, whether or not we choose to acknowledge it. I'm not a "man's man", so sometimes I can't relate to the obsessing about sports cars, cigars, sports, poker, etc. I see what the guys in my neighborhood get into and, in my opinion, it's definitely about holding onto their virility and self-esteem. I'm still battling to hold onto what's passed. Trying to ignore the losses. Although I have a rich and happy life, I've always felt as if something was missing. Or that I wasn't connecting the dots. Since I've started hobbying, I've returned to the artistic passions of my youth, deepened my spirituality, and fallen in love with someone new. Two out of three of those remain and will sustain me in the years ahead. Falling in love was probably what I really wanted to do in the beginning. Everyone said I'd regret it. Yet I somehow always knew that I wanted to feel that connection/chemistry/bittersweet again. I learned and remembered a lot about myself. Can't say that I want to do it again. "Been there, done that" - now, hobbying is different and I seem to be losing interest lately. That could change LOL. I don't really care about chemistry anymore, except that it's nice when it happens. Just enjoy the mutual pleasure that we can find along the way. Last of all, I never get tired of hearing, "oh my, that's a big cock!" 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 22, 2012 Would I be safe in assuming that not all of you (guys) hobby just to have a sexual encounter? Or, maybe I am wrong. Maybe you hobby ONLY because of the sexual aspect. It seems to me, that many of you like to "make a connection", cuddle, and just have intimate human interaction with another person. I'm sure that the reason that each one of you hobby will be very different from the next gent. So, why do you hobby? I hobby for the same reason I go fishing, all the hot chicks! Now I'm thinking about starting a new hobby............. Archery! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 22, 2012 I'm only interested in sex. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 22, 2012 My job sends me on the road about 7 months out of the year. "Normal" relationships don't fly, tried many times. For some reason women don't like to hear, "see you in 6-7 weeks!" Certainly in it for the sex but making a connection with a regular or ATF makes it more enjoyable for both of us I think. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 22, 2012 Fun times, great sex and a minimum of drama with very hot, intelligent women. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 22, 2012 I could not have said it better than luvsex1.....especially the part about being the nerdy guy in in High School.....that ALONE was worth the price if admission! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 22, 2012 Because Mischa Barton won't let me fuck her. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 23, 2012 I want the GFE without the fulltime GF part. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 23, 2012 Every now and then, I like to step outside of my life. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 23, 2012 Every now and then, I like to step outside of my life. That sir, pretty well sums it up for most of us I think. Most certainly the best response thus far from my perspective. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 23, 2012 Would I be safe in assuming that not all of you (guys) hobby just to have a sexual encounter? Or, maybe I am wrong. Maybe you hobby ONLY because of the sexual aspect. It seems to me, that many of you like to "make a connection", cuddle, and just have intimate human interaction with another person. I'm sure that the reason that each one of you hobby will be very different from the next gent. So, why do you hobby? I hobby for the sexual aspect obviously. Other appealing aspects are the excitement of meeting someone new and how that plays out in appointments. Different providers different techniques and ultimately great fun for both of us. I really like the connection aspect and when I find a provider I like I enjoy getting to know them a lot better. I really enjoyed my favorite when hobbying in southern Ca. for a little over 4 years until she retired. Sad day for me but lots of great memories. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 24, 2012 In short it comes down to being a physically unattractive guy with absolutely no game. This is my only chance to be with a woman who's mere proximity gets me hard. I'm not completely incapable of dating and have had my share of sexually enjoyable relationships. But in the real world I'm never going to get a gal in bed with me where I feel incapable of keeping my hands off of her. The opportunity to feel next to my skin a body that so turns me on. It's pretty good. Now if I can make a connection with the gal that's even better. But primarily it's just to fulfill that physical fantasy of the near perfect body that's unattainable to a guy like me in real life. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 24, 2012 I just started to do it. My wife is not taking care of business and I told her if she wouldnt I would find someone who would. She said fine. I took that to mean "permission granted." On a side note, who doesnt like sexy new ass from different women? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 26, 2012 Would I be safe in assuming that not all of you (guys) hobby just to have a sexual encounter? Or, maybe I am wrong. Maybe you hobby ONLY because of the sexual aspect. It seems to me, that many of you like to "make a connection", cuddle, and just have intimate human interaction with another person. I'm sure that the reason that each one of you hobby will be very different from the next gent. So, why do you hobby? I want to have sex with a woman I find attractive: mind, body & soul. If it was just meat, I'd just watch porn. I had an ATF once and we spent a lot of time together doing all sorts of things including sexual exploration. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 27, 2012 Hobbying is like making/having a lotta friends. F*** buddy friends. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
