Becca_Blossoms

I'm not from Alabama however, I am touring Birmingham for the first time. I'm hoping to make it a regular visit for me if all goes well

I try to keep it as easy as possible and post my rates. There are a few websites I'm on that don't allow rates to be posted. I also don't mind a gentleman asking me my rates, I sell time. There's nothing illegal about that.

Namaste! Thank you for taking the time I believe our military heroes should be honored and respected. just saying Hugs, Becca Blossoms

To each their own. we all have the things we like and don't like.

For my in call, I use 3 stars or better. You won't ever find me at a Motel 6 or any place under 3 stars. BP girls, pimps, drug dealers and the guys that want to put them in hand cuffs frequent these places. The quality of the room in these places is never up to my standards. I'll never have a gentleman in a place where he's stepping over or even walking near undesirables. I will never be in a shady area, I want to feel safe parking my car as well. On the same note, I'll never use a permanent location such as a condo or the same hotel frequently. Regardless if you think your being watched or not, a pattern of behavior in the same place is simply begging to get busted. It makes you easy to watch. I agree with above, a lady's reviews should give you an idea of where your going. If you know the neighborhood is bad or your going to a low quality motel, don't go. You deserve better and safe. I don't mind if a guys asks me which star my hotel is. I normally stay where there are a number of higher end hotels so giving the star level is not big deal to me.

As a provider, I do my best to be sensitive to these things and often take the wrapper with me to dispose of elsewhere, however, I'm not the one in the marriage. Your marriage isn't my responsibility. YOU choose the risk, YOU know the possible out comes. The responsibility for your marriage...regardless of what you're doing in it or outside of it...is 100 % on you. If you know there was a condom used and you want to be sure your wife doesn't find it, you need to do you due diligence and look for it. When I leave your house, my responsibility is up. I'm responsible for giving you an awesome experience during the agreed upon time. When I leave, it's up to you to do whatever you have to do to cover your own ass...make the bed, wash the sheets, find condom wrappers, wash dishes we may have used, cover tire tracks in the snow, whatever it is you do. If you miss something, the responsibility and consequence is on you. You made the choice to have me in your home knowing what you could lose if your caught. I'm not responsible for your decisions. If this is a concern of yours, I suggest an in call or getting your own hotel room and having the provider come to you.

What makes you think that when a provider says it screws up her schedule we have other clients lined up? I only see 1 client a day. I still have a schedule, it doesn't have to be hobby related. Disrespect for my time is enough to get you on the "NO" list. I'm a human first and deserve respect and always give it. It's a mutual thing. I'm not busy scheduling back to back clients however, I AM busy. Regardless of what we do with our time, it doesn't matter if I had nothing planned. If you can't be responsible for your own personal hygiene, don't expect to see me. I have no desire to teach grown men how to take care of themselves. I've NEVER had an issue with anyone showering and have NEVER had anyone disrespect my time or me as a person by assuming I have an extra 15 minutes of my time for you to have just because I'm a provider It's disrespectful and isn't up to my standards as far as the type of clients I see. When you see a provider, you are paying for TIME, NOT ACTS. When you pay for 90 minutes, that time is YOUR time. What we do during that time is up to you. If you choose to shower, take a quick 5 or 10 minutes, I'll still rock your world when your done and you'll leave happy. If you want more time, then schedule more time. How this is even a long discussion is beyond me. Those who are disrespectful to a provider's time and schedule don't get to see the better providers because we don't have to see you. Making a big deal out of petty things makes you look petty. By the way, most of don't want to book 5 clients in a day, where do you get 10? That's gross. I could book 10 in a day, most of us could, easily. That doesn't mean we do it.

I think it depends what you want. I personally don't do 30 minute or hour long sessions, I don't provide that kind of quick service. I provide the full package, a full experience. Intelligence, atmosphere, looks, conversation, relaxation, activity, etc. I require 90 minutes or longer as I hate to rush. I provide quality over quantity as I have only 1 meeting a day and I never have more than 1 meeting in my incall location. I think the length of your session depends on what you're looking for.

I do show them and I'm very proud of them!! Not bad for a 42 year old!! Yes, that's my REAL age!!

I see, good to know.

Thanks for the heads up!

What exactly are ladies "getting away with"? You don't make the rules, each lady in this hobby works by her own rules, for her own reasons. We are NOT obligated to show anything. If you require a face pic, there are plenty of ladies out there with them. Don't try to make any provider feel it's necessary, it's not. We have families, kids, we have main stream professions or go to school. We are involved in our communities. Our privacy is just as important as yours. Do you tell your kids, parents, co-workers, doctor, mechanic, and any other human with access to the Internet exactly who you are and you are involved in the hobby? The only one getting away with anything is providers not seeing you due to lack of respect for their privacy.

He's already on my "No list". I don't take disrespect lightly. No provider should.

When a gentleman tries to get into my personal life like that, it creeps me out. I keep hobby life and personal life very seperate. I don't ever see a guy that does that. I keep my personal FB and others private. I also never go looking for a guy's FB, Twitter, LinkedIn, etc. It's not my business and these are not safe screening tools. I respect the privacy of my clients. If a lady wanted you in personal life, she will tell you. Would you like a provider digging into your personal life? Mutual respect is a must.

I love role play!

Wow, I've been in the hobby for 10 years and I thought I'd heard it all!! I've never seen such an issue with a shower. I get the same feeling I get when [Snip} If you are so busy that your shower has to be on my personal time, I simply won't see you. I do allow showers and have never had a problem. I understand we all work so I have no problem if a gentleman wants to jump in the shower when he arrives. I actually appreciate it. I've never know a gentleman to take more than 5 minutes, hardly enough time to effect our fun together. I respect my clients enough to be showered. If I don't get the same respect in return, I don't see you. On the other hand, what kind of service are you going to get if you show up dirty and want me to give up my personal time so you can shower? I won't get close to a dirty, stinky guys. I will also put him on my "NO" list and never see him again. Would you want to get all close to me after I moved my lawn and worked in the garden? How would you feel if I showed up at your place all stinky and dirty and required a shower on the time you paid for? It's just disrespectful either way. For the record, any good provider doesn't have to put up with this nonsense. There are too many great gentlemen in the hobby that respect us and have good hygiene. Making a big deal out of petty things can possibly make it harder for you to hobby and get good service. Don't worry about getting me upset over anything, I simply don't allow others to have the power over me. I can handle myself in an intelligent manner with respect for all humans. Simply put, I don't do drama.

I've done both. Before I did adult films, I hid my face. I was well reviewed and my reviews often reflected that I wan't ugly in the face. Not showing my face didn't hurt me at all. I believe it's so common. Gentlemen that read my reviews were confident that I wasn't too ugly before they met me. There are lots of reason ladies hide their face and I don't blame them. After I did porn, my face was all over the internet anyway so it really doesn't matter at this point. As long you get what you see in my pictures, it's all good Namaste

If it's on BP, I would say pimp or a group of girls with no clue. You don't need to use the same number as your assistant, multiple numbers can be programmed to go to the same phone. Personally, I don't accept references from anyone that shares a phone number, it's too risky. I would avoid situations like these...and BP. Namaste

I don't see this site as useful. I just ran a burner phone number through it and a few others...there's absolutely no safety info. I use verify him and been verified. It's well worth the small fees they charge. If you want to verify your provider, do a web search on their contact info and reviews, forums and ads will come up...you'll learn a heck of a lot more that way. Namaste

I would almost expect you to call a bit early so you can make it in the room in time and not mess up either one of our schedules. The time starts when you enter the room which should be on time. I understand that parking can be tricky at times so I don't make a big deal out of 5 or 10 minutes late. You do have the option to shower however, that will come out of your time. I'm expecting to see you at a certain time for an agreed on amount of time. I have a personal life as well. If we agree on 90 minutes at 5 pm, I'm expecting to be with you between 5 and 6:30. If you choose to shower, it's between 5 and 6:30. That's the time we agreed on. For the record, quite a few of my clients do shower, it really doesn't take them that long. Don't ever wait until your time is up then ask to shower. That's disrespectful. Namaste Becca

If you are seeing a lady that's safe and respects your privacy as well as hers, she will use the 2 call system. The first call you make is when your close to the hotel and she give you the exact hotel. The second is for the room number after arriving. Walk straight in. Almost all hotels have cameras and are looking for activity. It's also becoming more common for hotels to work with LE. Go in the front door, straight to the room. The provider should give you an idea of where the elevators are or or which way to turn down the hall. She should open the door right away. I've been know to watch through the peep hole so he doesn't have to knock and stand in the hall waiting form me to open the door. If you hang out by any other outside door, put a rock in it, etc, you can draw the wrong attention to yourself. The type of hotel makes a difference. The cheaper, the higher chance of getting busted...where do you think most BP girls provide? Cheap hotels or Motels. These places often have police attention due to the high level of problems. I use big, convention-type places, 3 stars or better. If the lady is high volume, she could have got the hotel attention due to high traffic to her room. I get in calls as needed and only see one person in the room. If I had 3 guys on the hotel camera knocking on my door, I'm asking for trouble. Be careful and enjoy!! Namaste

I visit multiple cities across the country and like to put my ads up well in advance so my calendar is full before I arrive in the city I'm providing. For this reason, I'll have multiple ads up for different cities with different dates.

I do understand that men are visual...what provider doesn't get that?!?! I prefer the company of gentlemen that know enough not to send a lady pics like that. There are plenty of gentlemen that know how to treat a lady. I chose to spend my time with them. It's a maturity and personal preference thing. I also find it insulting to my intelligence.

It's OK to talk about rates and time. It's not illegal to sell time, which is what we sell. Lawyers and Mechanics sell time. Just confirm that her rate is so much for a certain amount of time. Don't ever discuss services, that gets a guy on my "NO" list and forever ignored by me.

I get these all the time...I always respond with "I don't appreciate that" or "That's not a nice picture to send a lady". Most of the time I get apologies. I could never figure out what kind of reaction these guys want us to have when we see these pictures. I usually roll my eyes and delete them. As much as I love what I do, a random picture of a dick simply doesn't do it for me.