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When I first read this, I was not thinking of an ASP retirement, I was thinking of that for myself as a client. Ha! Same question. I was thinking of retiring last year and I almost did, but after my last encounter this year, with a very beautiful woman I might add, I have decided it is time. Johnny still works but, in the words of B.B. King, the thrill is gone. As much as I have enjoyed this over the last 12-13 years, I think it is time for me to hang it up as well. I don't know how some of you ladies can do this for long stretches of time. Some of the ladies here have been at it longer than I have been hobbying. Most I think, hang it up in less than 3 years. Looking at some reviews or ok's I requested, many of the ladies are long gone. I think you just know when you know. Maybe I will be like Tom Brady and come out of retirement, but I have a lot of traveling I want to do now that Covid is mostly over (I hope) and monthly donations will cover a lot of destinations. I hope you all have as much fun as I have over the years. I may poke my face in here from time to time just to see what's up. Best wishes all and by all means, have some excitement!!!

I guess that holds them harmless if things go south. Hmmm 🤔

Does anyone really know what “verified” on Eros actually means?

I suspect we’ll see less Russian talent for a while? 👙

Super helpful! Thank you 🙏🏻

Touchy. I guess you never know. Now you have to make sure to address as she/her/hers …..if correct, but don’t forget to ask 🙂

People have pretty strong opinions on this forum. I think the problem is everyone tends to be unfiltered when you don't have to talk with someone face to face. People can be very critical on this forum. It's been that way since day one when I signed up. It's not really a free exchange of ideas or thoughts. Someone is always going to hammer on you, no matter what side you take. More tolerance would be nice to see.

Seriously, what’s up with that. And a deposit? Hmmm. A paper trial is just not going to work for me. Must be time to retire. I’m getting too old.

I've seen ads for woman advertising the term chocolate. I think it just depends. Just like I have seen the term caramel.

I was setting up an appointment with an ASP and I noticed there is the standard GFE option and a VIP option on her website. Now I think I have a pretty good idea of GFE but VIP, no idea. It was 2 Benjamin's additional. I asked and the answer I got was it was a "more intense session that offers menu items not available in the GFE sessions", but could not discuss more than that. I'm clueless. I'm guessing the back door is open on VIP but I'm not really sure. It's not my cup of tea anyway. Is it just best to ask upon arrival and go from there? Anybody experience with such a thing? She is a top notch well reviewed ASP from what I can tell.

I wholeheartedly agree. That’s usually my issue.

Yeah. Makes sense.

There is a NYC girl coming to town Dec 18- something that I have seen listed, but not here. It's a heavy Benjamin lift to visit but reviews are amazing.

I assume you are talking about ourhome2? Seems like a great idea to me. But no, not Colorado. But as someone else mentioned, P411 does have "available now", but few, if any are listed on it. Good luck brother.

That's a scary bait and switch dude. You are a patient man hoping she's in the next room. "Gimme three steps mister" It doesn't happen but for me usually they simply don't look anything like their pictures.....and not in a good way. And not even close. At that point I just walk. Other times they look sorta like the pictures, ask for the donation and proceed to tell you everything in an upgrade. If you're thinking it is something like STG, you would be wrong. It happened even on what you would think are the best sites, including the P site and here. My best experiences without exception are the ones where donation doesn't even come up. That's where reputation comes into play I think.

Yep.

I had an ASP require a 10-15 minute Zoom to feel each other out prior to meeting. She sees if you are a unshaven creep and have half a brain and you can see it's really her in the pictures and its a conversation. It was great! I saw all sort of positives in that meeting. I have a difficult schedule and we were able to work something out. I wish I could do that prior to every meeting. With all the photo shopped and old pictures out there, and putting down a deposit for what? A hope and prayer it comes through as expected? You have no idea if you will hit it off either. The way this is done now is downright silly and stupid. How many guys have regretted their meet ups? I have had more than a few for sure. Misleading pictures, no personality...etc, pick your turn off. Honestly, I think this should be the way of the future. What's 10-15 minutes for a 4-5-6 Benjamin payoff. I think the legit ones will do it and the not so legit will never do it. Finally, we will be on a level playing field. I am likely to get flamed for this and that's okay. But I think at the end of the day, it keeps everyone an honest broker. We need some changes in this industry. This is one that might just work.

Well, I'm turning my notification off. Sadly, a free discussion of idea's is not going to happen here. Bye ladies

I'm sorry you need to read Heather. I brought it down to 2-3 per day. You didn't read it did you?? Maybe 5 contacts other than your stable of gents. You said I was emotional and mansplaining. Ha! Someone here doesn't take a joke well and it ain't me But your coffee clutch is a great idea however. Let's organize it over Zoom.

Yay!!!! Now you're talking!!

Lets say Hunter does those 25 guys a day without Zooms. If Hunter does that kind of business, with a good accountant she should be retired by now and living in Hawaii But let's say Hunter does 2 or 3 a day, could she find time to do 3, 5-10 minute Zooms. Maybe. She in all likelihood she has a stable of studs she sees regularly. So maybe it's 3 - 5 new guys a week? Just guessing. A girls got to be able to walk at the end of the day right. Is that a hardship? Okay, seriously, be selective in your Zooms. People with cred. P411guys for example with Okays. Maybe people that post a few reviews on this site and have a handle. If you take every Harry Dick including Tom who wants to Zoom. No you won't get anything done. 5 minutes, 10 minutes tops on a Zoom. And set the appointment before you do the Zoom? Not sure that works. However, some women would never do the Zoom even after the appointment is set. (Better to be upfront first. You would just piss the ASP's off if you don't). Then you have to decide go or you cancel? That would be a logistical nightmare. Besides, no ASP wants bad reviews and no Dick wants a bad experience. Is it going to change the world? Probably not. My experience with the Zoom call she wanted was great. I was on the fence initially, but not afterward. She only has one appointment a day, so maybe quality is better than quantity. Hey, it's not for everyone, but it could work for some or even many. Perhaps technology can make things better and bring us together, literally, instead of dividing us. Hope springs eternal. Go ahead and flame me. I'm getting used to it.

Exactly. We both get to see pictures. Fair? Plenty of ladies don't use current pics or even their own pics, including some on here. Just saying, every man on this site has gone to more than one meeting they wish they still had the coins in their pocket. You have choices. You can go to the appointment and look behind door number one and walk if it's misleading. But you wasted taking time off work, driving there and driving back. For me that can be 2 - 3 hours. I did't get paid or a deposit. Or you can go ahead as planned and feel like you were taken to the cleaners and make the best of it. I'm tired of visiting the cleaners. Even P411 isn't perfect. Reviews are often bogus or in the eye of the beholder. Someone trying to curry favor with an ASP. It happens, especially with newbies. It's just a bad system we have right now. It needs to change. Probably not in time for me because I'm close to retiring. But hey, it's worth a discussion.

Thats perfectly fine. Do what you need to do. I’m just saying for some ladies it’s gonna work out well but for some it just ain’t gonna work. Change is hard. Wear sweats and a t-shirt. No make up- make up. I’m not telling you how to run your business I’m just telling you another way you could run your business. For some of the younger girls to start now this might make a lot of sense to them. But old timers like myself maybe not. It’s scary trying something new. But my experience was great. And that’s something she’s going to take to the bank. as far as requiring providers do this, probably not. I’ll update this post to let you know.

If you have 25 guys a day looking to chat with you. You’re doing something right babyI

See you seemed you got dressed. No. A little make up doesn’t hurt though. GeewhizA little make up doesn’t hurt though. Geewhiz