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  1. Deposits Deposits Deposits!!!

    Nope. I tend to see new girls and give them a chance. Negative reviews are honest. Let other dudes know what to expect. Hard for a girl to get established if bo one gives her a review in the first place. That's the point of reviews man. You can also go look at the rest if my reviews, the ones that didn't transfer when they merged my weird double account, jj254 (ended up with 2 accounts on the same username when they revamped the site). Idk why you and hunter get off in personal attacks and being straight assholes to people who disagree with you, but take that fetish back to fetlife. Ain't no use for it here.
  2. Deposits Deposits Deposits!!!

    How arrogant. I been here longer than you. Know plenty about what I'm doing. Because I've been around a minute I know deposits are scams more often than not. Shame you don't verify who is coming over. Probably should start to avoid those no shows. Put some research in, or something like that. I'll stick to the ladies that know what they're doing.
  3. Deposits Deposits Deposits!!!

    I will not pay a deposit. That request ends a conversation fast for me. It really sucks to show up to a bunk address. Sucks to be ghosted in the parking lot. Happens to clients all the time too. Girl skipping with my deposit isn't gonna care about her rep. May as well take that money to a strip club. Least I get to see who's not banging me for it.
  4. Labia-good, bad or ugly

    the more the better. though for some women it can be a little painful. I dated a woman for a while. needed to reposition it from time to time during sex.
  5. When your wife is cheating?

    Nah. He didn't do anything. His wife went looking for a dude. The reason she did was between her and him, not the other guy. The specific other guy doesn't matter. She was out looking and wood keep looking if that dude passed on her. The issue was at home. So many people ignore that cause its easier to blame someone else than face our own shortcomings. Personally, I don't get involved in monogamy. Open/poly is what works for me. Fucking is fun. I want to do a lot of it with a variety of people. My partners should have the same opportunity.
  6. When your wife is cheating?

    There's a lot of feel good stuff posted. Cool. Everyone needs a pep talk sometime. But your marriage is over. Time to prep. Get a lawyer. Most do free consultations. Find one that looks past the emotional part to tell you what to do. Get your papers. Copies of all your account statements. Savings, investments, stuff like that. Don't run off with the money. That's a huge no-no. Get copies of your bills. Statements showing what you owe to who. Get copies of your taxes and paystubs. Those things will all be required. Here's some good to knows: Don't move out of your house until you have a custody agreement. You can't kick her out, either, if she's on the note. If you earn substantially more, plan to pay separate maintenance. You'll be paying it for roughly 50% of the length of your marriage, or until she remarries. 20 years of marriage is about 10 years of support. You may or may not owe support for the little ones. As a total, it's usually about 25% of your income (covers all little ones, not a per little one basis). It'll last until the last one is 19. From that 25%, credit is applied for the number of days they live with you in the agreement, and any special school or organized extra circulars you pay for (tutors, piano, soccer, ect..). Credit is also applied for covering their health insurance. Oh, side note, you can't remove anyone from your insurance until the decree is finalized or a judge says so. If you get the option to increase maintenance and decrease support of the little ones, do it. Maintenance is pretax, support is post-tax. Move your cell phone to a separate plan she doesn't have access to, just to keep her from fucking with it. Consider a po box for important personal mail (not shared bills!) Open a new bank account. Do still pay your current normal share of bills until you have a decree. That's everything- car insurance, groceries, all of it. You can try not paying, but you'll just be forced to pay later, with penalties. Save yourself the stress. Change your passwords. Use a format you haven't before. Positive affirmations are nice, like happy@2day. Don't argue with her. You'll be paying a lawyer to do that. And because you'll be paying a lawyer, never ask them one question. Create a list, and when it hits 5 or more, then send it. That'll save you money. It doesn't matter that she cheated. Or that you did. It's completely irrelevant. Doesn't effect the outcome at all. I wouldn't mention escorts though. The illegal part is relevant. Forget about ol boy. He ain't got nothing to do with anything. If it wasn't him, it'd have be another him. The problem was between you and her. Worrying about him is a waste of your time. Bad things happen to good people. Good things happen to bad people. There's no such thing as cosmic justice. Just your choice to be a good thing or a bad thing. Don't choose bad thing. Don't stress about fake dv charges. It's pretty common, and pretty easy to see through. Maybe keep a voice recording app on your phone for those just in case moments. Last two things- get a best friend, and get a therapist. You're gonna need to talk to both. A lot. -Source: been that best friend too many times.
  7. Dating websites

    I'm not one for monogamy. Partnership? Cool. But fucking is fun. No need to only fuck one person. Lots of folks like the idea of "open" but keep running into ladies who can't handle it. Cest la vie.
  8. Threatening bad review

    call the bluff. One bad review won't hurt business. ToB allows you to respond to a review. If he posts something bad, respond with what you put here. The people who don't understand are folks you wouldn't want to see anyway.
  9. Question for the Gents

    I prefer as few people involved as necessary. I've seen girls with assistants. Things'll get screwed up eventually. The two problems I've run into is being sent to the wrong address, and being booked for the wrong provider. People make mistakes. I get it. But ruins the experience. Plus, there's a certain coldness when talking to an agent vs provider that kinda dampens the mood. That said, it can work. Train her up well. Make sure she knows the charge she faces if she gets caught. It's only right. Full consent and all. Hopefully it works out.
  10. Walked away without even knocking

    Booked a meetup the other day via text. I roll the dice often on new/unreviewd ladies. Ad looked good. Pics come up in other cities, other names, but same number. Looks ok to that point. Set it up and girl hardly type 5 words to give me the time and place. Weird but some folks don't like texting. Get to the spot, get the room number, and head in. Get to the door and hear loud music, 2 female voices, 1 Male voice. Not the party I reserved. Turned and left Maybe I dodged a bullet. Maybe she just thinks I'm a creepy fucker collecting room numbers. Hopefully I don't end up on a blacklist. But I'd walk away again. Curious what others think though.
  11. So I saw this in a ad

    I've been asked many times if I'm a cop. I'm always tempted to say yes just to see what happens.
  12. It's a Business

    I dont mind being contacted out of the blue, but my situation is such that no one is gonna check my phone. I get why providers don't do it. I have played much for a while. My father passed a few months ago. I've taken to caring for my mother since then. She'll need assisted living at some point, but just cant do that to her now. So my time's pretty limited. 3 of 4 ladies I've contacted in those months just wasted my time. I'd be all about ladies letting me know when they're passing by near me. But doesn't seem like a thing anyone should expect.
  13. Libertarian Party ENDORESES Decriminalization of Prostitution

    There's a lot of ground to cover between abstaining and voting in Jim Crow. " Libertarians embrace the concept that all people are born with certain inherent rights. We reject the idea that a natural right can ever impose an obligation upon others to fulfill that “right.” We condemn bigotry as irrational and repugnant. Government should neither deny nor abridge any individual’s human right based upon sex, wealth, ethnicity, creed, age, national origin, personal habits, political preference or sexual orientation. Members of private organizations retain their rights to set whatever standards of association they deem appropriate, and individuals are free to respond with ostracism, boycotts and other free-market solutions. " They'd happily allow you to discriminate against customers and employees for whatever reason you want. Maybe prostitution would be legal, but no one will bat an eye when a woman can't get hired because she may decide to have a kid. Or, ya know, the old stand by of not being white. Then, when she's not hired, we can kick her in the teeth: " We favor a free-market health care system. We recognize the freedom of individuals to determine the level of health insurance they want (if any), the level of health care they want, the care providers they want, the medicines and treatments they will use and all other aspects of their medical care, including end-of-life decisions. People should be free to purchase health insurance across state lines. " No job means she ain't buying 'free market' healthcare. Oh, and also, your neighbor can build a little mini nuclear reactor in his backyard. You have no recourse, unless it melts down.Then I suppose your estate could sue him. " As respect for property rights is fundamental to maintaining a free and prosperous society, it follows that the freedom to contract to obtain, retain, profit from, manage, or dispose of one’s property must also be upheld. Libertarians would free property owners from government restrictions on their rights to control and enjoy their property, as long as their choices do not harm or infringe on the rights of others. Eminent domain, civil asset forfeiture, governmental limits on profits, governmental production mandates, and governmental controls on prices of goods and services (including wages, rents, and interest) are abridgements of such fundamental rights. For voluntary dealings among private entities, parties should be free to choose with whom they trade and set whatever trade terms are mutually agreeable. " " Competitive free markets and property rights stimulate the technological innovations and behavioral changes required to protect our environment and ecosystems. Private landowners and conservation groups have a vested interest in maintaining natural resources. Governments are unaccountable for damage done to our environment and have a terrible track record when it comes to environmental protection. Protecting the environment requires a clear definition and enforcement of individual rights and responsibilities regarding resources like land, water, air, and wildlife. Where damages can be proven and quantified in a court of law, restitution to the injured parties must be required. " And before anyone suggests that's impossible, check out this former boyscout- Home Made Reactor And that's just a few of the things the platform advocates. There's so much more, so many terrible ideas. All quotes are taken directly from the platform listed on their webpage. Donald Trump is the worst thing to happen to this country in a generation only because we haven't elected a libertarian government.
  14. Libertarian Party ENDORESES Decriminalization of Prostitution

    I mean, the party platform also calls for a repeal of the civil rights act, so there's that. Dangerous to be a single issue voter.