The Divorce Coach ~

i wouldn't even bother asking any of the guys on tob for a review. there are other platforms where honest feedback is actually valued and appreciated and the guys don't mind sharing their experience. but if you really wanna grow your business, you're better off focusing on getting properly indexed in search engines. the seo is way more beneficial with a much bigger impact than a tob review. but gl either way

op, was this meant to be an attention threAD, or more of a psa to clients about how good of a person you are? i’m asking because it seems like your main complaint was about guys wasting your time but you still chose to engage and go back and forth with those same “timewasters.” then you came here to vent to the board members, and after those of us who commented and took the time to read your vent and respond and give you thoughtful feedback, you didnt bother to acknowledge any of the feedback we gave. it just makes me wonder what the purpose of the threAD really was, especially since you’ve been online multiple times. last time being just less than an hour ago, yet chose to stay silent here with us while saying you don’t want your time wasted.

good for you i hate flying as well but im to impatient to drive. safe travels dear.

stop wasting bandwidth on clients whose goal is only to have pointless conversation with you. wasting your time is all they wanted to do from the beginning. not sure why you're explaining what type of person you are in real life with a loser. they don't care. stop telling losers how you are in real life!! and dragging a loser is exactly what he likes. attention. he's just getting off. don't give them free communication in any form. don't engage. especially when you know it's bullshit. "I will drag you down to the depths of hell." the loser can only threaten you with bs, if you continue feeding the troll(s) by responding. don't respond to any text, email or cell calls where his sentences are fighting each another. just block. to prevent any brain damage, DON'T RESPOND, IGNORE AND BLOCK! sadly, i hate to say it, but you are allowing them to play games with you. they don't give a f*ck about you. stop responding. you're wasting too much brain real estate on losers. when a suspect idiot who has no intentions on scheduling with you says "i dont do deposits" and it's a requirement of yours, just block, no need in replying back to them. you won't convince him to do things your way because he has no intentions on scheduling a smooth, no hassle booking with you anyway. i know this may sound weird to say, but the idiots don't give a damn about easter when it comes to us. stop wishing them a happy easter. separate this hobby world from your real world and treat this hobby world accordingly. respect good clients who have shown you respect in initial contact, and there are some good ones out there. block the rest and don't entertain them at all. the block function is your best friend!

thanks for the reminder that i do have some. i need to check the shelf life. ive had them for a while, totally forgot.

i suggest you head to the airport and get in line now to make it on time for april. lol

to eliminate any confusion, there are archived receipts available on archive.org. long before escortboards, where we later advertised, we initially advertised on T.O.’s, the founder of (TheOtherboard). T.O. had an ASP Advertising section where we placed ads. i can still see many of my ads, along with many others, on archive.org and they remain viewable today.

which other platforms have the similar verbiage? back to the fmty link community discussion, the board still would be facilitating contact by providing the fmty link correct? assuming theres a disclaimer, what will the fine print say regarding the fmty link? or will there be fine print? because the big print fmty link is giving solicitation imo. even if you place a disclaimer, is it enough to keep the board insulated from being involved with the connection of 2 people because in your words "Legally, we are not booking anything." however, under colorados solicitation statute C.R.S. § 18-7-202, you are arranging and would be directing individuals by providing the fmty link where there will be paid encounters taking place if there was a connection birthed via the fmty link, correct? so to say "Legally, we are not booking anything." just providing the fmty link, you are still, arranging contact, directing contact, connecting contact and initiating contact. i mean if it walks like a duck no matter what it claims, its a duck right? im not the smartest and im no attorney but i know 'intent' when i see it. again, this isnt my sandbox im just raising concern...do as you wish. i wish you well either way.

yes they were!

thanks for clearing that up for the Developer. i was already aware that T.O. (TheOtherBoard) was a consumer, not a sex worker. i was only responding to the Devs 'founded by sex worker' claims. that said, i appreciate you sharing the background and taking us down memory lane. those were the good old days ~

i know! please inform the Developer.

my recall is perfect! so yes i recall. i advertised on all of them. originally advertised on tob long before escortboards and escortphotos. my banner is still up along with a few other banners on archive.org. whats the expected launch date for the new TOB 2.0?

my apologies, i thought T.O. was a 'buyer' in the industry and not a sex worker but at the same time i thought he was the, the main ingredient for the birth of TheOtherboard website. hence the initials T.O. (TheOtherBoard)? granted i was on the outside looking in. thanks for clearing that up. i appreciate the insight. T.O. (TheOtherBoard) def had me fooled, i genuinely had no idea he was a sex worker. regarding tryst, i looked into the fmty mention on their tour guidelines page. they note that “tryst does not support fmty” but invite people to reach out if theres interest. since that statement dates back to 2024, im guessing there has been zero interest to move forward with adding a fmty link to the platform. and i completely understand what its like to be first to create the blueprint. others tend to follow once something gains traction. wishing you the best of luck moving forward.

apologies, for the delay. originally, i decided i wouldn't comment on this again since theres a provider policing other providers intellect yet hasn't contributed any thoughts on the thread topic. plus ive been under the weather... i’ve never come across a fmty escort messaging link on an escort forum. a fmty is still typically considered part of arranging a paid encounter. the travel aspect doesn’t change the underlying legal issue. if a provider responds to an unknown person who is actually an undercover officer, the conversation itself can 'sometimes' become the basis for a solicitation or a prostitution charge, depending on what is said or agreed to in the eyes of le. especially when you get into the discussion of rate packages. le in many online spaces do online stings (forums, messaging apps, ads, etc.) where le pose as clients. ofc, simply receiving a message isn’t illegal, but engaging in certain negotiations for a fmty for money can create risk. let's keep it real, some as in many do not know how to have safe conversations/discussions during messaging, provider and client. it is what it is. none of us are perfect and seem to forget sesta/fosta and most dont know or follow the laws. in the words that have carried me safely over the years: from provider Forbidden J, "learn the law carefully so you can break it properly" but since you're adding fmty messaging links, you're forgetting to add, which is just as popular as fmty engagements are also.. tmty, dmty and fytm. ive experienced them all....but none were birthed through an advertising messaging link on a board. i could be wrong but this board is not sex worker ran so im not sure how you're able to be apart of using sex worker term via a messaging link for contact regarding appts. again, i could be wrong but are you a sex worker? only asking bc it seems you're doing a lot of comparisons with the tryst website. however, tryst is ran 100% by sex workers. then i'll be able to understand why you'd like to use a sex worker term as a messaging link on this board. if you're a sex worker, let me stfu. i have no problems at all with being corrected. im just trying to have an understanding from you regarding the messaging link. we are simply having communitydiscussion right? even if you are a sex worker, using the fmty term is dedicated mainly on an independent providers website, profile, bio, ad etc. i thought? a board is never involved in assisting in with any sort of sex acronym term appt inquiries via any private links. imo. again, please correct if im wrong, i have no problems w/being corrected. tryst provides a platform for sex workers by sex workers and don't get involved with any individual provider or assist with any appt inquiries via any messaging links on their site for any acronyms. i dont see a fmty messaging link for contact or any messaging on the tryst platform for any acronyms but i do see tryst has a dedicated space on their blog for answers to questions and discussion on fmty's. still trying to understand why would a potential client contact me about a service (fmty) via a link on a website platform and not contact me directly? in which i would already have in some detail more abt a fmty listed on my website, bio, ad etc where he wouldn't have to ask a multitude of questions that aren't 'safe' questions. at the end of the day clients sometimes will ask not so safe questions, then get a hair up their ass when you dont answer. i've had many fmty, dmty engagements and ive been contacted directly by my means of contact and ive never in history been contacted for a fmty via a board website messaging link plus ive never seen a fmty contact link on any website platform. but i spend more of my time in the real world these days. if not to much to ask, can you point out which website advertising platforms have fmty messaging links? just cause ive been under a rock lately and may have missed it. ive seen many fmty links on a providers personal website, bio, profile, ads etc. but never on a advertising website platform. thanks. just a guess but this adding a fmty message link screams a local provider who has never had a fmty is pushing for the fmty messaging link without worrying of the discretion and legalities of the board or the law. i personally have never seen any provider who has had many fmty engagements pushing for a message link to be posted on an advertising board. all providers i know, know the importance of discretion and wouldn't want a board involved in any way in her rendezvous's including messaging links. she understands safety. the fmty acronym is one of many acronyms in this industry....why not add a vintage gfe messaging link or any other acronym messaging link? why single out fmty? this is all through my lens but members can begin the down votes. hate gets me paid. hater money is the most lucrative money. at the end of the day this isn't my sandbox. this is just my community feedback. do as you please.

welcome aboard!