I've been a "happy hobbyist" on TOB for around 10 years. In that time I've never been a "no-show" and have always been respectful of the providers. My first "red flag" was back in 2019 when I had an appointment with a provider who emailed that she had "heard" that I was into rough sex and wanted to talk with me about that. I explained that I was over 50 years old and wasn't into any time "rough" anymore:) But I still have no idea where she heard such a thing??
Now that the whole covid thing is passing I'm excited to get back into the hobby again. But, unfortunately, most of my favorite providers have just sort of disappeared! So now I'm reaching out to new providers and having a hard time getting them to respond to my texts and appointment requests. One of my long-time providers, Autumn of Aurora, says I'm not on the blacklist she manages but I'm wondering if there might be other lists floating around out there? Maybe I'm just paranoid, but I'd like to find a way to stay in the hobby if at all possible. I don't have any family and have always enjoyed some of the relationships that have formed over the years.
Does anyone have any ideas? I'd greatly appreciate any thoughts you may have.
Randy Guy
