Bora Bora

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  1. It's been a while, actually a long time since I watched any porn. I was bored yesterday because of the snow storm so I watched a few clips in a couple of the most well known free porn websites. I'm surprised at how violent porn has turned out to be. Actually disgusting!! In most of the clips women turned out to be just a bunch of holes to abuse as hard as they could. Have you noticed the same thing? Of course porn is porn and it's not a fairly tale, but between explicit sex and violent sex there is a big difference. I'm wondering how this will have an impacting in the way the new generations understand sex and how to have sex.
  2. Wouldn't it be nice that we could save our search preferences? For example: Denver / Non-smoker / Natural breasts / grooming / body type etc. instead of having to select those each time the user wants to search. Maybe even giving the user the possibility of saving a few sets of pre-selected search queries. Just an idea... I searched but didn't find if anybody have requested that already.
  3. Interesting article. Our younger generations are not having as much sex as before... More Young Americans Are Going Without Sex [...] New research shows that one of three men between the ages of 18 to 24 have not had any sex during the past year, putting to rest all the talk of the "hookup culture." Men and women aged 25 to 34 in the United States also reported an increase in sexual inactivity and a decrease in sexual frequency during the past two decades, the researchers found. [...]
  4. GFE vs.PSE I Love Both But.......

    Great question! I do distinguish between the two of them and my preference goes always and exclusively for GFE. As a matter of fact I don't like PSE at all I think it just depend on what each person likes or prefers.
  5. Curious statistics

    Good question!
  6. Curious statistics

    Not from the green... but not from the red either
  7. Might find this article useful: The best strains for arousal, ... When it comes to sex and using flower, are there strains that specifically heighten arousal? Is there such a thing as a "viagra strain" to kickstart your sex life? ...
  8. I voted "casual" thinking I was going to be the only one but I'm surprised to see that casual is second and not far from Hot lingerie... interesting
  9. When to hang it up...

    According to Consumer's Health Digest, at 50 years old only 30% of men might need Viagra to keep enjoying the hobby. (well... they don't say that exactly but it's the idea). So I think there is plenty of time after 50 to have fun
  10. Labia-good, bad or ugly

    I just wanted to add my vote on this interesting topic: big labia are beautiful! I know it's about each lady loving her own body and some changes on it can definitely help. But if it's because of how the guys see them, I would say that 99% of guys like all labia, including large ones.
  11. My Only Ask

    “Loyalty is the strongest glue which makes a relationship last for a life time.” (Mario Puzo, novelist)
  12. Review Questioon

    Maybe it helps if for a while you put a little note in your listings or website saying something like: (FBSM/BDSM/etc) is not available anymore. Of course, there are always people that don't read the information but a few will read the note and you'll have less people asking.
  13. When your sleep cycle is off!

    What works best for me is to go out and take plenty of natural sun light. That helps your body to clearly identify what day and night is and that helps your brain when to give the right instructions to your whole body and adjust accordingly.
  14. Yes!! lot's of it!
  15. Eco-friendly sex?

    I've seen very strong positions about disposal of used condoms and also people that don't care about it. What's your point of view?
  16. Time for Another Gratitude Post

    Hunter thank you for our beautiful reflection. I liked the way you started our post. So simple but yet so deep and positive. Sometimes when things get complicated we can easily forget that we all have a place and a positive role in this world. This is a misunderstood field of society, yes, and I'm talking about both the ladies and the gents. But, it's usually misunderstood by narrow minded and self-centered people, unable to see that human relationships can go beyond the standard stereotypes, and that those misunderstood relationships can be beautiful and fulfilling in its own way. As persons we are open to connection, to friendship, to love and to share. In the hobby there is an intimate sharing that fulfills that need for sharing that we all have. Sometimes is more physical, sometimes is more emotional or even deeper. Sometimes it can be sharing a smile, or a sad moment of our week, or a family problem, or the joy of a small gift that tells us that someone thought about me. Sometimes is about sharing just wild passion and sexual desires. In the families, at work, among friends and in the hobby there are always jerks and even criminals. But that doesn't turn those social environments into something bad. In the hobby there are plenty of ladies and gentlemen with great, friendly and loving hearts. Once in a while we meet someone that doesn't fit this description, like in any other social group. Well, that's life. Therefore, I'm grateful for the many great, courageous, intelligent, beautiful and caring people I've known in this small misunderstood place of the world!
  17. How dolled up do you like your girl

    Well it depends on her personal characteristics, both physical and those of her personality. I like it when what she wears matches her characteristics. An elegant and sophisticated mature lady, probably looks better in a sexy elegant dress, robe or lingerie. And probably doesn't look that great dressing like a teenager A young attractive girl with a young and pretty body and a little wild personality probably only needs to wear panties, a little necklace and a beautiful smile. In an "appointment setting" I prefer that she: - is barefooted than wearing high heels - dresses normal and casual than super-sexy-slut type - has little elegant makeup than tons of it - wears soft/mild perfume than strong perfume - is wearing something than completely naked (I mean the first part of the appointment) - doesn't wear big/huge earrings (makes me nervous that I can accidentally pull them and hurt her)
  18. TOB ads

    I didn't know there was a like button for the ads!
  19. Describe your cooking

    Hmmm... interesting
  20. I recently saw in the listings area of the board one that said as part of her description: "NO GFE", which of course is perfectly fine for many people. So, apparently the ladies can't mention what they do offer but they can mention what they do not offer. I think this is a good and honest way of avoiding unnecessary questions and indirect inquiries: if I can easily see that the lady doesn't provide what I'm looking for, then I don't have to waste her time (and mine). And, as a side effect, if everybody is on the same page, if a lady doesn't say NO GFE, then that means she is YES GFE. Just an out loud thought...
  21. First meet - ladies outfits

    A friend of mine recently sent me this
  22. Good news! apparently they have discovered a drug that would prevent HIV. ------- Pharmaceutical giant Gilead has agreed to release its exclusive patent to manufacture and sell the HIV-prevention drug Truvada. The news is seen as a win for individuals who may be at a greater risk of contracting HIV. According to a study published by the National Institutes of Health, Truvada can reduce the risk of contracting HIV by 99 percent Full Article Here
  23. Describe your cooking

    Yes, it's a risotto, a typical Italian rice. The ones that I do very well are mushroom, shrimp or prosciutto... or a combination of any of them