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Lucy ... I do love her in the sense that I truly care for her. She is as a wonderful human being, who has been through an awful lot in her short life, and is open with me in sharing her dreams, wishes, and hopes for a better future. Likewise, she makes me feel comfortable and safe when I'm being vulnerable with her. The sex is wonderful which compensates for it having grown stale at home. However, that is just one element of our overall relationship. I look forward to seeing her, catching up on "current events" and just basically sharing some human intimacy. I've refrained from calling it "love" to help me keep the perspective that she has her life, I have mine ... and, that's the way it needs to be.

Badboy thanks for your post! It is spot on and came at a very good time. Your perspective will help me sort out my feelings and thoughts as relates to the relationship I have with my #1 ATF. I can't get this girl out of my head, but ... it is not love. I love my wife, I love my family; however, I really like spending time with this young lady. And, I rationalize that my frequent contributions are helping a single mom make a better life for herself. I am probably being naive but it makes me feel better and I guess that counts?

The responses to my post reinforces the fact that not many people like to be rated (particularly if the rating = average) and that all rating systems have a far bit of bias and subjectivity to them. A very interesting discussion. My take-a-way would be that the all important questions "Would you see her again?" and "Would you recommend her to others?" should carry a lot more weight than the other more subjective ratings. Beauty is certainly in the eye of the beholder and performance is VERY dependent on the chemistry between client and provider. I'm very appreciative of the ladies I've visited and am very happy most of them have done their best to satisfy this "average white guy". I'll be forever grateful (and a repeat client) of those couple that have made lasting memories and are repeat visitors in my dreams.

Thanks for the feedback all! I must confess my scale was a bit tongue in cheek. However, I was making the point that the TOB rating scale of 1 to 10 is ineffective. You almost never see anything less than an 8 or 9 used (unless the young lady was a total rip off or robbed the man). Same goes for the reviews I've written.. Plus, I would like to get laid again and am not eager to unleash the rath of a wronged woman ;-) P.S. I tend to rely more on the review text and try to "read between the lines" on how the provider was viewed. Doesn't always work and, of course, YMMV. P.P.S. And, I fully acknowledge for the ladies that the performance is a two-way street. You only get out what you're willing to put in! ;-)

After having relied on several member reviews to screen and choose my investments in the ladies, I find that "10" is a very overused rating and/or my expectations are a bit higher than most. I felt compelled to offer my opinion on "What's a 10". Looks: 10 = A Victoria Secret model 9 = A Victoria Secret model in waiting, just about to be discovered 8 = Turns the heads of everybody in the room (ladies too) when she walk in. Creates a "woodie" just by brushing up against you as she walks by. 7 = The very attractive "Girl next Door" that you've always wanted to "do" 6 = The average YL in your college class 5 = The average MILF in the neighborhood 4 = The average MILF over 50 3 = The talent found in most massage parlors 2 = A 60 year old MILF from Kentucky (found on Colfax Ave) 1 = You don't wanna know! Performance / Service: 10 = Eyes roll back in the clients AND providers head when you climax together 9 = Eyes roll back in my head and I black out for a few minutes 8 = A top notch PSE/GFE session where she's really into you, is very vocal, and you're both covered in sweat when it's finished 7= A quality session with a pretty lady that leaves you wanting to come back again 6 = A quality session, worth what you paid, but probably not a repeat 5 = You got off, not worth what you paid, and not a repeat 4 = 3G (Got in, Got Off, Got Out) 3 = Same as #4 but with a 2-4 in terms of looks 2 = She scared you, hurt you, and you never want to have sex again 1 = Turns out "she" was LE Thoughts? Am I being too harsh? I'm just trying to level the playing field so the truly top notch gals stand out from the crowd.

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