mj76

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    I don't really have a preference for color or black and white in artsy photos. For provider pics I don't really like the artsy photos. I get a better idea of a providers personality and it is a closer representation of what they really look like with the cell phone selfies so those are the pics I prefer. 

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    I've completely stopped using the reviews. I've noticed that there are rarely any so-so or negative reviews and to me it seems like guys are writing reviews to stroke their own ego or writing them for the providers. The reviews are completely useless without the negative and so-so reviews. As I'm reading reviews and posts from other members I can get an idea of their personality, like and dislikes. In the old system I was able to take that info compare it to my personality, likes and dislikes to find providers that were more compatible and also look for certain traits in myself that might make a particular provider a not so great fit. I realize that it is probably hard for providers to see so-so reviews for such an intimate service but I don't see anything wrong with those reviews. What works for one guy doesn't work for another and maybe if more honest data was available both providers and clients could have better experiences.

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    3 hours ago, engineer said:

    Okay here's how it went exactly.

     

    So the wrong number replied that they were available at 3pm and sent an address.  I figured out the problem (that I texted a wrong number) and got suspicious of who was on the other now, lmao.  But I texted them again saying:

     

    "I just realized I texted the wrong number.  But you actually seemed on board and interested so if you're interested, let me know and can you send me a pic?"

     

    I never got a reply. 

    I obviously wouldn't post a NCNS review.  I also don't feel bad that I didn't show up, as this is a really odd situation.  Scenarios in my head ranged from they are a "good person" and after seeing TOB ads realized this was for escorting, and they might have sent my text to the cops.  Another scenario is that someone shady got the text and was going to jump me when I showed up.  Another scenario is a woman who has been cheated on in the past got the text and might be googling my number online and trying to see if I'm on facebook/etc., and blackmail me.  And of course the other scenario of some random woman who thought "hey I'll give this a shot I need 200" was the only GOOD scenario.

    Basically, I got spooked/nervous and no showed.

    You probably did the smart thing by not showing up but next time you may not want to respond to the wrong number. I have a friend that received a similar text from a guy that was tying to schedule with a provider. My friend strung the guy along for a bit and then forwarded the text messages to LE. I'm not sure if anything came of it but I would say for the ladies and guys if you get a response from a wrong number or a different number then what was used to originally make contact it might be wise to just ignore.

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    9 hours ago, decafnaetd said:

    Not that confusing... Ever wanted a pizza but ended up eating Mexican food?The Mexican food is still terrific, but doesn't diminish the other urge. Same idea, but it just sounds like I need to speak a little more clearly with the chef.

    Your "sharing the script" advice is on point, I'm just not sure about when exactly to share it. My experience has been that the ladies will take charge from the moment I hit the door, so I'm a little unsure when all this disclosure happens. 

    This thread has given me lots of great advice toward that, though.

    If you have P411 put it in your profile and asked the lady to look at your profile during the booking process. You might even put it in your profile here and if it is lady on TOB you are booking with ask her to take a look.

    I don't like discussing anything before the first session with a lady but if after the session is over and you liked her ask her about it for a future session.

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    I got that email from you as well. Instead of sending out another unsolicited email maybe just post a notification to your websites. I'm not sure how I got in your contacts cause I've never seen you but I might have signed up for an account on your site so that might be where the list came from but you might already know that.

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    I think it's a fine idea and many providers have roommates. I have run into a few female roommates going in or out and I didn't have a problem with it. I would be a little uncomfortable if it was a male roommate though so an either case if you don't want your clients running into your roommate it will probably require very good communication between you two.

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    A name change could a sign of a potential problem but I wouldn't make that assumption without a little more research. I know that a few have changed names and contact info because they had a bad reputation. 

    I have seen several ladies that changed their identity and have not had any issues. I never asked why because it's not my business but I'm sure there are plenty of legit reasons to do so. I just do a little extra homework in these cases.
     

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    14 hours ago, Sweet Hannah said:

     

    2. For the guys that do and don't ask for discount, just curious why you choose to or not to?

    I never ask for discount when someone is providing any kind of service inside or outside of this hobby. I find it very tacky to do so and kind of insulting to the person providing the service. I either pay the asking price or find someone else to provide the service I am looking for.

    I'll negotiate the hell out of something I purchase though.

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    On 11/18/2016 at 2:19 PM, Juanmotai said:

    Ya know, I've long suspected there were little piglets slopping around in our forums, but it's always been outta sight outta mind. Then you read that 2nd article from the Coloradoan and see the little piglets oinking out direct quotes from our forums and it confirms your suspicions. Having a mole is one thing, but it's not cool having little piglets slopping around 

    That's very disrespectful IMO. LE knows about this site and they are on it. They are just doing their job and are a very important part of society. If you don't like what they do work to change the laws. It's the lawmakers and other citizens that don't approve of what we do here and that will never change unless we fight to change perceptions.

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    3 hours ago, Lucy Kitten said:

    Well since Democrats lost the House, the Senate and the Presidency we can expect to see Roe vs Wade challenged, we can expect to see an uptick in hate crimes, we can expect to see the immigrants tossed from our country, we can expect the growing refugee problem to only get worse, goodbye to filibustering, hello to our new Axis of Terror with our new best friends Russia and North Korea.  20 million Americans will lose Obamacare, private insurance will go back to raping us.

    I can't honestly decide if America is more racist or more misogynistic. I've never seen a woman railroaded like that and I have watched a bunch of nasty porn. Never have I seen a campaign run based purely on dislike for your opponent. Never have I seen modern day women be so hateful towards an intelligent and qualified woman. Never did I think I would see the day that white people felt so challenged by progress. Never have I been so disappointed in %60 of my gender that voted for Trump.

    Trump didn't win. Hatred, racism, sexism, xenophobia, bigotry and rape culture won big last night. There is no one and nothing to blame but America's divisive hatred.

    Fellow sex workers I hope you're prepared for this. Contingency plans should be dusted off. Business is going to tank and come inauguration day be prepared to have to fight for the right to exist as women.

    Relax, you are way over thinking this one. This was a predictable outcome and no matter who was running as republican that person was going to win. This and nothing to do with hatred or racism, just history repeating itself.  

    http://blog.constitutioncenter.org/2013/01/historic-re-election-pattern-doesnt-favor-democrats-in-2016/

     

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  17. Posted

    My orgasm is the primary reason I visit a provider so anything else is secondary. I defiantly try to be a pleaser and it makes the session much better if it happens or she pretends it happens.

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    1 hour ago, Juanmotai said:

    Honestly, this thread has become pointless already. By saying she wants another chance and that she is willing to change, she has admitted her past sins. It doesn't seem like she is trying to hide from the past. Contrary, she says she screwed up and is asking for a chance to atone for her past. Now leave it at that. Like Pfunk says, it's all out there in the open for everyone to read. If she changes her ways, then good for her. Iam rooting for her and would love to see her be successful and prosperous. If not then hey, cest la vie. Good luck Sabrina :-) 

    Given her past I don't think this thread is pointless at all and appreciate the fact someone called her out. This is not the first time she has changed her name, been called out for it and claimed to have changed. I hope that she does change and she stops ripping people off but I won't be taking that chance. I'll admit that it is a little weird that someone would book with her just to prove she is KC.

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    I never bothered with trying to get references. Somehow I found sowet which led me to TOB. After 6 months of lurking on TOB and doing tons if research I decided P411 would be easiest. I gave them my info and once I was verified I found a newbie friendly provider on P411 that had a bunch of reviews on here and she gave me my first OK. I don't think I have ever booked an appointment with a provider I have never seen outside of P411.

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    I don't. Whatever she chooses that makes her feel sexy works for me. I've had providers met me at the door in a robe, just a towel, naked, street clothes, form fitting dresses and lingerie and I don't think i was ever disappointed by the ladies outfit.

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    4 hours ago, Badboy said:

    Well MJ76, you obviously have been around a long time, likely longer than me, but I gotta tell ya - a 95% ncns rate is way out of the norm.  I have only had one ncns in the past year (yeah from a well-reviewed provider, etc.), and that is out of about 50 dates.  Something is wrong - are you fishing from a bad pool (i.e. BP, Craigslist)?  Are you sending nice and polite requests with no details, etc.?  If that isn't the problem, maybe you have been blacklisted.  I have no idea how to find that out, but you definitely shouldn't be having that kind of strike-out rate.  This is not characteristic of the Denver market, this is a unique experience to you and you may want to look into why it is happening.

    No, not all NCNS. I have only had 2 NCNSs in the last year. All others were cancelled usually last minute but at least they contacted me. I'm fishing from the TOB and P411 pool and all had several good reviews. I'm polite and I'm doing everything the same as when I didn't have this problem. 2 years ago I rarely got cancelled on and now it's the norm so maybe I am on a blacklist.

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  25. Posted

    I also feel like the service is way down. I haven't experienced the upselling but 95% of my appointments in the last year have been cancelled by the ladies and usually last minute. I went from seeing 2 to 3 ladies a month to 4 for all of last year and 2 so far this year. I only see well reviewed ladies and I'm interacting with them in the same manner I was when I was more active. Also, in previous years they were a little more courteous when cancelling and now most just send a one liner without any kind of apology.

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