mj76

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  1. I think it depends on the session. I'm not really into PSE and the few times I had Greek were all what I consider to be GFE.
  2. I've had it happen several times. They have all been ladies that I have seen several times but I've never had it happen on a first encounter so maybe it does take a level of trust.
  3. Real Name First & Last

    Unfortunately this an illegal activity and socially unacceptable so I don't want my real identity attached to it in any way. Not everyone is trustworthy so to protect myself I am going to treat everyone as if they cannot be trusted. This is much different then a date because dating isn't illegal. Also, I'm married so if for some reason I lost my mind and did go on a date I certainly would not tell my date my real name cause I wouldn't want that info to somehow get back home.
  4. Damn text messages

    I have T-Mobile and the voice service blows so maybe that's why I text so much because it has never failed me. I think it's kinda cool that your willing to see BP ladies but many of them are fairly unreliable so maybe it's not the technology that is the problem.
  5. Damn text messages

    I've had the opposite experience in the hobby and in my personal life I have found text to be much more reliable. I've never had any problems texting and I'll often book without speaking to her until I walk into her incall. I find calling to be more troublesome with dropped calls and the call breaking up. Check with your carrier or get a new phone if using a cheap burner.
  6. I'm a bit shallow when it comes to the hobby. I'm not trying to be rude and I have a lot of respect the ladies that I have seen but I have an SO and friends outside the hobby that I'd rather spend time with if I'm looking for conversation and so does she. I'm not looking to get to know her or be friends. Truth is she's not looking for a friend either, she's wanting to pay some bills. I really don't care if she even remembers my name on the next visit as long as she is pleasant and has a smile on her face. The characteristics of my ATFs have been slender, pretty face, slow/sensual with lots of foreplay and they shared the experience or were very good actresses. The sessions with my ATFs started with a quick exchange of pleasantries, then we slowly played for most of the hour, followed by a quick snuggle after finishing and a hug/kiss as I'm leaving. Never much time for talking.
  7. I like bare but a landing strip is acceptable. If it's natural I'm out of there. For myself I keep my balls shaved and the rest trimmed. The ladies seem to like it that way.
  8. I don't have an ATF at the moment but when I did I saw her once a month. Looking for a new ATF now and not having much success but it's fun looking.
  9. it's a little addicting. I check often throughout day just to read the new posts but I don't post very often so I'm probably on here 30 minutes a day.
  10. Thanks for the great memories. You're a wonderful lady and you will be missed. Good luck to you.
  11. I think you guys are over thinking this one. I've lost count of how many times I have been locked out of my own hotel rooms and have to knock and wait for my spouse open the door. What draws attention is looking suspicious. Act like you belong there and you won't have any issues.
  12. Too many okays??

    I've never had a provider cancel on me for having too many okays but I have had 2 or 3 mention the number during the session. It did seem like they were a little put off by the number of okays I had which I thought was a little strange but I never put much thought into it. I'm not about to start deleting okays or stop asking for okays just because a few might disapprove. Okays and reviews are me way of keeping track on who I have seen. If they don't like there are plenty that don't care and have no problem taking my money.
  13. 4 out of 11. That probably explains why the female orgasm eludes me.
  14. The downside of "trades"

    I wouldn't ask a woman that doesn't do this to trade. She would need to pay my normal rate like any guy would. I never do favors for women. They always seem to want to abuse it and think I need to keep doing them favors because they are female. Ever since my early twenties I learned to treat women who need something just as I do men and that is payment upfront. Guys seem to appreciate favors more then women do. Anytime I have done a favor for a guy they'll buy beers at the bar or pick up lunch but women seem to just expect more favors.
  15. Activity schedule

    For me it's weekend/nighttime and every now and then weekday/nighttime. It's impossible for me to get out during the day. There are many ladies that I can never see because they work during the day. According to poll results as of now I see why that is.
  16. what do you do?

    There are too many ladies to choose from to put up with this. I would scratch her off my list and write a NC/NS review.
  17. What would you do ?

    C) I would never ask a provider to visit. With my schedule I can't really prebook so it would be unlikely that I would be able to see her if she did visit.
  18. Last minute cancel by ASP

    When I get cancelled on I try to find something else or someone else to do. I have a mental list of ladies I have previously seen that I would see again and a list of ladies that I have already done research on and would like to see. I first take a look at the ads to see if any are posting and if so I will try a few. If that doesn't work out I check to see if there are any movies in the movie theaters that I would like to see. If there aren't any movies that look good I'll call a few buddies and see if any of them want to go drinking. If they're all busy I might head up to Black Hawk and do a little gambling. If I don't want to gamble on that particular day I'll head home and put in a few hours at work so I'll have a little extra for my next visit. There are so many other things to do it doesn't even bother me when I get cancelled on but I typically don't book with the provider again.
  19. If at all possible I like to please her as well. I know it's far fetched in this hobby but there are plenty of ladies that are very good actresses. I appreciate that and they are the ones that I repeat with.
  20. Would you see a bald provider?

    I don't find bald very attractive so I wouldn't see a bald provider that I have never seen before. However, if I had seen her before and liked her I wouldn't let it stop me from booking.
  21. Here's your chance...

    I don't have a problem with it and don't get what all the fuss is about. This is the first time I have seen it so the link is below. Under the picture there is a poll and right now 68% say it's porn. This country is way too conservative. http://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-style/news/hannah-davis-yanks-bikini-bottoms-sports-illustrated-swim-too-hot-201552
  22. A fill in the blank poll...

    I picked other because I don't have any regrets on not seeing a particular provider. If a lady moves or retires there is always a new lady to take her place. If she raises her rates above what I am willing to pay there is always someone just as pretty and talented at the price point I am comfortable with. Fake tits, change in hair color or style or she gains weight, well guess what? There will be someone else in a short amount of time that will catch my eye so I'm never worried about it.
  23. Poll your preferred ASP locator

    EB first and P411 second. Mostly because that's where I started and I have had very good luck with them.
  24. Repeats

    Typically it's one and done. Not because I don't like repeating but because it's really hard for me to prebook and most of my appointments are same day or last minute.
  25. what would you do ?

    I'm sorry to hear that. As for myself, I would spend as much time as possible with my family. I wouldn't look to check anything off my bucket list or worry about what I didn't get a chance to do, I would just spend as much time as I could with the ones I love the most. I would also get all my affairs in order and make sure they know what to do with me when I pass. Speaking from experience it is really hard on the family when everything is not taken care of and when no one knows what the wishes of the deceased are.