secojim

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  1. On 12/22/2021 at 6:43 PM, gr8owl said:

    Trinidad - 8000 population.  Extremely doubtful.  Entire state of New Mexico only has 4 cities over 50,000 and one is in Albuquerque metro.  From Trinidad,  Santa Fe south or Pueblo north are the only realistic chances and Pueblo is no hotbed.  You are in an escort desert. :(

    Hmm...quite the opportunity there. Can you say captive audience ladies?

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  2. Deposits mean paper trail and exponential likelihood of being scammed. Not good for home team. My only deposit gets tied in a knot and stuffed in my pocket once we're officially friends.

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  3. On 12/17/2021 at 8:08 AM, MyraGold said:

    I think we don’t hear much of the supporters of deposits on here because they’re happy regulars who don’t really lurk/complain the forums. I also think if you do your research you’ll be fine. I see a lot of criticism about deposits/being scammed on here yet not many reviews stating this experience. Makes you wonder if it’s even true or if it’s just something people say to discourage providers from the option. You see it with rates, services provided, etc. I just hope this doesn’t discourage a provider from requiring what’s comfortable and makes sense for THEM. 
     

    Because no one can force a potential client to provide info they’re not comfortable with. But this discourse could harm a provider who thinks they don’t have other options. 
     

    It’s not hard to adjust your search to a provider who requires what you’re comfortable giving. No need to bash on providers who don’t align with you. Just move on. Just like they do. If people weren’t willing then you wouldn’t see deposits being required to book for some. Just because you’re not willing doesn’t erase that there’s plenty of clients who are. No amount of complaining/bullying is gonna change that. 
     

    Adjust your search or your expectations. Easy. 
     

     

    A member going on 5 years, as sexy as you are and skilled as your reviews reveal, I'm sure you'll agree most encounters go unreviewed. This thread alone proves it happens all the time. 

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  4. Not wanting your pic on "her" phone is smart thinking

     

    On 10/19/2021 at 9:12 AM, Caressa Duval said:

    Hello Nikki! Welcome to Colorado :) Isn't that amazing. We do see politicians, movie stars, musicians, people widely in the media eye. Everything to lose, and they don't whine about screening. If anything, they immediately inform us of who they are, because a confidentiality agreement is put in place. At that point they have our real identity too. ?

    There are actually many incredible men on TOB, and I hope they show how wonderful hobbying in Colorado is!

    ^^^or more ;)

    You mean like the confidentiality agreement Stormy signed? And you need anonymity too? How interesting as in rich.

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  5. On 11/29/2021 at 1:16 PM, Shyguy said:

    This thread could possibly be the most ridiculous thing I’ve read this month! Bruh, the term chocolate? Like really? Maybe just eat a snickers and call it a day… I’m sure you’re a blast to hang out with. 😏

    At least they got an actual flavor :huh:

    @skinnydud - none "chocolate" but they are all closer to sugar spice everything nice. End the carnie search and tap the coworker before you get woulda shoulda coulda old like me :cool:

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  6. Hello everyone. My name is Jim and I am a middle-aged, experienced, and respectful gentleman new to SE Colorado and theotherboard. More of a lurker, I hope to become acquainted with discrete friends from Lamar to Pueblo. 

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