Adson Brown

Thank you for a thoughtful and sincere response Samantha. I wanted some feedback from the ladies, and if you'd told me I'm wrong I would have respected your authority and said "yes ma'am". I treated my provider well and respected her boundaries, she was good to me in return. Now I'm seeing her again for her full hour rate. Since I've been on this board, I've been impressed and humbled by the intellect and reason you girls have in your approach. On top of being the physically stunning creatures that capture us in the first place, I think you're brave, generous, resilient, smart, soft and strong all at once. Most of you could have any kind of job in business, tech, hospitality, retail etc but for whatever reason you choose to share yourselves with us, and we need to not take it for granted. I wish I had the means to spend more time with some of the beauties around here and take extra good care of each one, but since I don't, just know that this communication on here has the ability to impact the way we see you. When I am able to indulge in the luxury you provide, I will take care to make sure it's safe, respectful, and worthwhile. I believe you and agree with you, you are special and amazing people to do this. I think you're all princesses and I resent that my gender feels the innate desire to degrade and devalue your service. I'm guilty as well but you are enlightening me and I promise now to be one of the good guys in this hobby. Thank you for sharing your sweetness with us. Adson

For a late or short notice call, I wouldn't be mad at it.

All boobs are beautiful

I'd like to say two things based on my experiences working in plastic surgery: 1. You may or may not notice the difference. In a standard breast augmentation, the implant is placed behind the patient's own natural breast tissue (and often behind the pectoral muscles) and can usually be inserted via funnel through a 1.5 inch incision in the mammary crease. If the implant is a modest supplement to her natural tissue, they may look and feel completely natural. If she wants to go big, the surgeon makes a longer incision, and will pack a gel or air filled sizer into the capsule to find maximum capacity, then choose the largest size implant that fits. The slack is pulled out of the skin, exposing the scar. Then you get the hard, stiff boobies endearingly termed "bolt-ons". 2. It's all about what the lady was born with and what she wants to end up with. We see women come into the OR with perfect figures but they want lipo and bigger boobs. We also see flat-chested women that just want to have a feminine figure. Then there are those who come in for a reduction because they are naturally so large and heavy that they have back problems. In any case, we don't judge. So I can't choose, I think most of us prefer medium size natural breasts, but if that isn't what a gal was born with, I think she can be perfectly beautiful with a surgical modification. There are also ladies (probably not ASPs) that have lost one or both breasts to cancer, and may have undergone a reconstruction of some type. We don't usually see the heavily scarred and uneven ones in this hobby, but they are common in RW, and they all are beautiful in their own way.

I don't know the guy, but I saw one provider reply that there is no harm in asking about a shorter time. After seeing the thread I agree that if no hh/qv option is listed, you shouldn't ask. As for me, I did not offer less because there was not a number yet. I offered what I had which was perfectly decent, my provider told me she was glad I got her and she asked me to become a regular. I posted right before this answering your previous question and telling you I respect your advice, but it hasn't been approved by moderators yet.

Is it okay to say here? I offered $200 plus a $40 tip. You might say that's on the low side, but this is also a girl with no reviews. She doesn't have a ton of business rolling in, and again she could've given me a shorter time that was worth it or told me that it wasn't worth it at all. But it was. Win-win. You're clearly more experienced than me mountainrider33, I appreciate your input.

Here's one I'd like opinions on, ladies and gents: I recently set out to find a provider on a budget. I picked a girl and reached out to her: "I would love to see you and I have a budget of this much plus tip. Is it enough?" She didn't have a website or any way I could have known what her rates are, and my offer was the mid-range of an hour rate, plus a 20% tip. So here's the thing, if she charged more per hour, that would give her an opportunity to say "sure, I'll do a hh or 45 minutes for that much". She quickly agreed to an hour, and we had a lovely time together. It turns out her rate was a little more than I offered, but she was ready for a date and would rather take a little less than nothing, plus my tip brought her almost back to what she normally charges. It was a great experience for both of us, and she got a regular out of it. Is that so wrong?

A dress with ankle booties. A short dress but not skanky short. Maybe with tights underneath in cooler weather. Just sweet and simple, and something it seems like girls wear not to impress men, but just to be their cute selves.

When you start trying to spend money you don't have on it! There are so many wonderful ladies offering services, it's easy to become obsessed with your next fix. I'm wondering if I need to start a separate bank account as to keep hobby funds separate from regular funds. Would designating percentage of income be obsessive or just responsible?