Femboy286510

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  1. Infatuation…

    I’m only going by my own personal experience. I married a provider. I know what goes on behind the scenes more than your average client. I have met many of my ex-wife’s provider friends. I’m sorry to say none of them had bio chem degrees. Apparently you know all the providers with PhDs. My experience was different. My intention wasn’t to generalize or categorize and apologize if I did. My point was trying to answer the question “what motivates women in this hobby” You decided to cherry pick a statement and turn it against me. I even said PROB (probably) I wasn’t even making it out to be a concrete statement. Sounds like you’re taking it personally. I’m sure the ladies will do just fine without you having to swoop in and “white knight” to their defense.
  2. Infatuation…

    Hey that’s awesome then. I’ll admit when I’m wrong.
  3. Infatuation…

    Sorry if I upset you
  4. Infatuation…

    Highly educated? Or college graduated? I’m talking about a degree. Not just being highly educated in general. I never said anybody was living hand to mouth. My point was most prob don’t have a college degree so they would likely not qualify for more than an entry level paid job. Ie: without a college degree it would be difficult to find a $100k salary job therefore turning to this profession in order to be able to make the same quick money without a college degree.
  5. Infatuation…

    By higher education you mean, “college graduated” ? You’re saying in your experience majority of the women you have seen are college graduated and have degrees? That’s what I meant by higher education.
  6. Infatuation…

    That’s not easy to answer. Everybody has their own circumstances that brings them to where they are in life. I’m sure for most it’s money, it’s a job. It’s not always an intimate connection, that only happens if it’s genuine. Otherwise it’s just a service. Money I’m sure is the biggest factor. Majority of the women in this biz prob don’t have a higher education so what else do you expect them to do? Work for $12/hr? I’m sure many have kids, how else can they afford to support themselves and live a reasonable lifestyle? There aren’t many other options, that can bring you this kind of fast money.
  7. Agreed it’s not worth arguing about just take your business elsewhere. Just like in any business there are good and not so good providers.
  8. Infatuation…

    I also feel that some guys can get confused becsuse like I said some of them are really good actors and don't realize the nice, sweet, girl impression they are getting could all just be an act. I had no idea the lady I first saw as a provider, the sweet innocent girl I thought (looks can be deceiving) actually would have turned out to have anger issues and be the first person to ever punch me in my face! (In a non-kinky way lol)
  9. Infatuation…

    Some guys might be surprised as to how busy their providers really can be and what their schedules can be like. Many of them don't really even have time for a personal relationship. They are essentially on-call all night and day. Clients have different schedules and the money is good so they have to be there. I know mine could have appointments early as 7am and not come home until midnight some days. The ones that treat it like a real business. On top of that in some way they are taking a pay cut and losing a client because eventually you won't be paying to see her. Now to mention all the possible drama that can occur from being in the hobby. It's just hard to make it work out and almost seems not worth it when you consider all the downsides.
  10. Infatuation…

    To be honest this is something that never really goes away lol at the end of the day money makes the world go around. That's women in general they will want to see money one way or another no matter what lol I lost way more money hooking up with a provider in a relationship than I would have if we had kept it strictly "business".
  11. Infatuation…

    So true
  12. hobby phones

    TextNow works really good. I've tested several phone wifi apps and in my experience #1 is Text now as far as call quality/stability and app stability. TextFree #2.
  13. Infatuation…

    This is a common topic used to come up on eccie all the time. I never thought it would happen to me. From the beginning I always saw it as strictly a business transaction. Everybody on the boards is always reminding us that it's just business and don't get confused. Well, little did I know that we would have married (and divorced lol). It couldn't work as we got together for all the wrong reasons it was out of lust and in the end that wasn't enough we had too many big differences. I suppose we just let our emotions get carried away. We were probably never actually good for each other but, I guess lust is a hell of a drug lol I saw a lot "behind the scenes" as they say. I don't regret my experience no matter how shitty things got and ended. I just try to remember the good times. Having seen a providers life behind the scenes and how things really work. I can see how guys can get confused about what's real and what's not, as this is their job and some are really good at what they do. I mean that's why they are getting paid, it's their livelihood, they might have a family, a kid in college, a mortgage etc. Anyway not trying to bring anybody down. Obviously it can happen as ive heard of it before not just in my case. Unfortunately from what I've seen they just don't seem to work out in the end. Point is just have fun and enjoy your time try not think about the serious stuff. You would be surprised at what good actors some of them are... Crazy enough that she was my first, I never even had a real relationship in my life before her. I've only seen providers since I was 17. So I don't know what I am saying. Yes, it can happen. It happened to me and if it can happen to me it can happen to anybody lol If it happens to you just enjoy it. I wouldn't "try" to go out looking and hoping for something to happen. Im sure its rare, I highly doubt it would happen to me again. I also don't think it's something I would want to happen again. I think keeping it just business is better for me in the long run. If I'm wanting a "real" relationship I should try and find somebody outside of the hobby. Keep the hobby on the side so it's always there if my "real" relationship gets shitty. Instead of screwing up my hobby life lol she was always suspicious of me, I couldn't hobby because of obvious reasons she knew this part of my life. Then me knowing her part of this life, I guess you could say shit can get confusing real quick. If you're asking if it can happen. Yes, it can. Should it happen? I don't know probably not in my case but, everybody is different. How do you know its real and you're not getting played? Thats a slippery slope. I was skeptical for a long time even after we were together. Because of my inexperience with real life relationships I feel it was worth it for me to try and make things work but, in the long run it seems like it was a terrible idea, things ended pretty badly. The grass isn't always greener, enjoy it for what it is now and try not to think about the future. If it happens it happens. Anyway sorry for the rambling just enjoy your life and have fun and make the best of it, whatever it is!
  14. Korean ladies?

    Sent you PM!
  15. Korean ladies?

    Are there any Korean providers in springs or Denver area around these days? I did a search only found reviews of Korean providers from last year.