milesabove23

Certainly did not mean to incite any type of argument. Being new to the hobby I didn’t necessarily understand the value of screening. After my initial post and doing more research I figured out there is value for both sides. I would never think of not paying someone, in fact, I imagine I will pay more than the agreed upon rate with my first experience (and those subsequent) because that is the type of person I am. I get not everyone is that way so color me naive with my initial comments. On one hand I’m quite excited about this hobby but in the other hand some of the harsh words have given me pause. I’m a laid back guy and really don’t want to use my time in he hobby associate with people that are going to be harsh. I get enough of that in my professional career. I’m going try to stay positive though.

Just wanted everyone that saw this thread or participated that I did join P411. Being a newbie I did it without any references and took as many steps as possible to remain anonymous in the event they ever get hacked. (Information over the phone, money order through mail, etc). Thank you to all on here that send me PMs offering words of encouragement and pieces of advice. I’m interested to give this hobby a try though I’m pretty picky so we shall see how long I deliberate before finally scheduling a provider. I have learned a good deal about “the process” so hopefully I don’t make a fool of myself the first time out! Not too worried about the etiquette part as I try to respect all persons regardless of the walk of life they come from. Anyway, thanks again to all. Hope to be a valuable member of the board for many years to come.

Happy Sunday. I love stories like this. The emotional intelligence of animals is so under appreciated by so many.

I paid for VIP on TER. I provided all my information that I intend to use as I get in to the hobby as well.

ok, I apologize. As I said I am a newbie, don’t have experience other than research I have done online. Apparently, what I had in mind is not ok. I guess I can understand why. I get it: I know I am safe and normal but someone else doesn’t and needs to have assurance. So to go a different direction could I get any advice on P411 providers that will see newbies without references so I can become P411 verified? The fact that I live in a rural area is likely going to make that tough but if I must travel to meet someone to get references then I can. The protection of my identity is of utmost concern. I apologize to anyone I may have offended.

I’m a complete newbie and I was hoping I could get some advice from a member on how to obtain P411 status without giving any of my real personal identifiable info. I get some don’t agree with the strategy but I don’t want my info somewhere that may get hacked. I have a SO and don’t want to change that. With the above being said I would greatly appreciate a fellow member sending me a private message on how I could get whitelisted by P411 girls and then work my way to P411 through references. I am VIP on TER. I know there are some that will give reviews without actual encounters. This may be helpful giving I live in a rural area with very few providers and am only going to be able to see anyone when I travel for business. TIA for any help. Again please PM me if you could.