You are right Jez...
While I am a major fan of; "black seamed thigh high stockings w/ back seam , cum-fuck-me high heels, and a short skirt", I don't think the risk of drawing unwanted attention is worth it.
I will gladly wait for a lady to change into that attire after she arrives and we are both comfortable with the meeting.
One of my most memorable meetings was with a young lady who looked like she was headed to a business meeting. Skirt just above the knees and a matching jacket. Once we were BCD further investigation revealed thigh highs with no panties and no blouse or bra under the jacket. It was hot to make those discoveries.