I am appalled at my recent experience here in Denver. I had three well reviewed providers flake out on me in the past 24 hours (well on review I only count two). One just stops replying while working out the last of the details for a date, then out of the blue replies the next day with hello, i give a whos this since i erased last nights convo... I get a name, I reply oh I wondered where you went... then dead cold, nothing. Keep seeing posts from this girl after through the evening and this morning.
Next one is someone I've seen 3 times. Very very well reviewed. Set up a date around 630 for 9pm (hour later than I requested but thats when shes available, cool with me) and mention as long as you wont be tired she promises she wont be shes just cooking and catching up laundry... i take the hour plus to get cleaned up and freshened up and ready myself... and then no contact the rest of the night... just leaves me hanging after I drove to her area and no reply with an address comes. I start to think maybe shes done this to me before...? Cant remember. This one hurts.
Now Im all clean and ready and am ready all over ya know... wtf. So I contact the partner of a traveling duo that I got verified with earlier in the week and it appears that the one I verified with is not here since no ads from her anymore just her partner in crime posting every 15min... seems like she may be available now, hustling for work. I contact her and let her know I believe I was verified by her partner and I think her partner may be gone (i reviewed those texts with her partner I had and it said "okay screening went well") she replies, "she here by me now"... alright! Sweet! Maybe I can meet both of them like I originally wanted. I ask are you two available now?
Ten min later, I get "after youre screened"
I immediately send the screen shot of the conversation with her partner where she says I was already screened. Wait a few minutes and get nothing back... its now after 10pm and I decide Im just done with games and too tired and fuck it Im done. So I let her know I'm changing my mind and just staying in for the night. I cant really count this as flaking but jfc get your shit together if shes "there by you now" how hard is it to communicate?
This was my birthday week and I couldnt be more disappointed. I am a good guy, I dont haggle more often I tip for good service, I leave reviews because I know those count, I take at least an hour to shower, scrub and shave and get smelling good just like if I was going on a date. Im respectful and considerate.
Ladies, our time is valuable too. There are as many flaky, crap serving, excuse making girls out there as there are guys who bail and smell and lie and waste your time. If you expect better, you need to act better.
Now I really dont care to waste my time with any of these options anymore. Im certain I'm not the only good guy that has done the same with these girls. Eventually, these providers will only be able to get calls from people like themselves. The ones who string them on with endless texts, waste thier time, haggle prices and in the end dont end up meeting. They will blame the guys, or their phones or thier cat or dog. Anyone but looking at themselves and where they drop the ball and got themselves to this point.
Idk but I never had this kind of consistent BS from other major cities.