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Everything posted by Ms T DDD

  1. Assholes threatening providers

    Yes, please let us know what is going on so we may be prepared and try to help you and others from this abuse.
  2. Assholes threatening providers

    I just laugh at them and tell them to " Bring it on!! "
  3. What happened to the BDSM sites?

    I have had many inquiries about this service, and I was thinking of trying it. Any thoughts anyone??
  4. What happened to the BDSM sites?

    S0, I was thinking of offering a 30 min introductory session. I have been watching videos and reading up on what to wear, techniques, styles and so forth. I certainly want to make sure I follow and respect all rules and comfort levels of me and my client. I would prefer to start with a client I know and we are both comfortable with one another. I have ordered some supplies via Amazon and will start creating my massage room into a dom masterpiece! I would like to make it easy for me to switch from BDSM back to massage. I am still trying to find a website that will let me and my girlfriend post our services. So far I have only seen hook up sites. Email me when you have time if you can lend more information. Thank you, T
  5. What happened to the BDSM sites?

    Its been quite the challenge. Ive joined Tryst, as they have a BDSM section where providers can post an ad. It takes up to 45 days to be approved on Tryst......I'm still waiting.
  6. What happened to the BDSM sites?

    Thank you. So much research to do!!
  7. What happened to the BDSM sites?

    I appreciate you. I'll reach out.
  8. What happened to the BDSM sites?

    Thank you. I've been looking around and all I see is dating or hookups for BDSM.
  9. What happened to the BDSM sites?

  10. 30 minute or less appointments

    Negotiating at ALL is a way to get blacklisted with me! I get what you are putting down Caressa.
  11. 30 minute or less appointments

    LOL like they actually READ your website!! I ignore a dozen guys a day because they go straight to my contact page and skip over ALL my crucial information and requirements!
  12. Etiquette for meetups

    Ehhh maybe not, I would ask the lady first. I do not drink, so if a new friend brought me would be wasted. I love flowers, some ladies don't. So I would ask before you spend your money. Instead of spending your money on a gift, give her a tip. That is always appreciated!
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  14. How to deal with threats! need support.

    Oh I know! They prey on new ladies. They usually stay away from the OG's (original gangstas) like us! I laugh at them and say....bring it on 🤣
  15. How to deal with threats! need support.

    Yes, there are still a few trolls out there who get a kick out of scaring providers! It's sad, and can be very scary for new ladies. I would just ignore them and make sure to add them to all blacklists. Changing rooms and your roommate is a good idea too!
  16. Anyone else here been screwed with nonstop lately?

    Deposits girl! I won't book ANY appointment without one! If you think they won't pay one.....think again! if they want to see you, they will give you the world! Take the advice of a mature provider who has been around for a long time and has been drug through the mud until I realized years ago that I deserve better! After I started requiring deposits, the quality of my clients have changed from average to absolutely outstanding! . The respect, kindness, generosity. No more " oh sorry something came up" or " Uh I got called into work....sorry" or simply NCNS . I never worry again and it is wonderful! PM me if you would like to know how I do it. Taylor xoxo
  17. TOB Pet Peeves

    I hate that too! It is just laziness on their part . It's like get off your ass and do your research if you are interested. READ our sites, ads reviews ect.

    Hello fine ladies and gentlemen, myself , a few other providers and clients received this email. It is a SCAM! The mods do not use this type of verbiage and can spell correctly! The sender is: Here is the email: Hey there , WARNING Your account needs to re-signed Your profile is offline for violating one or more of our site policies. We are informing you that since there is a lot of fake account created for scamming. We have started to filter out them. So logging in your account Theother Board and answers some quick question to safe your profile from being flagged. Confirm Account :- VERIFY YOUR ACCOUNT Need some help? Check out our support Centre. All the best, The TheOther Board Team💜
  19. Block only fans listings

    Are you paying for these ladies ads to post? Then mind your own business! Don't like it? DON'T LOOK!
  20. Anyone notice a lot of men low balling them

    Ignore them! Then, let the ladies know so we won't waste our time on their inconsiderate, cheap asses! 😁
  21. Left behind items

    I was doing a deep cleaning of my spare work room yesterday and found an very expensive piece of mans jewelry. No one has reached out to me about losing it so I don't know what to do! I am an honest person and this item must be very special to someone. I have no idea how long it has been in my room (I am guessing 5-7 months) I do not want to invade my clients privacy by texting or emailing everyone I have seen in the past 6 months. I was thinking of putting up a post, but then everyone will say they lost it! Ugh! Any suggestions??
  22. Left behind items

    So, I found a box containing: key chains, socks, a little league baseball cap, a duck whistle, a bank card, a folded up 20 dollar bill, a bill fold with cute baby pictures in it, shorts and old Nuggets tickets! Ha!
  23. References and Reviews

    I completely agree!
  24. References and Reviews

    My rule is if a client I have seen was a decent, respectful man, then I tell him I would be happy to give him a reference to another provider who reaches out to me via text, email or phone. If he wants a reference on TOB, then I ask for a short, nice review. It is a simple you help me, I help you. If he asks for a reference and will not review me, I decline. Not cool. It's like wait a minute... I helped you out. It is very easy to write a simple one paragraph review since we are giving them an OK . After my sessions I always inform my clients of review and reference polices, so there is no confusion or hard feelings. I recently had a client ask me for a reference and I asked him to write me a simple nice review. Crickets..... he could not give me the decency for a reply. He had already known my reference and review policies. If a provider reaches out to me about him, I will give him an ok, no problem! But, I find it very offensive if I am left in a position of just giving, and I do not get a simple review stating the experience he had with me. We providers build our good reputation on these reviews. So, I get you Brooke, it is sad that some people will not give back when you give to them. Just blow it off, and next time... don't do it!