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  1. Sounds like you could use some reading up on the art of GFE/BFE.

    This isn't like blindly stabbing at the yellow pages for some dental relief.  It's a date, usually on both sides.  We don't want it to feel like the lunch time drive thru, either.  Find a lady you can build some rapport with. A few sexy messages, flirt, see some personality.  Work on building desire for HER, and that feels reciprocated. You're allowed to have some feelings like that.(and we won't tell!)  Take your time enjoying each other; maybe you find some gorgeously mad chemistry, or a sexy "friendship", or some hearts of gold and grit that you admire.  We are all human beings, do a little research for someone you can possibly desire past the 10 seconds of jizz.  


    Give a little, get a little; it's more complex than just a wallet and open legs.  And sometimes, if it still feels like McDonald's, at least maybe it's the best one you've been to in a loonnnggg time!



  2. If you aren't using social media/twitter, I'd advise you at least get signed up.  Take your time and get acclimated, be as discreet or out there as you feel comfortable with.  I have been really impressed with still being able to reach so much of the community, news, marketing, advertising, and having some pleasant fun.  Given the recent nervousness that abounds, I'm really glad I got on there a few months ago.




  3. NOT.    But I am badass and I know it, every day.  I try my best, and that's good enough.  I know where I've been, and I know where I'm going.   Either you can ride along, or step off. 


    Love yourself, but don't ever forget to care for those around you----or else, declutter(before they do).


  4. I recently had a request to schedule with a TS provider.  Since I have been on a quest to broaden my horizons, as well as better understand the louder voice of the more alternative lifestyle choices of late, I accepted.   My experience was this was a dressed female, dress, makeup.  Boobs.  Yet a fully functional male with penis, able to cum. Some of the more angular features of a man, but overall looking and presenting like a woman.


  5. Some expressively don't allow it.  If you don't see it listed, it's probably acceptable if you are done in the timeframe allowed.  Sometimes you can ask, or just at least state that you are interested in msog.  But, the best is once the session has started, let her know that you are trying for two.  We don't read minds.  Either you might end up feeling rushed, and done, or she will fill up the time with chatter and cuddling and the time will get away from you.  Telling her in the last few minutes that you wanted to try again, is not great.