jaarm

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  1. Donation instead of tip?

    Yes like if I have my apartment cleaned if it is through a service and they are employees I will tip them. If it’s an independent person that has their own one-person company then their rate reflects what they want for the job, so there’s no point to a tip. In fact before I knew this I tried tipping an independent contractor and I got the tip refused and a lecture in price points.
  2. I never really understood the idea of a cash tip for someone who is determining their own rates anyways. I guess this is just part of this world but usually a tip is supposed to be for a salaried person. I do tip (and tip well) but was recently thinking what if I instead of tipping made a donation to an organization that would seem important to the person based on their website or profile, then give them the confirmation of the donation at the end. What would you ladies think about this? Would it be looked negatively on like “Gimme my money, wtf is this?” Or would it be seen positively like wow not only did this person find something important to my heart but also through our time together we did something good for the world? Curious about your thoughts.
  3. Hi, am relatively new to this so sorry about the question. I have only been with one provider before. I am returning to her city but would prefer to see other providers. Is it bad to ask that provider to be the reference for the others even though they're in the same city? She will know that I am in town, clearly, and I don't want to hurt her feelings. What should I do in this situation? Should I send her a small gift for providing the reference as a way of thanks?
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