scars&staples

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  1. First meet - ladies outfits

    True, but there is an adventure in taking those clothes off. least I've always thought so. kinda like seeing a beautiful woman in Jeans and wondering... what's she wearing under those...
  2. What’s your ATF book to recommend??

    American Tabloid by James Elroy, just a great throwback to the Camelot/JFK era. I agree w/ mountainrider, Angels&Demons was that one book I read in one sitting. By far better than DVC, but I am probably bias as I read it first. Course the books are always better than the movies... Now that's a topic for a thread...lol.. Although if anyone has a sense of nostalgia for the 80's and the video game era, Ready Player One was fantastic. I listened to it, narrated by Will Weaton, and really enjoyed it. Find myself listening to more books than reading now a days.
  3. Alternative screening ideas. I want to know.

    Sincerely ladies and gents, thank you for the replies on this topic. The only hope is, that if it's been so long that the references you use actually remember you and in a positive light.
  4. Alternative screening ideas. I want to know.

    Not to hijack the thread, but for someone like myself who is seriously considering getting back in the game, how old is too old for the references to be valid? I know some of you wonderful ladies have said 1 year, and that sounds fair. So should I assume that's a good standard to go with? Thx.
  5. Zombie or Alien?

    Both, as many have said, if done right. I do love how there have been some not so serious versions of zombie movies, Zombieland and Shawn of the Dead to name two. https://youtu.be/1tdZ_k0eaHo Alien movies, I was a huge fan of STNG and X-Files. (did not catch the revival) Aliens will always be one of my top 10. As far as what's more probable? Zombies, a bio weapon cooked up by our own govt gone sideways would be probable. Aliens,? Till we stop killing each other they are probably following their own prime directive of staying away from us.
  6. PAIN

    I used to post a long while back and started lurking again. this thread drew me back in and inspired me to comment. So here goes. Amber, so sorry to hear about your big toe, a broken toe is one thing, but to have it be your big toe has got to be worse than any other, especially when you depend on putting weight on it for balance! Hope you are healing up alright. I've seen the inside of too many ER's, I've had plenty of staples and lots of scars to go with which makes me worry about getting 'older'. Hell I am already old, just took a while to get here. Personally I survived an auto accident years ago and spending time in the gym helps keep the pain at bay but with every passing bday I worry when the arthritis and joint pain will set in from the accident. Last thing anyone wants is to feel like the cant do what they want to. And, it takes a toll on one's personal self worth and confidence. Put on a brave face, but damn looking in the mirror is hard. Especially when everyone around you has moved on, but you live with the reflection in the mirror. Probably another way of putting it would be, the body healed, but has the heart and mind? I fi d now it is important that both heal, in order to move forward. I could babble on about this, but its not my thread. thx for reading.
  7. What to do in Boulder?

    Glad I moved on, It's truly a beautiful city... but damn am I glad I live in a different zip code...
  8. so if you have few hrs to spare in Denver...

    Venture to Union Station, get yourself a drink at the terminal bar and do a little people watching..
  9. What to do in Boulder?

    I humbly admit when I'm wrong so I"ll clarify. it wasn't the early 90's but late 90s.. I'll never deny that CU is party town USA with one hell of a great college atmosphere. That's undeniable!! I never said house parties didn't happen, because that's ridiculous and counter to the reputation that CU has gotten over the years. I specifically said block parties, AKA Riots.. Specifically the 1997 Riots while I was attending classes. Specifically students dragging couches out into the middle of the street and lighting them on fire.. Now obviously 20 years and my memory may lapse but video doesn't lie.. Not exactly a bright spot, but hey, every city has it's bumps and bruises. That being said, Boulder does have that perfect balance between urban development and respecting nature. As for locations that are no longer there... Old Chicago closed down off Pearl ST you got me.. However, Southern Sun is off Broadway just south of Table Mesa Dr. http://www.mountainsunpub.com/contact.htm According Salvaggio's Deli, the location I was referring to is still there. http://www.salvaggiosdeli.us/ The trails are still there, NCAR is still there.. https://bouldercolorado.gov/osmp/mount-sanitas-trailhead beyond the above, Boulder has a lot to offer, and is worth the gas to drive there from Denver.
  10. What to do in Boulder?

    I didn't know about the domestic issue. All I remember from the place was two sizes. One on a bun style roll and the other your typical sub style. Just remember the Italian being so damn good, and the people working there had a good brash sort of 'atitude' encouraging you to know your order before stepping up. All in good fun. Half my memory os about the food, half about the people who worked there. But that was at least 15 years ago...
  11. What to do in Boulder?

    Mostly University Police cracked down on the block parties in the early 90's. Too many rentals with couches on their front porch ended up getting lit on fire. A friend of a friend (fighting the urge to quote darth helmet here) got caught up in one of the block parties/ AKA riots and ended up getting expelled from CU, losing his scholarship, and getting put on house arrest for the better part of a year. Even when I was young I knew well enough to stay away from the hill at the time. This was about the same time Boulder PD couldn't solve the Ramsey murder, so they had a black eye from that mess and tried to tighten down on the hill with University Police in support. Probably messing up the details here as it's been almost 20 years. On the bright side... when I did attend CU I loved the campus. the quad as it was called between Helems, Old main, the Library and one other building (which escapes me) was always a great place to people watch. Great places to go in Boulder: Salvagio's Deli off Pearl, great subs...(if it's still there) Mt Sanitas - Quick 2 hr hike, drive up mapleton past the old BMC and you'll see the trail head. if you are lucky you can park there or you might have to park up the street a bit. but once you hike to the peak which is not too difficult but not too easy either, you have a beautiful view of the entire city. yoiu can see as far north as Longmont, and into Denver. The Hike back down is an easy switchback type that leads to a maintenance road. Great for a good 2 hr distraction but not difficult. Eldorado Springs to the south has a great trail head with some easy hikes too. (and a hot springs near by if it's still open) Of course if you want a scenic hike, the Mesa Trail will take you from Eldorado Springs to NCAR to Chautauqua Park. not long, about 6 miles... but go with someone, park one car at the Eldorado Springs Trail head, drive to Chautauqua Park, do the hike, head back into town, get a bear at Southern Sun off Broadway, or hit Old Chicago off Pearl St. see some street performers and be entertained. I certainly hope they are still there. Lots to avoid in Boulder, but it still has a lot to offer.
  12. What is Your Must See TV Shows

    I believe the actor got violent with a producer. And after years of being verbally abusive they'd had enough.
  13. What is Your Must See TV Shows

    I miss Justified.... Enjoy watching Longmire too. While i was late to the party and didnt watch it during its run Penny Dreadful is just crazy good. And can't pass up on Eva Green.... (+1 for netflix!!) Always enjoyed The Shield, and BSG. And damn if GoT isn't addictive!! Has anyone watched " The Expanse" on Syfy or "Bosch" On Amazon prime?
  14. What's something that's unique to Colorado?

    Holly, If I may, and I guess I am bias with this statement, after living here for 40+ years but try to enjoy every sunset you can in Colorado. Each is equally unique. I could suggest trails to explore, events to experience, and lots of good food to eat. Everyone's suggestions are fantastic and should be experienced. But, I've always been amazed at how beautiful a sunset is over the Rockies.
  15. Who worries about this problem...

    Truth is always stranger than fiction. One only has to look at the 5 o'clock news for proof...
  16. Black and White or Color Photos

    I completely agree on selfies, so many phones now a days have better resolution and picture quality than the camera I got just a few years ago. And there are adapters that can help too. I think the "creative selfie" is an art form which used well can be very effective. Thats why I was careful to specify the type of selfie. I will admit, I am a fan of women's certain assets, I do look for certain things in photos, if I don't quite see what I am looking for in pics I don't loose hope because i enjoy the mystery and seduction photos create. I think photos can also be helpful if you have a certain fantasy of an outfit a provider might have, so seeing her in it in a photo she might have is..... inspirational.
  17. Black and White or Color Photos

    Photos tend to reflect a person's style so I'd expect them to express mystery, seduction and a little tease too. Especially here. A mix of b&w along with color is always a good thing, ust so long as the photos are accurate and flattering (of course they'd be!) I say have at it post what you think makes you look good. That said, I am not a fan of the selfie photo, taken as a reflection in the mirror in someone's bathroom. We can all do better than that.
  18. What's something that's unique to Colorado?

    Voodoo Donuts....mmmmhmmm!!
  19. Your Favorite Articles on Sex Work, Skills

    If I am hijacking, I apologize...
  20. What Is Your Favorite Summer Tune?

    Summer time makes me think of road trips... And this song always comes to mind
  21. Your Favorite Articles on Sex Work, Skills

    Besides the 'connection' we are all trying to get emotionally with what we are saying, what's everyone's thoughts on eye contact? Eye contact can convey so much, from disinterest to an emotional connection conveying empathy and truly enjoying someone's presence. What's that old saying "The eyes are a window to the soul." I am a newbie but is eye contact something we all want?
  22. The demise of porno theaters.

    Been years since i was in the Bus Stop. I think it was in it's last iteration where they'd split the building. I still remember getting my first lap dance from a beautiful brunette in a gold thong.. YEARS ago.. but damn if that visual isn't still fresh. I remember in college seeing a classmate who worked there as a waitress. Some guy made an ass out of himself and was carted out in cuffs right in front of her. Not sure if she worked there much longer but I tried being polite while I was there. But what the hell do you say, "Did you finish the assignment from Professor so in so? " Hell no. Ah but those days are gone for Boulder though...
  23. Lurked Here but Always Chickened Out

    I was a lurker on this board for a long time, but the polite welcoming interaction from many of the providers on this site changed my mind too. There's a lot to be said about feeling accepted for who you are. I think the ladies above said it right. If we act like gents, treat the ladies with respect, aim to have fun.. and are clean.. they'll see us.
  24. Last Day, Leaving Town Soon Ads?

    Suppose it would be different if she was touring. If her available dates are posted on PF11 and she's about to leave to head back to her normal hometown, that might be different. Especially if you see her ad regularly on the board. There's one such provider who visits regularly to our fair city, but I am unsure of when she might return. So... for now I'm going to count myself as fortunate we have such wonderful providers who live locally.
  25. all shapes and sizes?

    .I hope we all got a chance to enjoy the fireworks at night, I know from the deck of my back yard it was a frequent light show in all directions. Only moment of excitement beyond the "oohs and ah's" was watching some idiots light a bonfire in their back yard and have the fire dept show up. My only comment on this whole thread is that at the end the day it is a provider's choice to see us or not. To me it's that simple. Safety is above everything else. After the aliens comment I can't get the vision of Kartman with a satellite dish coming out of his was in the pilot episode.... Enjoy your hump day everyone.