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Here's a topic that may have been discussed, and it recently had happened to me. "Bumping" a client to replace his visit with another. The provider I had scheduled a meeting with, whom I've seen three times previously, texts me that something came up and I needed to be rescheduled. I inquired the reason for the change since this had never occurred before. I'm told it's because of a business decision. I asked what that meant, and it was because I was replaced by another gentleman who requested the time I was scheduled to meet. This third person asked for a longer session than what I had asked. Is this a common practice for the ladies to do?

Seen previously, definitely hot co-ed type. A bit too upscale for effort received on my visit. YMMV of course, never hurts to contact reviewers.

Dark chocolate to close out a hard day's work for this hobbyist.

RIP Mr. McCain, great example of a true American.

Café con leche, lol for those who know!

Agreed. Maybe a question for admin for notification pop up option to come.

Legit. Toftt and review is pending approval. Be respectful gentleman.

Numbers 2-5, 11 & 12 have occurred in my short hobby years. Thanks for that!

To you as well! Merica!

LMAO!!! 😂😂😅 No more tunas

The searching for a wonderful mermaid will go on! Thanks.

I really wanted to see the provider, and felt like I had been kicked. So that's why I used that imagery of being wounded in the moment.

Thank you ladies who shared their insight and how they would manage a similar situation. Thank you fellas for your opinion, sharing experiences and how you would handle it. I completely understand there's no set of rules or guidelines to the way scheduling works; the fact that this is a business and livelihood for providers. A hobby and/or break from life for the gentleman. At the end of the day, we chose who we want to see and the manner in which we behave both as client and provider.

Would happen to have the link or name of the topic? I don't believe I read/saw that on the forum.

This would have been my fourth visit with the provider.

Good morning and have a good day Angel!

You never know, either way it stings having this happened. Just a reminder that at times this hobby is a cruel mistress.

Going along with your devils advocate point, financially makes sense now... But that being the case, regulars returning back over the last couple of months would make more financial sense. And yes, I will move on. Thanks!

That little head thinking gets us all eventually lol. Here I was thinking I had found a regular provider. And now, with my tail tucked between my legs I must ponder where to next.

Thank you for the feedback, I know I won't be going back to see her, even if my little head keeps saying to do so. I don't think a negative review is due for this provider, but it still sucks to find out someone is worth more than another. Yes I know this is whining all other members thinking it, but don't take you're regular providers for granted. Treat them respect and kindness. Hopefully they treat you back with some level of decency as this hobby usual provides.

AllisonAngel 925-214-3708 Colorado Companion Saw this gorgeous lady's listing and wondering TGTBT? https://theotherboard.com/users/130795 Anyone that can provide if she's the real deal?

Yeah, that's what happens usually when tgtbt.

Yeah, feels like it's hit or miss again. And it shouldn't be this way on the Tob. Thanks for the input.

Wow, I thought I was alone in this department... I too have recently experienced this failure myself on two different occasions with two different ladies. As mentioned, looks were not the issue and as horrible as it is to admit, I am in my thirties. 😞 I believe the ladies have said it best, you have to relax and stop any negative self talk that maybe be going on cognitively. I was unable to take this advice and excused myself after time was up in both instances.

I've seen a recent provider at an Airbnb, everything was fine until I realized that she had another person staying in the house that day. It made for an awkward initial meeting and having to come up with a quick response as the third party was in the living area making conversation. If I recall, I believe my excuse was that we were classmates from college. Eventually we made our way into the room and I could hear the individual walking around throughout the visit. As far as my two cents as a gentleman, I wouldn't recommend based on my experience LoveLayla. Hope this is helpful. 😀