BlairHart
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Last year was amazing! I'll be there w bells on
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Sounds like the only thing you did wrong was shave that beard I hope you get to relax soon!
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Well keep at it! It is a small pool here but its filled with some lovely AA ladies. Good luck.
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Why are you debating politics while naked?! My politics are very different from my friends but it doesn't matter because we dont have time to talk politics. So many better things to do What black provider doesnt like/allow cunnilingus? Honestly V, your experiences seem like the exception
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Choosing to see a provider without reviews?
BlairHart replied to Gemma Chang's topic in • General-Discussions...
I dont have any reviews. It definitely can hurt business but I am very low volume and my friends appreciate the discretion. Ive been considering being open to reviews if I could trust that they would be real and honest, but so many reviews read like bad smut novels. 😄😄 I think its possible to get by without them but its helpful to all when you have some honest, non graphic ones. -
I actually saw a vibrating ring at WALGREENS of all places. I had to test it out...for science. Verdict: GREAT.
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Did you just...quote Beyonce? You know that quote goes both ways right? Disrespect a providers rules and you'll be the one going to the left (to the left). There can be another you in a minute. We aren't starving here.
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The problem is nobody wants to "own" their discriminatory behavior. Its like pulling teeth to get people to acknowledge they miiiight possibly be being prejudiced. So its hard to have a real convo about this. If Im being honest I care way more about these reviews or comment threads where I see that black providers aren't even an option for clients, or some one time special thing. And make no mistake black guys will absolutely say this crap too. That's what I feel strongly about, not a small pool of providers that don't serve AA in a sea of them...
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Personally I don't say it, and I definitely used to judge girls that did. A fellow AA provider informed me that a lot of black clients have tried to pimp or short her and that its not uncommon. While I refuse to let some bad apples spoil the bunch for ME, I can no longer judge another providers choice. What if they had a traumatic experience? There are usually reasons for that disclaimer. BTW black providers get to read stuff like that all the time on these spaces ("no ebony sorry just my preference", etc). It stings but again, I don't judge. To each their own.
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Not to derail, but Lyft will treat you better than Uber. Not by much lol but you can and will make more
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Sounds about right! Haha glad you had a good time as well. I was so busy taking in the show floor i missed the seminars I wanted to see! Definitely going to go Sunday
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Day one was great!
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I got into sex work at 19. I have a somewhat husky voice so I started doing phone sex. I toyed with the idea of escorting but was too afraid to risk it in the podunk town I was doing my undergrad in. I graduated (from school and to cam) and as a camgirl started domming online and then training IRL to be a prodomme. I had a sugar daddy when I started grad school but he was more like a Splenda daddy lol. I moved to Colorado to get away from a lot of personal crap and finally dived right in. My main regret is not starting escorting sooner. While I still phone and cam when the mood hits, im perpetually horny and this job satisfies my needs way more than feigning sexuality on camera does. Plus being new here, its nice to make new friends, even if im spending most of our friendship time sitting on their face
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"Any of you ladies ever helped a young man become a man?" Sounds like he's already a man, and a great one at that. For what its worth I lost my virginity way later than most and on my own terms and it was wonderful. Unless he specifically comes to you with this request, leave it alone. I wouldn't be comfortable taking that appointment. Im going to ignore the weird homophobic comments as many have already spoken on that...
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Im in the same boat Adriana. Need a review before you can join p411 :/