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About comfortseeker

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  1. New Guy Here - encourage me, PLEASE!

    Yes, married, divorced and brought up 2 children as a single parent. Second wife was ill, stayed by her and took care of her 6+ years until she passed. No intimacy during that period. Was celibate during this because it was in my vows. To me, it's all about the kids. All of my decisions were based on what was on their best interest.
  2. New Guy Here - encourage me, PLEASE!

    Sorry I call BS. You do have a contract, a verbal commitment. It was in your vows. One's word is supposed to mean something. You mention children and you're willing to risk hurting them and their mother. Don't stay in relationship for "the kids" you're doing them no favors. Do them a favor, get a divorce and play all you want. Off my soapbox now.
  3. What is your life philosophy?

    Live for today, hope for tomorrow
  4. Don't be that guy.....

    Tried to but was told at the desk they had a no Wallaby policy 😔
  5. Taxes, the Audit is coming

    I figured I'd get my taxes out of the way early this year so I got HR Blocks software and was "guided" through all of the different areas Income, job related expenses, real estate, etc. I'm being good, trying to be honest and then I got stuck. Did you know there is a place to enter Hobby expenses. I'm sort of wondering now what the IRS is going to say about my return.
  6. Compassion in this life

    One is never lonely when they're a multiple. The arguments are tough but the support system is fabulous
  7. What do you want for Christmas?

    What a beautiful gift
  8. What are your hopes for the New Year?

    It will sound mondain and "Miss America" but I'm hoping that my family and friends have a year filled with happiness and health. Lots of smiles and laughter.
  9. Stop Chasing Another Version of Yourself

    We all know what we want. We often forget to ask ourselves; "what do I need?". I found that defining my needs and pursuing those, makes me happiest. I still have "wants" and when I obtain one of those, it's a bonus.
  10. No towels!

    If I'm coming from work or if I've been riding all day, I usually stop by a Target or Walmart and buy a cheap towel. I don't want to ruin the woman's linen if I miss any dirt when showering (not all dirt will come off you if you don't have a wash cloth).
  11. If sexual styles are just completely different...

    I am amazed and appalled at the same time as to the total disrespect given to Laci and for that matter all of the Ladies. "Suck it up..pun intended", REALLY? These women provide a service, yes it is a chosen profession. And yes, there isn't any job out there that doesn't have bad moments or days. But that doesn't mean one has to surrender their own integrity under the belief "the customer is always right" or "I was told to". It is their business, their bodies, their minds. They get to run it as they see fit to meet their needs. Monetarily, physically, and yes emotionally. Laci asked a simple yet complicated question. Simple in was it right? Complicated because of who she is,and her integrity. She stated what happened and how she handled it. Responses to the question should have been how YOU would feel not derogatory or attacking. Things like, "I would appreciate that" or "I would be upset/disappointed", should have been the answers, not suck it up.
  12. If sexual styles are just completely different...

    You would never have written this if you knew Laci. She is one of the most caring, intelligent, classy people I have ever met. Her integrity is beyond reproach.
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  14. Why don't providers work out?

    Trust you? As far as I've seen you're nothing more than a pompous punk. 'Biggest talker hiding behind a keyboard on TOB" . Pay premium and lurk on BP, and barely legal at that. The women who are on this Board, and for that matter most Providers, are professionals and Ladies. You are the perfect example of entitled beliefs and why "time outs" don't work. I've read that you say you can "write scripts", women are falling all over you, fit as fuck. And hang out on BP. REALLY
  15. Why don't providers work out?

    HEY OP