Jayden James

I've been a longtime lurker of these forums but have never posted before....until I felt the need to tonight. I had a terrible encounter with a previously regular friend of mine on this site. Tonight, after a frustrating encounter due to his recurring ED issues he became aggressive then sent me harassing texts after I left. This is a word of caution to all the ladies out there to always remain safe. I'm saddened that I had to deal with this today. Let's keep this community safe, fun, and respectful as it should be. PM me Ladies and thanks.

Luckily, the vast majority of the friends I’ve met are wonderful people. I refuse to let one idiot stop me from doing something I enjoy. Just gotta warn the ladies and keep on doing what I do

Yes, exactly that attitude is what makes some people think it may be even slightly excusable. How about we just stop saying he may have been stressed, had a bad day, etc. and call a spade a spade? PM sent!

I’ve also had encounters without the grand finale and it was still a great time! Some people, however, choose to take out their personal issues on others rather than become a better person. You also stay safe!

Thankfully respectful people like you make this worthwhile! It is a sad reality that the girls have to deal with these things from time to time. Luckily, 99% of the friends I've seen from here are wonderful gentlemen, it's just the 1% that can make this not so fun.

PM sent! I'm happy to see all the ladies being proactive about safety!

Simply put, they're not men. I sincerely appreciate all the real gentlemen out there.

I'm sorry you've had to deal with that also! It can be quite disheartening when someone you've seen many times decides to show their ugly side. You stay safe also and enjoy your day!

If only it were that easy! A girl can wish lol.

Agreed! What I love about this community is our ability to have safe and fun encounters. I would never act belligerent or aggressive towards the friends I meet on here or other sites and expected the same in return.